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do muscles attract women

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mochara

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what do you guys and girls think ,personally i think that a bit of muscle does, would be interesting to see what other peeps veiws are .:)
 
Yes I'd say so. I dont like guys to be tooo big but I like big better than small. Muscles are good - but anything too extreme is a turn off
 
No, most girls go for the fat, lazy look, hence why Pudz is so popular. Also, muscles won't fix the fact that your face is busted and god just didn't want to hook you up in the basics looks department...just sayin.
 
I like muscle but I hate too tight, like if I touch you or hug you I dont wanna feel like ur a tree or a rock, just cut is fine, I like big, kinda like stone cold steve austin
 
DJLegacy2k1 said:
No, most girls go for the fat, lazy look, hence why Pudz is so popular. Also, muscles won't fix the fact that your face is busted and god just didn't want to hook you up in the basics looks department...just sayin.
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yes mate your right but i think abit of muscle does help .
 
My wife won't let me take my shirt off if there are any females in viewing range, under the age of 90. So she thinks muscles do attract attention. So do I ;) . She likes to run her hands over my abs, and she likes to feel hard muscle on me; no fat. But I'm sure not all women have the same view....

Charles
 
my fella is very large and muscly but he is tall and proportionate and it's not a bodybuilder look, it's like elite athletic looking. To the point where once when we were out some old guy randomly came over and said, "son, I have one thing to ask you. Who do you play for?"

I like a good build as long as it doesn't scream extreme narcisism basically
 
nangiggles said:
I like muscle but I hate too tight, like if I touch you or hug you I dont wanna feel like ur a tree or a rock, just cut is fine, I like big, kinda like stone cold steve austin
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:rolleyes: yeah kinda big, and kinda cut, like a professional wrestler, whose job it is to take steroids and look like an action figure...nothing too out there...
 
nefertiti said:
my fella is very large and muscly but he is tall and proportionate and it's not a bodybuilder look, it's like elite athletic looking. To the point where once when we were out some old guy randomly came over and said, "son, I have one thing to ask you. Who do you play for?"

I like a good build as long as it doesn't scream extreme narcisism basically
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sorry jnevin :(
 
and i honestly got laid more when i was a casual lifter.
now, between cooking/cardio/weights/recovery it dominates my time
but i'm okay with that cause it's a hobby and fun to me
 
bino said:
and i honestly got laid more when i was a casual lifter.
now, between cooking/cardio/weights/recovery it dominates my time
but i'm okay with that cause it's a hobby and fun to me
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i know what ya mean ,it takes up alot of time ,nice post mate :)
 
Yes, a woman doesnt want a pencil neck skinny coward...they want a big strong man...
 
Thands, the S O, has spent the majority of this year rehabbing a torn ligament in her elbow, her rehab is going twice the speed of normal. She just started to lift with both arms now and is going to spend the rest of the year bulking up, so she can win an NPC pro card next year. She still has better abs than I do.

I've basically slacked the last 2 years. She's kinda renewed a drive in me, or lit a fire within to get back and even transcend the former heights.

That said, she digs proportion over mass, and thicker legs, over Johnny Bravo type builds.
 
-Ariel- said:
Thands, the S O, has spent the majority of this year rehabbing a torn ligament in her elbow, her rehab is going twice the speed of normal. She just started to lift with both arms now and is going to spend the rest of the year bulking up, so she can win an NPC pro card next year. She still has better abs than I do.

I've basically slacked the last 2 years. She's kinda renewed a drive in me, or lit a fire within to get back and even transcend the former heights.

That said, she digs proportion over mass, and thicker legs, over Johnny Bravo type builds.
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madness mate ,keep at it .:D
 
Sub-Zero said:
:rolleyes: yeah kinda big, and kinda cut, like a professional wrestler, whose job it is to take steroids and look like an action figure...nothing too out there...
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Let me rephrase that, like stone cold steve austin AFTER he retired/left wrestling, just the big mean look not the 6 almost 9 pack
 
women like power in whatever form it is in.

