About to loose my girlfriend... Help!

[ZKaudio]

tell her how you feel but don't beg for her back. If she doesn't show any signs of wanting to keep what you had, then drop her quickly and start getting over it now. Things like this can only drag you down the longer you dwell on them. Been there bro =/

 

[TheVisitor]

I love my girlfriend and she is about to leave.
Never fooled around, just kindda minded my own business, not enough attention I suppose... thought she would never leave... she always loved me, I guess she just had enough.
Ever find yourself when you just do your thing and live your life taking your partner for granted?..
Why do we do this and then wonder why they leave???

 

[SoKlueles]

The reason we leave is because we feel lonely. We feel neglected. Try to talk to her before its too late. Sometimes its not so easy for some ppl to show their affection...and it hurts their SO. Hold her hand, touch her make her feel loved and wanted.

 

[fsupat70]

Women want too much affection

 

[SoKlueles]

Not too much affection, fsupat, SOME...make them feel loved and appreciated. Does your woman show you affection? Im sure she does. Does she get it in return? this is for any of u guys on the thread.

 

[Gymgurl]

You hit the nail on the head.....I can't agree anymore with what you said. I would just like some attention, not the whole show. I think men forget that other men pick up on that lack of attention and start showing us more to tempt us to leave. Start today by showing her what she means to you!!!

 

[SoKlueles]

EXACTLY.....women need affection.....just like men. Men try to act like they dont need it, but yes, they need it big time. We get insecure with ourselves when our own men dont show affection. Just show her you love her, spend time with her..make her feel loved.....because she deserves it.

 

[bouncerulove]

tell her how you feel but don't beg for her back. If she doesn't show any signs of wanting to keep what you had, then drop her quickly and start getting over it now. Things like this can only drag you down the longer you dwell on them. Been there bro =/

this is great advice.......
i found if you try to get them back too much they lose more respect for you.....if she says no, don't call her for 2 weeks, then call her and tell you want to fuck the shit out of her, then leave........she'll go for it 7-8 times out of 10......but you have to leave when you're finished, then don't call her until she calls you........and, she will 7-8 times out of 10 call you and tell you she misses you and she wants 2 talk......

works for me, 7-8 times out of 10

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

Neglected women are easy targets for players and other men. Usually by the time the girl tells you ... it is too late.
Women are careful creatures and they will put safety nets in place before they let go of your arm.

They will, for example, have a couple of new guy friends to chat with on the phone, and start going out to clubs a little, and then tell you it is too late it is over...and it wont hurt them as bad, because they are braced for the fall.

Learn what you can from this and prevent it in the future, but if she leaves you without giving you an opportunity to make it right, she is not the right one.

 

[KillahBee]

The reason we leave is because we feel lonely. We feel neglected. Try to talk to her before its too late. Sometimes its not so easy for some ppl to show their affection...and it hurts their SO. Hold her hand, touch her make her feel loved and wanted.

I personally think that this is the problem with women, or should I say girls. Nowadays, every female I run across (I am 24) truly believes (due to the way society has been running) that she deserves attention and affection from men, by natural right. And when she doesn't get it, the man is being insensitive or selfish.
You just summed it up, stating that "the reason we leave is because we feel lonely...neglected". Does this not seem immature to anyone else? That is how a child acts when others are not playing with them at the playground. I, personally, have come to the end of the rope with females today. I can't imagine ever finding a girl my age that is strong, confident, dependent, and doesn't hide behind the excuses that "society" (I know, it's cliche) makes for her.