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UPDATE Sexless and Happy is Possible

Rachel...lol

Rachel...lol

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UPDATE - Having Oral Sex & Loving It.

So... I went to a work conference 1 month ago; had to go to a dinner thing as I lobbied for sponsorship from my employer. I was sitting on my bed having a glass of wine in the hotel not wanting to go to dinner, and dragged myself out (as a result of necessity) and first thing talked to this guy; we had "silly bands" for drink tickets - fist I had seen of them but apparently popular. So that night we chatted and then went to a bar where people from the conference were going, and had a great time. We parted ways with some awesome kissing in the parking lot and that's it.

We skyped all week after that, and he came here for the weekend and we did really stupid stuff like go to the museum and walked by the river and then drove out to Lake Michigan where my friends were playing (cover band) and then stayed in a hotel. Then 2 weekends ago I stayed at his house in Indianapolis and drove home Sunday night.

Then I drove back there Wednesday night (my little doggie in tow the whole time as well). And came home tonight. Intersperse lots of hottub time, meeting friends and parents, job interview in Indy... my head is spinning and I am so super happy - and you guys will get a kick out of this, no sex yet.

:) :) :)
 
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i cant do the whole sleep over thing and no sex. if no bed sharing happens then its fine an dandy. maybe its my young hormones lol.
 
Good for you! Thats awesome sounds like you have a good connection with this guy. Hopefully when the time comes things are good in the sexual department as well. Always happy to hear when someone finds someone.
 
cuthroat said:
Good for you! Thats awesome sounds like you have a good connection with this guy. Hopefully when the time comes things are good in the sexual department as well. Always happy to hear when someone finds someone.
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Thanks :) He did get 3 awesome blowjobs in an hour and there was plenty of playing with my kitty - but still, it means something. and there is a very strange connection. I have no doubt that the end result will be fantastic.
 
Rachel...lol said:
I didn't say I don't know his package - I know it's well and it's not a tic tac at all....
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K thats good. While its not the solely responsible for the success of a relationship, sex is a vital and important issue as far as I am concerned. Sounds like things are off to a good start then.

Lucky guy...three in an hour? Your a champ.

Live like theres no tomorrow...you only have one life to live and a day without love is a day wasted. :coffee:
 
my husband was like that..... and well we all know how that turned out.... im happy though so yes sexless and happy is possible...... yet sexed up and happy is even better..... hope it's just a new love thing and not a low libido, does he have good hair? muscles? few body hair?
 
I dont wanna rain on your parade at all Rach, you know I really appreciate you, just watching out for you because I want you with a great guy, if this might be the one then congratz babe :friends:
 
I don't know how the guy can do it. My first inclination was closet homo. I'd have knocked that shit out the park first night. Good luck Rachel, but be slightly suspicious and stay just guarded enough. Don't rush into falling head over heels just because he isn't a normal red-blooded, testosterone filled male.

:D :heart:
 
cuthroat said:
Yes...yes we do We here at EF do not condone lying Keep telling yourself that its your life Finally the truth comes out! :D
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I'm sure I could easily find a better man in the sex department but I'm also sure I will not find easily at all a man as overall wonderful in every OTHER department as he is :)
 
nangiggles said:
I'm sure I could easily find a better man in the sex department but I'm also sure I will not find easily at all a man as overall wonderful in every OTHER department as he is :)
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And what are the other departments? :confused:


JK...Its just easy to poke fun at your sex life. (or lack thereof)
 
nangiggles said:
I'm sure I could easily find a better man in the sex department but I'm also sure I will not find easily at all a man as overall wonderful in every OTHER department as he is :)
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sounds like you need more than one man!
 
Guys, he's just very very Catholic. And at first I was like... uh... what? No sex? And now I appreciate it. It's refreshing actually because I know obviously that we're developing a relationship rather than it being superficially about sex only. I know it sounds like I'm rationalizing, but the past couple of years for me have been super huge relationship fails, and whatever I was doing or whomever I was meeting has not been working out, so I may as well try a different approach, right? I am 28, not 23 - and I have sooo had my share of sex (and probably some of everybody else's as well)...

Friday I had a job interview in Indianapolis for an IT Business Analyst position. Wish me luck. Gym time - later!
 
Good for you Rach!