Even if your a train wreck....they still are attracted to you do to how other males are intimidated by you. Do to your "outward display of power"

I hate the seedier side of attraction......

I am guilty too, if I see a girl who looks like a track athlete I get weak in the knees lol

I had one girlfriend in College that fit this bill, and she was great, but in retrospect I would have done anything for her cus I was THAT attracted to her on some primordial level.
 
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bino said:
and i honestly got laid more when i was a casual lifter.
now, between cooking/cardio/weights/recovery it dominates my time
but i'm okay with that cause it's a hobby and fun to me
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/purposefail
 
OMEGA said:
women like power in whatever form it is in.

Even if your a train wreck, all tatted up with a drug problem,,,,,they still are attracted to you do to how other males are intimidated by you.

I hate the seedier side of attraction......

I am guilty too, if I see a girl who looks like a track athlete I get weak in the knees lol

I had one girlfriend in College that fit this bill, and she was great, but in retrospect I would have done anything for her cus I was THAT attracted to her on some primordial level.
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wrong, omega.
i would never date a train wreck all tatted up with drug problem, lmao seriously?

i like guys who are big but more cut. don't like those juicehead guidos
 
I was saying that for more dramatic effect Ms Mel :)

If I were to refine my statement, let me say "outward displays of Power"
 
what the fugglesticks redsam!! dark peoples show in photos too...

P.S. Cindy and I will take old pics already in your computer.
 
*ebony* said:
what the fugglesticks redsam!! dark peoples show in photos too...

P.S. Cindy and I will take old pics already in your computer.
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I posted some pics here before, but that was when I was like 290 and they weren't face pics either. I'm 250ish now.

LOL, sorry about the darkpeople's comment. The dude's I"m working with are starting to talk to me with rap hands cause they joke I'm beginning to look black. I'm not that dark yet but I got real dark in like 2 or 3 days so the change was dramatic.
 
redsamurai said:
lol....I'm out of state right now and only have my laptop, no pic taking ability. And I don't think I'd even show up in a photo right now I"m gettin so dark. I'm on an internship and part of the work is outdoors.
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where are you that you're getting so dark?
NY weather has been sucking
 
Here in the deep south I see hot girls with fat (chubby) dudes all the time, so I guess women don't give a shit about it here.
 
OMEGA said:
I had one girlfriend in College that fit this bill, and she was great, but in retrospect I would have done anything for her cus I was THAT attracted to her on some primordial level.
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Man, you have changed SO MUCH since then, now that you only see women in a non sexual way and all. :biggrin:
 
My gf approves of my rugby conditioned physique; bf % too high for visible abs but reasonably lean trunk, large thighs / calves, broad shoulders / back & a chunky bum lol.

From what I've noticed where I live; a preference for a physique honed from all round physical fitness conditioning (like bino; no homo!) but not so vain / narcissistic as to for go booze, carbs etc for a 6 pack or w/e.
 
lol @ getting an unbiased response on a fitness site.

There's a certain type of chick that goes for muscles. Usually fitness chicks and female gym rats.90% of chicks will go for a pretty boy with a nice face, and who's lean/has abs over a roided up monster. Most chicks are not attracted to veins and muscles. They want a guy who's in shape, but ask a majority of chicks and they will say they hate anything too extreme. The bodybuilder look doesn't go well with most chicks. Although obviously if you have other compensating factors, then it might not be an issue.

The guy with low bodyfat and the good looking face with will get more poon overall. fact

Also depends on the build.a little 5'6 dude who's stacked and 210 lbs will be a lot different than a guy who's 6'2 and 240-250 and single digits.

as much as guys hate to hear it, the brad pitt fight club look will get more positive attention from females than a jay cutler or pro wrestler look.

it also depends on who the audience is. European and asian chicks are not fans of muscles in general. American women as a whole might be more inclined. Not to mention, if you have a fucked up grill your body pretty much isn't going to save you. There is such a thing as male butterfaces, girls just don't admit it
 
calveless wonder said:
lol @ getting an unbiased response on a fitness site.

