lol, I should have remembered to suck in the gut for the family photoshoot .. that's the 2nd person who's called me fat
when I bother to cut my waist gets to about 33" after a couple months dieting. But I hate being under 240 so it never lasts. Back when I was 190 and hadn't trained in 6 years my waist was... 34".
Genetics determines proportions. So long as you chest is 20" bigger than your waist it doesnt look so bad not to be shopping in the boys section for pants.