Sex fucks everything up, but I love to fuck. I guess that makes me a fuck up? lol

Good luck with the interview and the new guy :)
 
Good for you rach. Sounds like you have hung out with him enough to see he is a pretty nice guy. It is either that or he is banging some other chick. That seems unlikely, but possible. Like CEO, I would have just given you a few drinks and sex would have happened the first day. When I first meet a girl I am all about sex, after that the women becomes the aggressor most of the time. I would be pretty happy right now if I were you. Enjoy it and see what happens.
If it doesn't work out with him I think Glad is single.
 
Three BJs in an hour is not sexless in my book. If I start telling girls that I can't go all the way because I'm catholic, will they start blowing me like that so I can just lie back and not do all the work?
 
ceo said:
I don't know how the guy can do it. My first inclination was closet homo. I'd have knocked that shit out the park first night. Good luck Rachel, but be slightly suspicious and stay just guarded enough. Don't rush into falling head over heels just because he isn't a normal red-blooded, testosterone filled male.

:D :heart:
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That's exactly what I was going to suggest to guard her heart, even if just a little hold back a little of herself. It will sustain you Rachel if it does not work out. :) I think what he is doing is a good thing imo..not something to be suspicous about
 
Am I the only guy that thinks getting 3 hummers without having to do any work and then rolling over and going to sleep isn't really a bad thing?

He's also smart - building the anticipation ensures that no matter how crappy he is in bed, she will be climbing the walls to actually experience penetration for the first time. Smart bro in my book.
 
Dude is geigh. I never insist upon sex on the first date, but I do highly suggest that they at least watch me jerk off.
 
AV for the love of The Baby Jesus change your avi.
 
Rachel...lol said:
Thanks :) He did get 3 awesome blowjobs in an hour and there was plenty of playing with my kitty - but still, it means something. and there is a very strange connection. I have no doubt that the end result will be fantastic.
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So he laid back, closed his eyes and thought of his boy friend.
 
Strongbow said:
Dude is geigh. I never insist upon sex on the first date, but I do highly suggest that they at least watch me jerk off.
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Really? By the time the first date rolled around for me, we had already had sex.
 
Would somebody tell me when oral sex stopped being sex? :confused: I missed that bus.
 
ceo said:
Really? By the time the first date rolled around for me, we had already had sex.
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I'm old fashioned bro.:D
 
If you don't blow off in her mouth, it is not sex.

Signed,

Dr. Strongbow
 
If you blow off in her mouth, it is sex.

Also Signed,

Dr. Strongbow
 
Good luck. I was seeing a girl and I didnt hit it on purpose for a few weeks because I really liked her and after I fuck a girl I usually want to throw her away, so i thought that would help. It did but then I lost interest anyway later, mostly cause she was awful in bed and out though. good luck
 
digimon7068 said:
yeah...i'm not using that fucking doucheknuckle as my moral compass, m'kay?? :lmao:
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that sir, is where you go wrong! Our beloved president proclaimed that oral sex is not sexual relations.

Blowjob became the new handshake.

You could also think of it as masturbation using an aid...someone else's mouth!

Either way, it's not vaginal penetration. :D
 
ceo said:
that sir, is where you go wrong! Our beloved president proclaimed that oral sex is not sexual relations.

Blowjob became the new handshake.

You could also think of it as masturbation using an aid...someone else's mouth!

Either way, it's not vaginal penetration. :D
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I support this.
 
musclemom said:
Would somebody tell me when oral sex stopped being sex? :confused: I missed that bus.
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This is Bill Clinton's legacy. He convinced an entire generation of young girls that blowjobs aren't sex.

The man does deserve some credit. You've got to be doing something right when the most powerful man in the world can overwhelm a 21-year old chubby intern in the oval office, put her on a regular blowjob schedule and then still get 80% of the soccermom vote.
 
ceo said:
that sir, is where you go wrong! Our beloved president proclaimed that oral sex is not sexual relations.

Blowjob became the new handshake.

You could also think of it as masturbation using an aid...someone else's mouth!