There's a certain type of chick that goes for muscles. Usually fitness chicks and female gym rats.90% of chicks will go for a pretty boy with a nice face, and who's lean/has abs over a roided up monster. Most chicks are not attracted to veins and muscles. They want a guy who's in shape, but ask a majority of chicks and they will say they hate anything too extreme. The bodybuilder look doesn't go well with most chicks. Although obviously if you have other compensating factors, then it might not be an issue.

The guy with low bodyfat and the good looking face with will get more poon overall. fact

Also depends on the build.a little 5'6 dude who's stacked and 210 lbs will be a lot different than a guy who's 6'2 and 240-250 and single digits.

as much as guys hate to hear it, the brad pitt fight club look will get more positive attention from females than a jay cutler or pro wrestler look.

it also depends on who the audience is. European and asian chicks are not fans of muscles in general. American women as a whole might be more inclined. Not to mention, if you have a fucked up grill your body pretty much isn't going to save you. There is such a thing as male butterfaces, girls just don't admit it
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TITCR :coffee:
 
calveless wonder said:
Most chicks are not attracted to veins and muscles. They want a guy who's in shape, but ask a majority of chicks and they will say they hate anything too extreme. The bodybuilder look doesn't go well with most chicks. Although obviously if you have other compensating factors, then it might not be an issue.

The guy with low bodyfat and the good looking face with will get more poon overall. fact
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Agreed tbh. Most young Scottish males are 5'6, 150lb (natural 6 pack due to being skinny, soccer prevalent sport here) & pasty skinned, I think most of teh wimminz here go by other factors (face, job, disposable income etc) purely out of lack of choice.
 
calveless wonder said:
lol @ getting an unbiased response on a fitness site.

There's a certain type of chick that goes for muscles. Usually fitness chicks and female gym rats.90% of chicks will go for a pretty boy with a nice face, and who's lean/has abs over a roided up monster. Most chicks are not attracted to veins and muscles. They want a guy who's in shape, but ask a majority of chicks and they will say they hate anything too extreme. The bodybuilder look doesn't go well with most chicks. Although obviously if you have other compensating factors, then it might not be an issue.

The guy with low bodyfat and the good looking face with will get more poon overall. fact

Also depends on the build.a little 5'6 dude who's stacked and 210 lbs will be a lot different than a guy who's 6'2 and 240-250 and single digits.

as much as guys hate to hear it, the brad pitt fight club look will get more positive attention from females than a jay cutler or pro wrestler look.

it also depends on who the audience is. European and asian chicks are not fans of muscles in general. American women as a whole might be more inclined. Not to mention, if you have a fucked up grill your body pretty much isn't going to save you. There is such a thing as male butterfaces, girls just don't admit it
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nice post mate, dont know weather to say bro ,dude ,mate lol:)
 
calveless wonder said:
lol @ getting an unbiased response on a fitness site.

There's a certain type of chick that goes for muscles. Usually fitness chicks and female gym rats.90% of chicks will go for a pretty boy with a nice face, and who's lean/has abs over a roided up monster. Most chicks are not attracted to veins and muscles. They want a guy who's in shape, but ask a majority of chicks and they will say they hate anything too extreme. The bodybuilder look doesn't go well with most chicks. Although obviously if you have other compensating factors, then it might not be an issue.

