Guys, I think I realize why my bench has always been lagging compared to my other lifts. This video shows that I am severely limiting the weight I can put up because of my grip. Not only does the bar need to travel a farther distance because of my close grip but I also am working against my body type.
I have broad shoulders and a decent sized chest, but they aren't even playing a big role in my bench because I am almost isolating my triceps completely. If I started working towards my strengths and found a better balance I think it could really make an impact on the weight I can put up. By taking my shoulders and chest out of the equation I think I have been screwing myself, from this point on I am going to start training my bench with a wider grip.
I am not making excuses, but I never realized my grip width was this close until the vid, even though my friend have been telling me it from day 1.
hopefully I can add some lbs. with this change. If not, its whatever.
Thanks again guys