Either way, it's not vaginal penetration. :D
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so is that how you shake hands with your bros? :worried: :confused:
 
ponyfitness said:
Am I the only guy that thinks getting 3 hummers without having to do any work and then rolling over and going to sleep isn't really a bad thing? He's also smart - building the anticipation ensures that no matter how crappy he is in bed, she will be climbing the walls to actually experience penetration for the first time. Smart bro in my book.
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A bit selfish, he is getting his....I'm not so sure about the whole "nice guy" thing. Why wait if you already had oral sex? I don't get it. Catholics usually go to sunday mass after, so it's all good :)
 
Nothing wrong with that (the thinking with the head between your shoulders vs the one between the legs thing). Only thing is, it's pretty much impossible to use both at the same time, so there you go lol. I think it was Robin Williams who said God gave men a brain and a cawk but not enough blood to use them both at once.

In times when welfare moms and teh herp are increasingly common, it seems people could use more blood upstairs vs down. At least til they have their shit together.
 
ceo said:
that sir, is where you go wrong! Our beloved president proclaimed that oral sex is not sexual relations.

Blowjob became the new handshake.

You could also think of it as masturbation using an aid...someone else's mouth!

Either way, it's not vaginal penetration. :D
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he also said "it depends on how you define the word it" :rolleyes:
 
just...v; said:
I have a solid "dude must go down first" policy
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What ?
 
musclemom said:
Would somebody tell me when oral sex stopped being sex? :confused: I missed that bus.
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Actually MM - I think you are correct; I do feel sexually fulfilled because we are doing other things - not vaginal penetration at this point.

There are other ways to feel connected on a sexual level without actual intercourse, and right now it's totally working for me. My thread title should be changed to represent such ;)
 
mrplunkey said:
This is Bill Clinton's legacy. He convinced an entire generation of young girls that blowjobs aren't sex.

The man does deserve some credit. You've got to be doing something right when the most powerful man in the world can overwhelm a 21-year old chubby intern in the oval office, put her on a regular blowjob schedule and then still get 80% of the soccermom vote.
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OH, HORSESHIT.

Sex is sex. When you contact another person's bathing suit parts with some part of your body, it's S-E-X. Blaming Clinton for a change in the definition of what is and isn't sex is attributing far too much to the man's influence.

Of course, one could argue that Clinton changing the moral face of this country is no different than what Bush has done to erode the concept of personal freedom and dismantle the Constitution :whatever:
 
just...v said:
I have a solid "dude must go down first" policy
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This is where you and I differ - I don't see the "go down first" as a power struggle. I either want to do it for a man, or I don't. And when I do it, because I WANT to do it and I ENJOY it, foreplay/sexual intercourse is soooooo much better because it's not just a means to an end.
 
Rachel...lol said:
This is where you and I differ - I don't see the "go down first" as a power struggle. I either want to do it for a man, or I don't. And when I do it, because I WANT to do it and I ENJOY it, foreplay/sexual intercourse is soooooo much better because it's not just a means to an end.
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I completely agree with you on this one Rach :)
 
Rachel...lol said:
This is where you and I differ - I don't see the "go down first" as a power struggle. I either want to do it for a man, or I don't. And when I do it, because I WANT to do it and I ENJOY it, foreplay/sexual intercourse is soooooo much better because it's not just a means to an end.
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Lol. That's good. And my statement wasn't meant as a judgement on you.


I just know what I like and what I want. And I want the cat to be kissed and I guarantee by doing that, the man will get what he likes for as long as he wants. And I don't see oral sex as a power "struggle". Don't get me wrong, there is power to it, but it's more the feeling that you have the power to give pleasure. I just like the kind of guy that will rev my engine a bit. :D
 
just...v said:
Lol. That's good. And my statement wasn't meant as a judgement on you.


I just know what I like and what I want. And I want the cat to be kissed and I guarantee by doing that, the man will get what he likes for as long as he wants. And I don't see oral sex as a power "struggle". Don't get me wrong, there is power to it, but it's more the feeling that you have the power to give pleasure. I just like the kind of guy that will rev my engine a bit. :D
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In no way did I think it was ;)
 
Any woman that tries to use sex as a weapon does NOT get a return phone call. 99% of women are replaceable. Two can play that game - Next.

c
 
musclemom said:
OH, HORSESHIT.

Sex is sex. When you contact another person's bathing suit parts with some part of your body, it's S-E-X. Blaming Clinton for a change in the definition of what is and isn't sex is attributing far too much to the man's influence.

Of course, one could argue that Clinton changing the moral face of this country is no different than what Bush has done to erode the concept of personal freedom and dismantle the Constitution :whatever:
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Hold on a minute! When most people say "sex" they are talking about sexual intercourse, involving penetration of the vagina by a penis.