The guy with low bodyfat and the good looking face with will get more poon overall. fact

Also depends on the build.a little 5'6 dude who's stacked and 210 lbs will be a lot different than a guy who's 6'2 and 240-250 and single digits.

as much as guys hate to hear it, the brad pitt fight club look will get more positive attention from females than a jay cutler or pro wrestler look.

it also depends on who the audience is. European and asian chicks are not fans of muscles in general. American women as a whole might be more inclined. Not to mention, if you have a fucked up grill your body pretty much isn't going to save you. There is such a thing as male butterfaces, girls just don't admit it
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i been called a butterface
 
calveless wonder said:
it also depends on who the audience is. European and asian chicks are not fans of muscles in general. American women as a whole might be more inclined. Not to mention, if you have a fucked up grill your body pretty much isn't going to save you. There is such a thing as male butterfaces, girls just don't admit it
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tis not been my experience. I'm 6ft 250ish now and I'm goin over real well with the foreign girls at school. Especially the russian ones, I don't why....but it was like that in SF too. The russian girls were always on my wavelength...:whatever:
 
Personality, Smarts in the long run, is way better than being a Men's Health Cover.

I'm no george fucking clooney, and I dig on the S O, Thands, cause of the 'Us' or connection.

However, she always tells me stories bout much prettier dudes, were absolutfuckinglutely boring as fuck, dudes who had power, but she 'no matter how much she wanted to like them' couldn't.

Bottom line,keep shit balanced, and liking yourself in a genuine way, will reflect itself through intimacy, and being sexy.


Also not being a douche helps.
 
calveless wonder said:
lol @ getting an unbiased response on a fitness site.

There's a certain type of chick that goes for muscles. Usually fitness chicks and female gym rats.90% of chicks will go for a pretty boy with a nice face, and who's lean/has abs over a roided up monster. Most chicks are not attracted to veins and muscles. They want a guy who's in shape, but ask a majority of chicks and they will say they hate anything too extreme. The bodybuilder look doesn't go well with most chicks. Although obviously if you have other compensating factors, then it might not be an issue.

The guy with low bodyfat and the good looking face with will get more poon overall. fact

Also depends on the build.a little 5'6 dude who's stacked and 210 lbs will be a lot different than a guy who's 6'2 and 240-250 and single digits.

as much as guys hate to hear it, the brad pitt fight club look will get more positive attention from females than a jay cutler or pro wrestler look.

it also depends on who the audience is. European and asian chicks are not fans of muscles in general. American women as a whole might be more inclined. Not to mention, if you have a fucked up grill your body pretty much isn't going to save you. There is such a thing as male butterfaces, girls just don't admit it
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good post.
but i've never seen a roid monster without girly action.
every extreme jooser i've known is swarming with broads, usually jumpoffs, but still.
women claim they don't like veins and super swoleness, but i think they BS and they really do.
 
bino said:
good post.
but i've never seen a roid monster without girly action.
every extreme jooser i've known is swarming with broads, usually jumpoffs, but still.
women claim they don't like veins and super swoleness, but i think they BS and they really do.
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Not so sure bout that. I'm subscribing to the idea that most women like proportion over godzillaness. I think if you look at the personality that motivates one to juice. You seem the characteristics of extraversion, and putting themselves in more situations to get laid, and attract 'the type' that respond to that 'beacon'.

That said, all in degrees.
 
beenie....what's a "jumpoff"?? I don't even know really what it means but I'm laughing regardless....it's got to be funny then. At the very least it was said with such casual afterthought like derision that I can't help but laugh.
 
-Ariel- said:
Personality, Smarts in the long run, is way better than being a Men's Health Cover.

I'm no george fucking clooney, and I dig on the S O, Thands, cause of the 'Us' or connection.

However, she always tells me stories bout much prettier dudes, were absolutfuckinglutely boring as fuck, dudes who had power, but she 'no matter how much she wanted to like them' couldn't.

Bottom line,keep shit balanced, and liking yourself in a genuine way, will reflect itself through intimacy, and being sexy.


Also not being a douche helps.
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I totally agree!!! Physical appearance could always change but it's the personality/intelligence that matter mostly. I'm not saying that physical attraction doesn't play a role but it's like you said, "balance".
 
princesa said:
I totally agree!!! Physical appearance could always change but it's the personality/intelligence that matter mostly. I'm not saying that physical attraction doesn't play a role but it's like you said, "balance".
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Thanx P.
Sides, sexy is nice, hell who doesn't wanna be desired. However, at this point, as I kinda grow up... starting to realize, what has value is a relationship that works.
Oh, digressing here but, I'm looking forward to pigging out at Cilantros on 2nd avenue. Fajitas are awesome...
 
