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Im not the.gladiator anymore, Im the DADiator. Just found out my girl is pregnant . Im pretty happy i have always wanted to be a young dad
Hey guys, Im not the.gladiator anymore
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oh lawd
Shit just got real. Good luck bro.
Shit just got real. Good luck bro.
Why?
And no, Im not going to be cordial and say congratulations as anyone whos honest with themselves knows this isnt good news.
Better get your shit together quick.
You've gotta be fucking kidding me. Were you not using protection? Did you do this purposely so that she would want to marry you? WTF DUDE?
shit I could do this all day but have to go in to the office and get some work done...
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lartinos
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That's not good. You are not ready for this and your relationship with this girl most likely won't last. You now have a financial burden on your hands too. I am sure you will love your child, but you are still young and this has come too soon. I'm almost thirty and I do not want a kid yet.
Not because I cannot afford it... because I still want to party for a few more years before I enter that phase of my life. Either way good luck.
Not because I cannot afford it... because I still want to party for a few more years before I enter that phase of my life. Either way good luck.
i just can't get over this ridiculous situation
Please tell me ur trolling...
Did she tell her mom first than telling you?
As others said time to get ur shit together fast!
How did ur bawling car, fucking milfs $5000 super bucks perronal trainer dream turn into you waiting tables driving a metro with a kid? :s
Did she tell her mom first than telling you?
As others said time to get ur shit together fast!
How did ur bawling car, fucking milfs $5000 super bucks perronal trainer dream turn into you waiting tables driving a metro with a kid? :s
PICK3
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simple pen & ink revision
addendum: *In addition to the aforementioned goals and objective the conclusion of teh 5 year plan is expected to net a 4.5 year old child
no major formatting required ...
just sayin'
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lartinos
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I wonder how much diapers are alone in a year will cost him.
ask ceo, him and the other California residents get to pay for it.
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lartinos
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ohhhhh, lol
stosstruppe
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Cool story bro!!1
canadianhitman
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You Fucked Up!
You Fucked Up!
You Fucked Up!
(old ECW chant)
You Fucked Up!
You Fucked Up!
(old ECW chant)
bakemeacookie
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If u don't marry her and live with her all her life - kid will have 2 daddies!
That's so ghetto!. Time to get that shotgun marriage baby!
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That's so ghetto!. Time to get that shotgun marriage baby!
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diapers were roughly 1200 a year
formula was about 1300 a year
milk after the first year was about 1400 a year (wtf! how was it more than formula) until the kid was 2
daycare for an un-potty trained kid after 1 to 3 yrs old was 8 bucks an hr
WAYYYYYYYY more than that for a younger child
getting a sitter on a weeknight let alone a weekend is pretty much impossible and when it does happen its roughly 15 bucks an hr
plus, they get up if youre lucky every 3 hrs until about 6 mths old
and even if your woman looks good after, she'll never look the same
so yeah, if youre not trolling youre fucked dude
oh yeah, and I speak to my oldest daughter's father like, once a year whether I need to or not
formula was about 1300 a year
milk after the first year was about 1400 a year (wtf! how was it more than formula) until the kid was 2
daycare for an un-potty trained kid after 1 to 3 yrs old was 8 bucks an hr
WAYYYYYYYY more than that for a younger child
getting a sitter on a weeknight let alone a weekend is pretty much impossible and when it does happen its roughly 15 bucks an hr
plus, they get up if youre lucky every 3 hrs until about 6 mths old
and even if your woman looks good after, she'll never look the same
so yeah, if youre not trolling youre fucked dude
oh yeah, and I speak to my oldest daughter's father like, once a year whether I need to or not
cryptosporidium
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kids = game over
calveless wonder
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Wow
Congrats!! your life is over now..buh bye
WTF were you thinking? Do you know that there is another world out there, outside of Kansas city? I know that a lot of people wont agree with me and that's fine, but, what about an abortion? I think that's the best choice for everyone involved, even that little fetus. You are a kid yourself. HOw do you expect to take care of a kid and your girl?
babies having babies..wtf is wrong with this world
stosstruppe
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Can't be much fun doing body shots off of a prego chick's gut!!1
I have two things to say.
1.) glad, if you are serious, and this did happen, I respect your decision bro.
I'm sure you realize you have to man up and put the kid before anything else now.
Although people doubt, hate, ect, There IS a chance they are all wrong.
