do muscles attract women

[ghettostudmuffin]

My experience has shown me that girls like a confident/slightly dominant guy that is fairly lean.

When I have been my leanest from lot's of running and general conditioning and kinda been in I don't fuckin care if I have a girl or not mood is when I have attracted alot of attention.

The attitude+ fairly lean(doesn't hurt my face resembles Leonardo Dicraprio's abit) had always gotten me alot of attention.

This was back when I was like 160lbs at 5'8.5".

Now I'm sitting at 210lbs having just gotten back into the gym a couple months ago and I get looks here and there, but not like when I was lean.


One thing I do remember though is when I was at my biggest at 238lbs I had almost 18" arms, but my waist was still fairly thick. I looked like a serious powerlifter.

I didn't get alot of looks, but man, when I did the women REALLY responded. Like being outright aggressive in getting my attention.

There is a small segment of girls that seriously dig heavily muscled/powerfully built guys. I had one girl that started working at a coffee shop literally stand with her crotch against mine while gazing up at me.

In a different coffee shop on a Sunday afternoon I stopped in to get a mocha and this super hot blonde girl that couldn't have been older than 16 tops could not take her eyes off me. funniest thing is her dad was sitting right there with her and he totally saw her keep directly staring at me. I walked out and grinned at her while she was staring and then grinned at her pops. Lmfao the old guy grinned right back. Hilarious.

Anyhow, short story short, some girls like thickly muscled guys(even if yur not cut) and when they do they REALLY do lol.

 

[-Ariel-]

My experience has shown me that girls like a confident/slightly dominant guy that is fairly lean.

When I have been my leanest from lot's of running and general conditioning and kinda been in I don't fuckin care if I have a girl or not mood is when I have attracted alot of attention.

The attitude+ fairly lean(doesn't hurt my face resembles Leonardo Dicraprio's abit) had always gotten me alot of attention.

This was back when I was like 160lbs at 5'8.5".

Now I'm sitting at 210lbs having just gotten back into the gym a couple months ago and I get looks here and there, but not like when I was lean.


One thing I do remember though is when I was at my biggest at 238lbs I had almost 18" arms, but my waist was still fairly thick. I looked like a serious powerlifter.

I didn't get alot of looks, but man, when I did the women REALLY responded. Like being outright aggressive in getting my attention.

There is a small segment of girls that seriously dig heavily muscled/powerfully built guys. I had one girl that started working at a coffee shop literally stand with her crotch against mine while gazing up at me.

In a different coffee shop on a Sunday afternoon I stopped in to get a mocha and this super hot blonde girl that couldn't have been older than 16 tops could not take her eyes off me. funniest thing is her dad was sitting right there with her and he totally saw her keep directly staring at me. I walked out and grinned at her while she was staring and then grinned at her pops. Lmfao the old guy grinned right back. Hilarious.

Anyhow, short story short, some girls like thickly muscled guys(even if yur not cut) and when they do they REALLY do lol.

Bino^^^^^ this is a specific, of the vague idea I hoisted bro.
He gives the perfect narrative of 'frequency', behaviors and traits, attracting each other.

 

[trex74]

My experience has shown me that girls like a confident/slightly dominant guy that is fairly lean.

When I have been my leanest from lot's of running and general conditioning and kinda been in I don't fuckin care if I have a girl or not mood is when I have attracted alot of attention.

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This ^ ^ ^
it is the confidence that is attractive, then the muscles. Slightly asshole-ish is nice too. Basically if you're large, not trying to impress anyone, and a bit vain, that's hot.

 

[-Ariel-]

This ^ ^ ^
it is the confidence that is attractive, then the muscles. Slightly asshole-ish is nice too. Basically if you're large, not trying to impress anyone, and a bit vain, that's hot.

It's weird though, like if the dude is confident, but you guys aren't on the same page, then that becomes narcissitic cockiness...

Has to be an undefinable frequency in accord with the charm, and looks. It'a combination ratio I can't and don't wanna really identify.

 

[trex74]

It's weird though, like if the dude is confident, but you guys aren't on the same page, then that becomes narcissitic cockiness...

Has to be an undefinable frequency in accord with the charm, and looks. It'a combination ratio I can't and don't wanna really identify.

yes but if that is backed up by a good sense of humour, and not oafishness then all the better
you're right it's hard to describe

 

[*ebony*]

This ^ ^ ^
it is the confidence that is attractive, then the muscles. Slightly asshole-ish is nice too. Basically if you're large, not trying to impress anyone, and a bit vain, that's hot.

been there, done that and agreed for the most part. Dudes gotta becareful with the asshole-ish act though. Personally not my thing, and i have no patience for it.

 

[-Ariel-]

yes but if that is backed up by a good sense of humour, and not oafishness then all the better
you're right it's hard to describe

true... true... degrees. Again, like the ya know 6th grade act of I like you, and am giving you a hard time, flirtatious act of confidence/superior positioning... that's is walking on a wire, also the female has to be receptive to the personality transmitting that.