-Ariel- said:
Not so sure bout that. I'm subscribing to the idea that most women like proportion over godzillaness. I think if you look at the personality that motivates one to juice. You seem the characteristics of extraversion, and putting themselves in more situations to get laid, and attract 'the type' that respond to that 'beacon'.

That said, all in degrees.
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every godzilla i've seen or known 99.9% of the time has a hottie in tow.
agree?
 
bino said:
every godzilla i've seen or known 99.9% of the time has a hottie in tow.
agree?
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Pretty Much. I agree. Here's my theory, I read somewhere, I forget who... I just remember I dug on it. That for dudes, the first level of attraction is physical, for women, it's mental. In degrees, of course.

However, I think that you will find most of the hotties, that are with that dude, are gonna be younger, like early to mid 20s. Also, I'm sure there is a certain 'demograph' or type of female that is more likely to be seen with Gigantor type dude. However, yeah, more than likely Jacked dude has correlating pin up/type eye candy around. Both are primed on that look. They are on the same freequency.

That said there are variations, and this is a broad stereotype.
 
redsamurai said:
beenie....what's a "jumpoff"?? I don't even know really what it means but I'm laughing regardless....it's got to be funny then. At the very least it was said with such casual afterthought like derision that I can't help but laugh.
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lol what must jump on must jump off.
hence jumpoff
:)
 
-Ariel- said:
Thanx P.
Sides, sexy is nice, hell who doesn't wanna be desired. However, at this point, as I kinda grow up... starting to realize, what has value is a relationship that works.
Oh, digressing here but, I'm looking forward to pigging out at Cilantros on 2nd avenue. Fajitas are awesome...
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I've never been there, I'm kinda trying to stay away from Fajitas lol

You guys should check out "the highline" in the meatpacking district. I think you'll enjoy it. Best thai/asian food ever, oh and they make the best mango mojitos :biggrin: The atmosphere is pretty nice as well.
 
princesa said:
I've never been there, I'm kinda trying to stay away from Fajitas lol

You guys should check out "the highline" in the meatpacking district. I think you'll enjoy it. Best thai/asian food ever, oh and they make the best mango mojitos :biggrin: The atmosphere is pretty nice as well.
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is the meatpacking district teh gay ?
 
princesa said:
I've never been there, I'm kinda trying to stay away from Fajitas lol

You guys should check out "the highline" in the meatpacking district. I think you'll enjoy it. Best thai/asian food ever, oh and they make the best mango mojitos :biggrin: The atmosphere is pretty nice as well.
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Will do. We went to the spice market, good presentation, and food was fairly decent, trendy, but the food sucked.

However, yeah highline will definitely give a shot.
 
-Ariel- said:
Pretty Much. I agree. Here's my theory, I read somewhere, I forget who... I just remember I dug on it. That for dudes, the first level of attraction is physical, for women, it's mental. In degrees, of course.

However, I think that you will find most of the hotties, that are with that dude, are gonna be younger, like early to mid 20s. Also, I'm sure there is a certain 'demograph' or type of female that is more likely to be seen with Gigantor type dude. However, yeah, more than likely Jacked dude has correlating pin up/type eye candy around. Both are primed on that look. They are on the same freequency.

That said there are variations, and this is a broad stereotype.
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:beer:
 
My experience has shown me that girls like a confident/slightly dominant guy that is fairly lean.

When I have been my leanest from lot's of running and general conditioning and kinda been in I don't fuckin care if I have a girl or not mood is when I have attracted alot of attention.

The attitude+ fairly lean(doesn't hurt my face resembles Leonardo Dicraprio's abit) had always gotten me alot of attention.

This was back when I was like 160lbs at 5'8.5".

Now I'm sitting at 210lbs having just gotten back into the gym a couple months ago and I get looks here and there, but not like when I was lean.


