Any of you fools reside in Seattle?

[-SD-]

Im sure there is a plethora of horny cyberdudes dying to hookup with the new chick in town

 

[ceo]

Hi Rachel!!!!!!!!!!! cindylou and I were just talking about you earlier today, and here you are! Good to hear from you and sorry things have been lackluster in your new town and difficult with the relationship. So what's he going to do about it? IMO it's kind of shitty you were just getting ready to take a different direction in your life and part of that whole experience is being put on hold.

Have you made any friends at work or in your building? Are you hanging out with anyone? It's great you have your dog there now. That will help with the loneliness. But you really need to make some friends honey. A good lookin, smart, fun girl like you shouldn't have any problem making a bunch of friends. Does your old gym have any reciprocal agreements with any of the gyms out there maybe? If so maybe you can work something out.

 

[lartinos]

You are dumb to just shutdown like that. I like your posts on here and think you should post more. Elite is a way to escape the World and experience it another way. Facebook too. Probably should give it time there, but if it sucks that bad and you can't deal with it than leave.

 

[ceo]

Rachel will do fine there bro.

 

[EnderJE]

You are dumb to just shutdown like that. I like your posts on here and think you should post more. Elite is a way to escape the World and experience it another way. Facebook too. Probably should give it time there, but if it sucks that bad and you can't deal with it than leave.

You should right a book or something.

 

[Spartacus]

I could
if you present a good case

 

[Spartacus]

I apologize for not knowing the history of the thread
that's part of the bargain

 

[Rachel...lol]

Im sure there is a plethora of horny cyberdudes dying to hookup with the new chick in town

not interested

Hi Rachel!!!!!!!!!!! cindylou and I were just talking about you earlier today, and here you are! Good to hear from you and sorry things have been lackluster in your new town and difficult with the relationship. So what's he going to do about it?

At this point - nothing. He did come out here for my birthday. Though he complained a good deal about spending money (I still hadn't received a paycheck). Oh yeah - his house will be paid off next month, so it's not like he doesn't have the $$, though I suppose that's why he's flush - he's frugal.

IMO it's kind of shitty you were just getting ready to take a different direction in your life and part of that whole experience is being put on hold.

Agreed

Have you made any friends at work or in your building? Are you hanging out with anyone? It's great you have your dog there now. That will help with the loneliness. But you really need to make some friends honey. A good lookin, smart, fun girl like you shouldn't have any problem making a bunch of friends. Does your old gym have any reciprocal agreements with any of the gyms out there maybe? If so maybe you can work something out.

My team is pretty small - and it's a software company. I was only the third woman hired into the company. Not hanging out with anybody. yes, dog is a big help - he got me up at 5:45, apparently he didn't read the memo about time zone changes. It's good though - I have laundry going, he and I walked for about half an hour, I'm going to paint my nails and I still don't have to leave to get to work for more than an hour.

No reciprocity agreements between my gym and any others outside of Michigan.... I think I'm going to train for a marathon, that will give me some purpose. I haven't been a serious runner since I fractured my hip five years ago when I was training for a race.

 

[ceo]

At this point - nothing. He did come out here for my birthday. Though he complained a good deal about spending money (I still hadn't received a paycheck). Oh yeah - his house will be paid off next month, so it's not like he doesn't have the $$, though I suppose that's why he's flush - he's frugal.

The fuck??? He came to see you and he complained about spending the money to come (when you still hadn't gotten paid)????? Tell him not to bother coming back! Fuck that guy. That's my opinion. You don't need that. That's just more stress. Make a clean break Rachel. You don't have time for that bullshit.

If you don't do it now you'll most likely have many more months of frustration and wasted time and money, only to break up again after all that and be feeling even more lonely at your new home than you do now. Drop the dead weight. It's just bringing you down.

Agreed

Sounds like you know what to do...

My team is pretty small - and it's a software company. I was only the third woman hired into the company. Not hanging out with anybody. yes, dog is a big help - he got me up at 5:45, apparently he didn't read the memo about time zone changes. It's good though - I have laundry going, he and I walked for about half an hour, I'm going to paint my nails and I still don't have to leave to get to work for more than an hour.

Start a happy hour outing every Thursday night. A buddy of mine did this when he moved to a new town and it grew like crazy. He would get emails of people he met and put them on a list. He planned outings weeks in advance and kept updating the list (as it grew of course). It wasn't always meeting at a bar either, sometimes it would be going to the opening of a new art exhibit or a movie showing outside at a park.

No reciprocity agreements between my gym and any others outside of Michigan.... I think I'm going to train for a marathon, that will give me some purpose. I haven't been a serious runner since I fractured my hip five years ago when I was training for a race.

Didn't you run a race not too long ago? Year or two maybe? I think that would be great for you. You need good things to do to stay busy.

 

[Spartacus]

and why when labeled a "fool" in the thread title
you post