The honest truth is you should of waited awhile to get married, and to have a kid, but I should of waited a few more years to try and pursue my dream of making films as well.
I'll give you the advice my grandfather gave me before he died.
"Do what's right for you. Fuck what everybody else does."
1.) glad, if you are serious, and this did happen, I respect your decision bro.
I'm sure you realize you have to man up and put the kid before anything else now.
Although people doubt, hate, ect, There IS a chance they are all wrong.
The honest truth is you should of waited awhile to get married, and to have a kid, but I should of waited a few more years to try and pursue my dream of making films as well.
I'll give you the advice my grandfather gave me before he died.
"Do what's right for you. Fuck what everybody else does."
PICK3
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Oh, and we need to plan the bachelor party.
I say Vegas. Nimbus, bakemeacookie, pick3, mitch, cane, SL, ortiz, cw, subz, pdaddy, 1500, lart, 75th, ceo, bino, jack, puds, plunkey, dB, traz, woot, who's down?
I have a few days free hotels. If all of you guys are broke asses we can cram into a room and get a couple of escorts and some powder.
I say Vegas. Nimbus, bakemeacookie, pick3, mitch, cane, SL, ortiz, cw, subz, pdaddy, 1500, lart, 75th, ceo, bino, jack, puds, plunkey, dB, traz, woot, who's down?
I have a few days free hotels. If all of you guys are broke asses we can cram into a room and get a couple of escorts and some powder.
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lartinos
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Wow
Congrats!! your life is over now..buh bye
WTF were you thinking? Do you know that there is another world out there, outside of Kansas city? I know that a lot of people wont agree with me and that's fine, but, what about an abortion? I think that's the best choice for everyone involved, even that little fetus. You are a kid yourself. HOw do you expect to take care of a kid and your girl?
babies having babies..wtf is wrong with this world
I would be trying to get ru-486 right away if I were him!
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Wow
Congrats!! your life is over now..buh bye
WTF were you thinking? Do you know that there is another world out there, outside of Kansas city? I know that a lot of people wont agree with me and that's fine, but, what about an abortion? I think that's the best choice for everyone involved, even that little fetus. You are a kid yourself. HOw do you expect to take care of a kid and your girl?
babies having babies..wtf is wrong with this world
omfg does glad live in kansas city?
Thanks guys, I understand how it is going to be. But I feel like this will teach me to be responsible at a young age which I am fine with. Financially it will be a struggle but we have tons of support from both sides of the family.
I also know that there are millions of girls out there, but I can pick any girl and point out their flaws. I dont look at my girl and think that there is better, I look at her as a wife and my babies mother. I want to make this work and I am ready to be responsible, and to put the baby first, not me.
I dont need to party and drink to have fun. Yea it is fun but I have more fun playing music, playing sports, hanging out with my girl, and working out. And I dont have a choice even if I did want to party, I am going to be a great father to my kid.
I also know that there are millions of girls out there, but I can pick any girl and point out their flaws. I dont look at my girl and think that there is better, I look at her as a wife and my babies mother. I want to make this work and I am ready to be responsible, and to put the baby first, not me.
I dont need to party and drink to have fun. Yea it is fun but I have more fun playing music, playing sports, hanging out with my girl, and working out. And I dont have a choice even if I did want to party, I am going to be a great father to my kid.
mrplunkey
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PICK3
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All good bros, but I'm knot "cramming" into any room with anyone unless they have a vag
just sayin'
pretty sure you're the most broke out of that whole bunch...well..you might have more money than ortiz.
ghettostudmuffin
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Dumbass.
PICK3
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at least Glad is young and still will have some life left in him when his sentence is over
DannoMight
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wait till the kid is around 3-5 and your wife realizes she missed out on partying with her friends and having fun in general. then she wants strange weiner and a child support check from you. then your visitation will be every other weekend and a couple hrs one day a week. but its ok you can always make a thread and bitch about it here.
chalk up another medicaid/wic/welfare baby paid for by the barry co.
chalk up another medicaid/wic/welfare baby paid for by the barry co.
stephen4327
UGK
let me know about this bachelor party
haha bachelor party is soon bros but nimbus never wrote me back i asked him to set somethin up
Save this post and look at it again in 5 years.
it's actually impossible once her stretch marked belly button pops out.....
layinback
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wow! congrats bro!
i just found out my wife is preganant too!
and when i find that son of a bitch.....................
nimbus
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shit man i forgot; are you down for prague?
naww joosing will give him confidence in being a dad...he seems like a really smart kid?
lol why is there a question mark? lolololol
Don't forget that the parents are both under 25 abd haven't even known each other for six months that's a real basis for a stable long term relationship.
