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Believe it or not, my attraction to males is NOT for the sex. Not to say I do not find women attractive. I had sex with 2-3 different girls every week when I was in college.
Much like you are attracted to feminine qualities and traits, I am attracted to masculine ones. You don't really like androgenous women (dykes or well built female bodybuilders) do you? Even if you find them attractive in some way on the rare occassion, you still do not find yourself attracted to them. Correct? It is the opposite for me. I don't like feminine qualities or traits in a guy. I don't like queens or twinkies. Not to say some of the young men that are twinkies do not possess gorgeous faces or nice bodies, while they are attractive, I am not attracted to them. What I do like is strong classical "manly" features. Strong jawline and chin, wide shoulder structure (natural not gym related. None of the guys I have ever dated were bodybuilders), average to narrow waist, thin lips, masculine hands (you wouldn't like veiny hands on a woman would you) and light body hair. While you like soft bodies, I like firm ones.
Much like you don't find a lot of straight women with hairy legs like lesbians, you don't find a lot of gay men with hairy backs, asses and balls like straight men. So naturally, they have to possess above average beauty before I notice them. While that is shallow, your first impression and thought upon seeing someone is not about their charming personality. They have to possess a handsome face. Next I look at the body and the body language. No fats, no slouchs, no smokers, no one with typical MTV raised body language or movements. If I do speak with them, I expect them to be witty, intelligent, cultured, experienced, articulate, and have a good vocabulary. Teach me something, tell me something new, share a decent opinion (either good or bad makes no difference as long as it is honest and well put) about something I have seen, done, traveled to, or experience.
If I do have a date with them and when we have sex, they go crazy when they see my dick... they are out of here. Not to say that lust is bad or I don't like tigers in bed. But if you name my dick, worship my dick, talk to my dick, etc.. on the first date.. forget it. I would rather them pay attention to the other 90% of what my dick is attached to.
In all, what works for your attraction to mates are the same thing that works for me in my attraction to mates. Only in opposite genders.
Much like you are attracted to feminine qualities and traits, I am attracted to masculine ones. You don't really like androgenous women (dykes or well built female bodybuilders) do you? Even if you find them attractive in some way on the rare occassion, you still do not find yourself attracted to them. Correct? It is the opposite for me. I don't like feminine qualities or traits in a guy. I don't like queens or twinkies. Not to say some of the young men that are twinkies do not possess gorgeous faces or nice bodies, while they are attractive, I am not attracted to them. What I do like is strong classical "manly" features. Strong jawline and chin, wide shoulder structure (natural not gym related. None of the guys I have ever dated were bodybuilders), average to narrow waist, thin lips, masculine hands (you wouldn't like veiny hands on a woman would you) and light body hair. While you like soft bodies, I like firm ones.
Much like you don't find a lot of straight women with hairy legs like lesbians, you don't find a lot of gay men with hairy backs, asses and balls like straight men. So naturally, they have to possess above average beauty before I notice them. While that is shallow, your first impression and thought upon seeing someone is not about their charming personality. They have to possess a handsome face. Next I look at the body and the body language. No fats, no slouchs, no smokers, no one with typical MTV raised body language or movements. If I do speak with them, I expect them to be witty, intelligent, cultured, experienced, articulate, and have a good vocabulary. Teach me something, tell me something new, share a decent opinion (either good or bad makes no difference as long as it is honest and well put) about something I have seen, done, traveled to, or experience.
If I do have a date with them and when we have sex, they go crazy when they see my dick... they are out of here. Not to say that lust is bad or I don't like tigers in bed. But if you name my dick, worship my dick, talk to my dick, etc.. on the first date.. forget it. I would rather them pay attention to the other 90% of what my dick is attached to.
In all, what works for your attraction to mates are the same thing that works for me in my attraction to mates. Only in opposite genders.
