Another internet romance goes bust...

[anabolicmd]

Whats up brolys, man im bummed out my girl dumped me the moment she saw a pic of my face. This after she told me she was ok with how I looked, I mean I posted enough about my looks and I told her many times that Im a pretty boy in the non-traditional sense. This girl totally lead me on, sent me nude pics of herself and we even progressed to cyber sex including anal. We exchanged passionate emails and we had big plans for real life, we even had a meet up date. We had so much in common too, we both come from foreign families and neither of us has living grandparents. As I said, what appeared to be the perfect love story ended the day I posted a pic of my face. All of a sudden she grew cold and distant. When I email her I get an automated notice that she is on vacation and wont be back for three years at least. Like they said before, I guess two people can have the most beautiful spiritual connection over the internet but it doesnt mean nothing if your face isnt buff enough. What should I do brolys?

 

[Imnotdutch]

Aw get a life will ya...........no matter what people say, the majority do value looks in a partner.........and for many the internet is just a fantasy world. You destroyed her fantasy by making it real!! Step outside your door and meet some real girls.......

Whats up brolys, man im bummed out my girl dumped me the moment she saw a pic of my face. This after she told me she was ok with how I looked, I mean I posted enough about my looks and I told her many times that Im a pretty boy in the non-traditional sense. This girl totally lead me on, sent me nude pics of herself and we even progressed to cyber sex including anal. We exchanged passionate emails and we had big plans for real life, we even had a meet up date. We had so much in common too, we both come from foreign families and neither of us has living grandparents. As I said, what appeared to be the perfect love story ended the day I posted a pic of my face. All of a sudden she grew cold and distant. When I email her I get an automated notice that she is on vacation and wont be back for three years at least. Like they said before, I guess two people can have the most beautiful spiritual connection over the internet but it doesnt mean nothing if your face isnt buff enough. What should I do brolys?

 

[confusedmushie]

What's funny, was that my first long term relationship was an internet relationship. It was great, it was one of those fantacy internet relationships, she was a software engineer and a parts time freelance model. We hit if off pretty good and was together for 5 years. We met after 2~3 month of talking, never had cyber, never saw a picture of her. I guess I was just lucky. Now, 8 years later, it seems that the internet has progressed and romance over the net is getting harder and harder. I would not tell you to give up, it's out there, but just have to be careful.

Ian

Whats up brolys, man im bummed out my girl dumped me the moment she saw a pic of my face. This after she told me she was ok with how I looked, I mean I posted enough about my looks and I told her many times that Im a pretty boy in the non-traditional sense. This girl totally lead me on, sent me nude pics of herself and we even progressed to cyber sex including anal. We exchanged passionate emails and we had big plans for real life, we even had a meet up date. We had so much in common too, we both come from foreign families and neither of us has living grandparents. As I said, what appeared to be the perfect love story ended the day I posted a pic of my face. All of a sudden she grew cold and distant. When I email her I get an automated notice that she is on vacation and wont be back for three years at least. Like they said before, I guess two people can have the most beautiful spiritual connection over the internet but it doesnt mean nothing if your face isnt buff enough. What should I do brolys?

 

[anabolicmd]

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Aw get a life will ya...........no matter what people say, the majority do value looks in a partner

And what is your pioint? Like I said, I had discussed my looks at length. It was never an issue until I posted the pic. How can someone so sweet caring and sensitive be so superficial?

 

[Imnotdutch]

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And what is your pioint? Like I said, I had discussed my looks at length. It was never an issue until I posted the pic. How can someone so sweet caring and sensitive be so superficial?

Until you posted the pic she could imagine you how she wanted to.........when you posted pics she oculdnt do that........she had to deal with the real you. Reckon it is better that you find out how she really was now than later though.

 

[confusedmushie]

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Don't be so touchy man, there was actually no point to my post, just past experience. This is a superficial society, no doubts about it. I don't care what people say, the way a person looks is the first things how a person's judged. Maybe you just didn't appeal to her, don't think too much into it. Besides, for me, it will be hard to take someone seriously when they don't even know you and they are cybering with ya. There are plenty of people out there that's just looking for the moment of fun. Don't beat yourself over it man!

Ian

And what is your pioint? Like I said, I had discussed my looks at length. It was never an issue until I posted the pic. How can someone so sweet caring and sensitive be so superficial?

 

[anabolicmd]

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Until you posted the pic she could imagine you how she wanted to.........when you posted pics she oculdnt do that........she had to deal with the real you. Reckon it is better that you find out how she really was now than later though.

I guess you are right in asense. But my guess is that youve never been in love so deeply that you cant sleep, you eat piza and ice cream all day, youre going through a case of Hamms in an afternoon, and checking your email 4000 times a day....

 

[Imnotdutch]

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I guess you are right in asense. But my guess is that youve never been in love so deeply that you cant sleep, you eat piza and ice cream all day, youre going through a case of Hamms in an afternoon, and checking your email 4000 times a day....

I thought that I was in love several times..........now I'm a bit too cynical for love and just enjoy getting laid

 

[gsxr1000]

Whats up brolys, man im bummed out my girl dumped me the moment she saw a pic of my face. This after she told me she was ok with how I looked, I mean I posted enough about my looks and I told her many times that Im a pretty boy in the non-traditional sense. This girl totally lead me on, sent me nude pics of herself and we even progressed to cyber sex including anal.

I'm curious, how to get a woman to give up the anal over the internet? Do you have to use any extra lube on the mouse???

 

[anabolicmd]

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Don't be so touchy man, the way a person looks is the first things how a person's judged. Maybe you just didn't appeal to her, don't think too much into it.

Im not trying to be touchy but you guys keep going back to the looks thing and I understand physical attraction but you just arent getting the lvel of "connection" we had developed. I know this girl on a level most people dont even know exists. Even if I was ugly it wouldnt haver mattered, and come on guys I may not be every ladies cup of tea but I know Im not ugly.