Yeah, uh huh, sure. I said the same thing when I was 19 and pregnant by a man I'd been married to for one month, after knowing him for four months, too.
See, what happens is one day when you're on the high side of 25 and you suddenly have something happen and it's like someone throws a light switch in your brain. For me it happened when I was 27, after I nearly died of pneumonia. I came home from the hospital and all I could think was "WHAT THE FUCK WAS I THINKING WHEN I MARRIED THIS ASSHOLE?!?" and "HOLY SHIT WHAT HAVE I DONE TO MY LIFE!"
It happens to everyone. It's part of the brain maturation process.
Considering the crap he's already told us on the board (his past behavior and legal/financial issues, juice use, temper outburst) this train wreck is headed for an even earlier and more cataclysmic explosion than I lived through.
Our little friend, Gladiator, is dooming himself, his wife to be and unborn child to a life of unremitting mediocrity and grindingly overwhelming financial burdens.
Been there, done that, got the tee shirt.
lololololol
I had my oldest at 19, and knew her Dad for ohhhhhh, 6 years and had been dating him since i was like 15? got married at 18
was divorced by 20
I don't hate the guy (not to say I didn't) but he's a douche
married AGAIN by 22 to someone I had known just as long...divorced by 27
dont get married before you're thirty at least, most people lack the maturity to realize everyday isn't going to be roses...
also, im a wildly different parent at 20 than 30
having a kid in your twenties seriously derails your life
derails my life in what way? explain that to me shirlene. Sounds like you are the one with the problem, not the men
If you want to make it work you will, here is no excuse unless he beat you or cheated on you. We both are not into partying, we both have SO much support from both sides of the family so no babysitting costs, and we both want this
Just because you guys didnt work doent mean it doesnt work for anyone else
If you want to make it work you will, here is no excuse unless he beat you or cheated on you. We both are not into partying, we both have SO much support from both sides of the family so no babysitting costs, and we both want this
Just because you guys didnt work doent mean it doesnt work for anyone else
ROFLOL!!!
Gotta love the ego of youth. Buddy, I said the SAME thing, WORD FOR WORD!You want to make this work, I'll tell you what you have to do:
1. Stop working out, you can't afford the time or the gym fees. Immediately take another job and start socking money away like Ebenezer Scrooge. Just how long do you think a Geo Metro with 200,000+ miles is going to last?
2. She needs to work as long as she can, again, put money away. You won't be able to afford daycare (yeah, relatives that will watch the baby 5 days a week, 8 hrs a day, sure, uh huh, how long do you think that's gonna last? Trust me on this, it wears thin real fast.
3. Give up juice, fancy cell phones, eating out, eating good cuts of meat, etc., etc., etc. Again, save money. You're goal is to get OUT of mom's house. I'm telling you, you really don't want to live there, under HER mother's roof, on HER mother's dime. It would be different if you owned the house jointly and were contributing to mortgage/utilities/food.
4. Who has medical insurance? If neither, you need to get her on Medicare ASAP.
Maybe you can live with her mom, I lived with mine, but we bought the house together. Never the less, there were still some brutal fights. Are you so naive as to think her mother is going to be built in baby sitter, financial support (and probably maid) indefinitely?
You cannot have a child and continue to "live life in the moment" taking things as they come, without having a solid life plan. Not and be a good parent and supportive husband.
BTW, forget getting her started on a workout regimen with weights. You don't start a weight program while you're pregnant.
Musclemom I really appreciate the advice, no sarcasm. Jus to clear some things up we are moving out this month, I'm getting another geo that has half the miles, and we make more than her mom lol. Her mom probably wants the kid more than I do
There is not gonna be juice for me maybe just test and ill only get that if I put an order in for someone ill charge them more so I can jus get a free bottle. And I bookmarked the thread about her working out, we won't do that till after the pregnancy
There is not gonna be juice for me maybe just test and ill only get that if I put an order in for someone ill charge them more so I can jus get a free bottle. And I bookmarked the thread about her working out, we won't do that till after the pregnancy
BBR100
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Wow bro. You have no idea what's involved and what you are getting into.