One thing I do remember though is when I was at my biggest at 238lbs I had almost 18" arms, but my waist was still fairly thick. I looked like a serious powerlifter.

I didn't get alot of looks, but man, when I did the women REALLY responded. Like being outright aggressive in getting my attention.

There is a small segment of girls that seriously dig heavily muscled/powerfully built guys. I had one girl that started working at a coffee shop literally stand with her crotch against mine while gazing up at me.

In a different coffee shop on a Sunday afternoon I stopped in to get a mocha and this super hot blonde girl that couldn't have been older than 16 tops could not take her eyes off me. funniest thing is her dad was sitting right there with her and he totally saw her keep directly staring at me. I walked out and grinned at her while she was staring and then grinned at her pops. Lmfao the old guy grinned right back. Hilarious.

Anyhow, short story short, some girls like thickly muscled guys(even if yur not cut) and when they do they REALLY do lol.
 
ghettostudmuffin said:
My experience has shown me that girls like a confident/slightly dominant guy that is fairly lean.

When I have been my leanest from lot's of running and general conditioning and kinda been in I don't fuckin care if I have a girl or not mood is when I have attracted alot of attention.

The attitude+ fairly lean(doesn't hurt my face resembles Leonardo Dicraprio's abit) had always gotten me alot of attention.

This was back when I was like 160lbs at 5'8.5".

Now I'm sitting at 210lbs having just gotten back into the gym a couple months ago and I get looks here and there, but not like when I was lean.


One thing I do remember though is when I was at my biggest at 238lbs I had almost 18" arms, but my waist was still fairly thick. I looked like a serious powerlifter.

I didn't get alot of looks, but man, when I did the women REALLY responded. Like being outright aggressive in getting my attention.

There is a small segment of girls that seriously dig heavily muscled/powerfully built guys. I had one girl that started working at a coffee shop literally stand with her crotch against mine while gazing up at me.

In a different coffee shop on a Sunday afternoon I stopped in to get a mocha and this super hot blonde girl that couldn't have been older than 16 tops could not take her eyes off me. funniest thing is her dad was sitting right there with her and he totally saw her keep directly staring at me. I walked out and grinned at her while she was staring and then grinned at her pops. Lmfao the old guy grinned right back. Hilarious.

Anyhow, short story short, some girls like thickly muscled guys(even if yur not cut) and when they do they REALLY do lol.
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Bino^^^^^ this is a specific, of the vague idea I hoisted bro.
He gives the perfect narrative of 'frequency', behaviors and traits, attracting each other.
 
ghettostudmuffin said:
My experience has shown me that girls like a confident/slightly dominant guy that is fairly lean.

When I have been my leanest from lot's of running and general conditioning and kinda been in I don't fuckin care if I have a girl or not mood is when I have attracted alot of attention.

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This ^ ^ ^
it is the confidence that is attractive, then the muscles. Slightly asshole-ish is nice too. Basically if you're large, not trying to impress anyone, and a bit vain, that's hot.
 
trex74 said:
This ^ ^ ^
it is the confidence that is attractive, then the muscles. Slightly asshole-ish is nice too. Basically if you're large, not trying to impress anyone, and a bit vain, that's hot.
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It's weird though, like if the dude is confident, but you guys aren't on the same page, then that becomes narcissitic cockiness...

Has to be an undefinable frequency in accord with the charm, and looks. It'a combination ratio I can't and don't wanna really identify.
 
-Ariel- said:
It's weird though, like if the dude is confident, but you guys aren't on the same page, then that becomes narcissitic cockiness...