If you asked someone, "Did you have sex with her?" and they replied, "Yes, she gave me a blowjob." Most people would say, "But did you actually have sex, you know? Penetration?"

Big difference IMO. I've had a few "blowjob only" interactions, and I wouldn't go around saying I had sex with those women. If someone did say that people automatically think you fucked.

I think it's lolz that Clinton said that. I love it! And I will forever see a blowjob as the equivalent of a handshake now.

The "assisted masturbation" is my terminology/definition. You like it?

"No, I didn't fuck her, I masturbated!" (I just used her pussy to masturbate with) lol.

Why not? There are all kinds of masturbatory aids (dildos, vibrators, fleshlights, etc.), so what's the difference between using a dildo or a penis? Either way you're just masturbating by using a device or aid.

lololololoolloll
 
musclemom said:
OH, HORSESHIT.

Sex is sex. When you contact another person's bathing suit parts with some part of your body, it's S-E-X. Blaming Clinton for a change in the definition of what is and isn't sex is attributing far too much to the man's influence.

Of course, one could argue that Clinton changing the moral face of this country is no different than what Bush has done to erode the concept of personal freedom and dismantle the Constitution :whatever:
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Don't take my word for it. This is a great opportunity for you to get some real world input. Find someone teaching middle school around and just after the Lewinsky scandal and see what they say. It was a distinct shift in the sexual policy of this country. Blowjobs skyrocketed at that time.

And I am shocked that you'd defend Clinton and retort with a completely unrelated insult directed toward Bush. I'm beginning to suspect you drive a minivan with one of those soccer ball stickers on the back of it.
 
mrplunkey said:
Don't take my word for it. This is a great opportunity for you to get some real world input. Find someone teaching middle school around and just after the Lewinsky scandal and see what they say. It was a distinct shift in the sexual policy of this country. Blowjobs skyrocketed at that time.

And I am shocked that you'd defend Clinton and retort with a completely unrelated insult directed toward Bush. I'm beginning to suspect you drive a minivan with one of those soccer ball stickers on the back of it.
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I don't think of MM as the minivan type.
 
Pretty sure everybody in this thread is crazy as bat shit.
 
so are you just assuming he's not 100% into sex right away because he's a "super cathollic" or, did you talk to him about it and got some kinda reason why the waiting game is in effect?

did you wear your high heels in front of him and do that bending over bridge thing you showed us a while back? think dude woulda fucked you in that position on the spot.

maybe he's learned in the past that insertion ruins everything and he just wants fun and someone to hang with. believe it or not men and women develop this "phobia"

all in all i hope it worx out for you. imo everyone deserves a shot at happiness in life. it's whether they choose to go after it and work at it that counts.
 
bakemeacookie said:
Any woman that tries to use sex as a weapon does NOT get a return phone call. 99% of women are replaceable. Two can play that game - Next.

c
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I agree. I think my post made it sound like I would use it as a weapon and that actually not me. I think games like that are bad, bad, bad. I prefer the kind of sex game that my partner will enjoy. :D
 
just...v said:
I agree. I think my post made it sound like I would use it as a weapon and that actually not me. I think games like that are bad, bad, bad. I prefer the kind of sex game that my partner will enjoy. :D
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I like to trade punches in the face to somebody gets knocked the fuck out, then the winner gets to have his or her way. I always win.:D
 
digimon7068 said:
ya know, now that you mention it...i believe it was "is"...which is even more ridiculous.
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You have the abs of a homeless geigh person.:D
 
cindylou said:
actually I believe MM does drive a minivan :)
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Alas, our minivan died a peaceful death of natural old age due to multiple systems failure at sometime after 235,000+ miles. We now have what is termed as a "Small SUV," a Toyota Highlander.
 
musclemom said:
Alas, our minivan died a peaceful death of natural old age due to multiple systems failure at sometime after 235,000+ miles. We now have what is termed as a "Small SUV," a Toyota Highlander.
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awww that's too bad, at least it lived a good long life
 
musclemom said:
Alas, our minivan died a peaceful death of natural old age due to multiple systems failure at sometime after 235,000+ miles. We now have what is termed as a "Small SUV," a Toyota Highlander.
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Mother Earth winces in pain as you violate her with your implement of conspicuous consumerism.
 
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