Who knows for sure. It could work but odds are overwhelmingly stacked against you.
bakemeacookie
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have fun paying child support one day and bitching about it constantly like your 30 something brothers i meet at the bar every day
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there are gonna be bad times that wont be so easy to get through.
also looking back, when i was your age the girl i dated today I find grotesque. what i found attractive at your age, 10 years later I find ugly.
people change, you really dont know each other or yourself until you are 30+.. thats the facts. just imagine being forced to be with someone who you are not attracted to. go to the grocery store and find a very mediocre looking woman and just imagine being forced to spend every night of the rest of your life with her. that is what a bad marriage is like. imagine having to have sex with her, imagine having to wipe her ass when she is sick.
having said all that maybe in 10 years both of you will still be head over heels in love? i really hope so. i just dont know any people who married your age who are still like that.
i sincerely wish you good luck cause i know you from the AAS board and you are a cool dude.
Getting out of mom's house is definitely removing a potential stressor. It's good the pair of you are making money now, but I suspect you will be shocked at how much month is left at the end of the money once the baby arrives, and remember, while most pregnancies go without a hitch, there is the odd one where the woman can't keep working (I was like that, I kept fainting). The real expenses come when the baby has to go into daycare if she wants to go back to work. You might be forced into the same decision my ex and I were, which is, if she's not making more than $9.00/hr. it won't be worth it for her to go to work
Good luck, Glad. I hope you continue to land butter side up.
redsamurai
Banned
Oh shit did glad get some girl pregnant?
I will tell you one thing Glad and I am VERY serious about this... during the first year or two it could MAYBE be ok to have ur families babysit the kid but NOT after that, limits and discipline must come from mom and dad and being 8 h day with your family will make THEM the parent like it or not you will almost always be second to them, try not to rely much on their care once the kid starts to speak....
redsamurai
Banned
tragic. common....but tragic.
number one broke my orbital eye socket, stomped my ribs and broke 4 and broke my wrist
number two , we cheated on each other like it was our jobs and he fell into a bad oxycotin prob after a severe spinal injury and refused to get help, he got help after we split up BUT we happen to be pretty excellent friends now
and aside from my oldest's dad, I'm friends with every ex I've had since high school but your youthful arrogance is amusing
As was mentioned previously, what I found attractive at 20 isn't even close to what I find attractive now
and enjoy the support from both families, see how long that lasts. They have ever evolving lives too and this may surprise you, but their schedules may change. Also, when I was younger as long as I didn't think someone hurt my kids I was ok with them watching them, now I don't care if you have a PhD in childhood development I'm probably not going to trust you, ie. no one is good enough to watch em.
start a college fund now and set aside a medical expense account
oh, and life insurance, you both need it to cover your kids' care if you bite it
on the short term, look into cord blood banking, get a list of things you'll need together; car seat, stroller, baby sling, crib, bassinet, diaper pail, layette..etc etc etc and start buying shit every month because you'll run out of time and money otherwise
good luck, seriously, you're not at an advantage here
redsamurai
Banned
way too young homie...way too young. No offence but you still had years to go before you were mature enough to handle a kid as well as a wife. You still had some years of running around findin out who you are before you made this commitment.
lolol, I believe you cuz I don't think you're that creative, but a vial of hcg and a pregnancy test and voila'
positive result
positive result
stosstruppe
Well-known member
After reading some of the ollllllllololowtf stories on here I think you're doing just fine tbh orb!!1
You mean sounds like she is the one with the [kids], not the men? Because women usually keep majority custody of their children, and a lot of young dads don't pay their share of child support, if any at all.
A lot of people in here giving you a lot of advice, much of it from personal experiences, and very similar to your situation. You've got a huge uphill battle here. Whatever happens between you and your girl, do your absolute best to be a good dad bro.
mrplunkey
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Im stoked im glad i get to see my kid grow up while im young
not if she leaves you after "finding herself" at age 27 and deciding its go time and takes the kid and sticks you with child support and shit for visitation. i know, its all been said but still good chance of that happening in your situation.
digimon7068
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it's just as fun when you're old (like me)...and a little more financially (and mentally) stable...i wish you all the luck...i have three of the little shits and i'm available anytime you want to talk, should things get challenging.
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