Has to be an undefinable frequency in accord with the charm, and looks. It'a combination ratio I can't and don't wanna really identify.
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yes but if that is backed up by a good sense of humour, and not oafishness then all the better
you're right it's hard to describe
 
trex74 said:
This ^ ^ ^
it is the confidence that is attractive, then the muscles. Slightly asshole-ish is nice too. Basically if you're large, not trying to impress anyone, and a bit vain, that's hot.
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been there, done that and agreed for the most part. Dudes gotta becareful with the asshole-ish act though. Personally not my thing, and i have no patience for it.
 
trex74 said:
yes but if that is backed up by a good sense of humour, and not oafishness then all the better
you're right it's hard to describe
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true... true... degrees. Again, like the ya know 6th grade act of I like you, and am giving you a hard time, flirtatious act of confidence/superior positioning... that's is walking on a wire, also the female has to be receptive to the personality transmitting that.

For example, I've had alot of female friends, and ex's who respond the brimming confidence that is exhibited through a flirtatious boyish teasing. However, Thandie, my SigO, likes confidence however if the guy pulls the flirt through teasing her... and if they get carried away, she'll throw that shit out like, Hakeem Olajawan late 90s.

It's an intangble though... I like it that way.

However, Trex, one thing that studies in dating reveal, in a study done on speed daters and graduate students, is that attraction is immediate, like within 30 seconds. Also most women, listed on the form before the encounter they wanted character, intelligence, and ambition. However, after the encounter, they found out that it was mainly charm and good looks that got the actual 2nd dates.

I think, that long term traits, were probably listed, and the females forgot about the 'music' of the intangible such as looks and charm.
 
*ebony* said:
been there, done that and agreed for the most part. Dudes gotta becareful with the asshole-ish act though. Personally not my thing, and i have no patience for it.
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I gotta be me, which is why I've had success, and also weirded out dates... and could hear the her eyes rolling, with wtf is he talking bout?

That said, if I tried the teasing/ahole approach, it would come off as weird and annoying.

We are all sexy in some way, and best enthrall possibilities when we are just being us, however, yeah my shit would just come off as annoying, cold, and critical if I were trying to pull off the aloof, and detached style.
 
Being kind of a dick has only worked for me once. Way back when I 18 living in section 8 with a bunch of cuban room mates we stopped by an am/pm to get some cigs and a couple of 40's. One of the cuban guys sister was my girlfriend and she was one fucking hot chola bitch.

As we are about to pull out 2 cute girls come up to the car and ask if they can hang with it. It must be the thug appeal because back then me and my friends were pretty damn thuggish. Even though my girl was in Cali visiting family for a week I've always been loyal so I basically don't even check other girls out. I have no interest when the pussy I got is good.

So anyhow, these girls are leaning up on my car and I'm like "bitch, you need to get your fuckin ass off my car". The other 3 guys are looking at me like wtf man?

So we drive back to the apartment and I'm chillin in my room missin my damn girl when like 20 minutes later the guy come into the house with the 2 girls. Now these girls were skeezers, but pretty fuckin cute skeezers.

I go to the bathroom to take a piss and the girl I had directly dissed opens the door and comes into the bathroom. I'm totally caught off guard. She got her fuck me eyes going full on and if I hadn't had a girl I woulda been like SCORE!

I end up talking to her for like 10 minutes in the bathroom and telling her how I love my girl and won't cheat on her. The girl breaks down and starts crying and talking about why she can't find a good guy like me.

Funny. I'm the guy that called you a fuckin bitch and straight cold snubbed you. Yet I'm completely faithful, but the first and most dominant impression you got was that I was a asshole who didn't give a fuck about your cuteness or gap in your legs and now you want my jock.

Too funny. Girls will say they want a nice guy and they do. But, that's not what they respond to from the beginning alot of the time.

For me personally being a dick is not my thing. I prefer flirting and giving nice compliments to a girl I like. But, you gotta do it in a way that makes them blush, but at the same time lets them know that if they reject you you aren't going to lose any sleep over it.

One time I stopped into my old chiro's office and he had this ridiculous young blonde girl(prefer brunettes fyi). Model thin, but not to thin with a gorgeous face and packin some serious cans. Pretty much most guys wet dream. I had seen her there several times and never really talked to her, but that day I was feeling frisky and started flirting with her.