For example, I've had alot of female friends, and ex's who respond the brimming confidence that is exhibited through a flirtatious boyish teasing. However, Thandie, my SigO, likes confidence however if the guy pulls the flirt through teasing her... and if they get carried away, she'll throw that shit out like, Hakeem Olajawan late 90s.

It's an intangble though... I like it that way.

However, Trex, one thing that studies in dating reveal, in a study done on speed daters and graduate students, is that attraction is immediate, like within 30 seconds. Also most women, listed on the form before the encounter they wanted character, intelligence, and ambition. However, after the encounter, they found out that it was mainly charm and good looks that got the actual 2nd dates.

I think, that long term traits, were probably listed, and the females forgot about the 'music' of the intangible such as looks and charm.

 

[-Ariel-]

been there, done that and agreed for the most part. Dudes gotta becareful with the asshole-ish act though. Personally not my thing, and i have no patience for it.

I gotta be me, which is why I've had success, and also weirded out dates... and could hear the her eyes rolling, with wtf is he talking bout?

That said, if I tried the teasing/ahole approach, it would come off as weird and annoying.

We are all sexy in some way, and best enthrall possibilities when we are just being us, however, yeah my shit would just come off as annoying, cold, and critical if I were trying to pull off the aloof, and detached style.

 

[ghettostudmuffin]

Being kind of a dick has only worked for me once. Way back when I 18 living in section 8 with a bunch of cuban room mates we stopped by an am/pm to get some cigs and a couple of 40's. One of the cuban guys sister was my girlfriend and she was one fucking hot chola bitch.

As we are about to pull out 2 cute girls come up to the car and ask if they can hang with it. It must be the thug appeal because back then me and my friends were pretty damn thuggish. Even though my girl was in Cali visiting family for a week I've always been loyal so I basically don't even check other girls out. I have no interest when the pussy I got is good.

So anyhow, these girls are leaning up on my car and I'm like "bitch, you need to get your fuckin ass off my car". The other 3 guys are looking at me like wtf man?

So we drive back to the apartment and I'm chillin in my room missin my damn girl when like 20 minutes later the guy come into the house with the 2 girls. Now these girls were skeezers, but pretty fuckin cute skeezers.

I go to the bathroom to take a piss and the girl I had directly dissed opens the door and comes into the bathroom. I'm totally caught off guard. She got her fuck me eyes going full on and if I hadn't had a girl I woulda been like SCORE!

I end up talking to her for like 10 minutes in the bathroom and telling her how I love my girl and won't cheat on her. The girl breaks down and starts crying and talking about why she can't find a good guy like me.

Funny. I'm the guy that called you a fuckin bitch and straight cold snubbed you. Yet I'm completely faithful, but the first and most dominant impression you got was that I was a asshole who didn't give a fuck about your cuteness or gap in your legs and now you want my jock.

Too funny. Girls will say they want a nice guy and they do. But, that's not what they respond to from the beginning alot of the time.

For me personally being a dick is not my thing. I prefer flirting and giving nice compliments to a girl I like. But, you gotta do it in a way that makes them blush, but at the same time lets them know that if they reject you you aren't going to lose any sleep over it.

One time I stopped into my old chiro's office and he had this ridiculous young blonde girl(prefer brunettes fyi). Model thin, but not to thin with a gorgeous face and packin some serious cans. Pretty much most guys wet dream. I had seen her there several times and never really talked to her, but that day I was feeling frisky and started flirting with her.

One thing I had noticed about her from the beginning is she had possibly the most beautiful hands I have ever seen. So I told her she had lovely hands and if she had ever thought about hand modeling. She confessed the thought had never crossed her mind, yada yada.

3 weeks later I come back and I asked her if she had started modeling yet. Took about 2 seconds for her to remember and then she grinned. She was wearing those faux boots with the leather tops and she had a parka hanging on her chair with fur rim ala 80's outdoor winter catalog style.

I told her she reminded me of some 80's super model with those boots and parka. Massive blush. I work it a little more and she straight out blirts "I'm only 17!" with face in full blush mode.

Aka I woulda been tappin it soon if she was just a tad bit older.

So imo flirting and aggressive compliments can work really well without having to be a dick so long as you maintain "the attitude" of I don't need your puss.

Hmm, this turned into one helluva long post.

 

[calveless wonder]

I gotta be me, which is why I've had success, and also weirded out dates... and could hear the her eyes rolling, with wtf is he talking bout?

That said, if I tried the teasing/ahole approach, it would come off as weird and annoying.

We are all sexy in some way, and best enthrall possibilities when we are just being us, however, yeah my shit would just come off as annoying, cold, and critical if I were trying to pull off the aloof, and detached style.

yeah, you don't have to be an asshole to get girls which is the common preconceived notion.
you just can't be an insecure pussy.

the asshole approach may work if it's line with their personality, but being a nice,charming guy who establishes clear boundaries/doesn't take any shit will attract a much better quality of woman and be more successful in the long term