One thing I had noticed about her from the beginning is she had possibly the most beautiful hands I have ever seen. So I told her she had lovely hands and if she had ever thought about hand modeling. She confessed the thought had never crossed her mind, yada yada.

3 weeks later I come back and I asked her if she had started modeling yet. Took about 2 seconds for her to remember and then she grinned. She was wearing those faux boots with the leather tops and she had a parka hanging on her chair with fur rim ala 80's outdoor winter catalog style.

I told her she reminded me of some 80's super model with those boots and parka. Massive blush. I work it a little more and she straight out blirts "I'm only 17!" with face in full blush mode.

Aka I woulda been tappin it soon if she was just a tad bit older.

So imo flirting and aggressive compliments can work really well without having to be a dick so long as you maintain "the attitude" of I don't need your puss.

Hmm, this turned into one helluva long post.
 
-Ariel- said:
I gotta be me, which is why I've had success, and also weirded out dates... and could hear the her eyes rolling, with wtf is he talking bout?

That said, if I tried the teasing/ahole approach, it would come off as weird and annoying.

We are all sexy in some way, and best enthrall possibilities when we are just being us, however, yeah my shit would just come off as annoying, cold, and critical if I were trying to pull off the aloof, and detached style.
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yeah, you don't have to be an asshole to get girls which is the common preconceived notion.
you just can't be an insecure pussy.

the asshole approach may work if it's line with their personality, but being a nice,charming guy who establishes clear boundaries/doesn't take any shit will attract a much better quality of woman and be more successful in the long term
 
-Ariel- said:
I gotta be me, which is why I've had success, and also weirded out dates... and could hear the her eyes rolling, with wtf is he talking bout?

That said, if I tried the teasing/ahole approach, it would come off as weird and annoying.

We are all sexy in some way, and best enthrall possibilities when we are just being us, however, yeah my shit would just come off as annoying, cold, and critical if I were trying to pull off the aloof, and detached style.
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lol.

yep, but i gotta say, i love a guy thats outgoing, funny/teasing, playful. A fun date makes me look forword to the next date.

fun dates > romantic dates. @ the begining anyways.
 
*ebony* said:
lol.

yep, but i gotta say, i love a guy thats outgoing, funny/teasing, playful. A fun date makes me look forword to the next date.

fun dates > romantic dates. @ the begining anyways.
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oh no, I don't mean not funny teasing.. I mean teasing in the little banter, of 'like pointing out shortcomings' type teasing... The kind of ovecompensating for, I'm not gonna let U know I like U approach, by kinda picking on U. 7thgrade approach.

U gotta be funny, if U dont' make her laugh... U got no shot, none whatsoever.

so it written in stone.
 
calveless wonder said:
yeah, you don't have to be an asshole to get girls which is the common preconceived notion.
you just can't be an insecure pussy.

the asshole approach may work if it's line with their personality, but being a nice,charming guy who establishes clear boundaries/doesn't take any shit will attract a much better quality of woman and be more successful in the long term
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Was waiting for Cdub 1uppage.

+1
 
If the attitude is there and you do something that impresses the girl you can convert a girl that doesn't like big muscles into one that does.

Most noticeable is if you have ever had to man up on a guy and make him your bitch in front of a girl you like.

My posts are kinda veering off into displays of male dominance and aggression, but it's totally true.

This girl I worked with at a nursery years ago came down into the bulkyard with her punk boyfriend to get half a yard of gravel in his truck.

For no reason at all the guy was flippin mass attitude at me and being a smartass so I hopped down off the front-end loader, walked right up to him and aggressively told him to go park his fuckin truck in a corner and I'll load it up. I scooped up half a yard of gravel and dropped it hard into his bed from too high up lol. The springs/shocks bottomed out for a sec as the rear end slammed the ground. Guy didn't say a word.

They drove away and his girl was smiling at me through the back window.

Women dig that shit at the right time.
 
ghettostudmuffin said:
If the attitude is there and you do something that impresses the girl you can convert a girl that doesn't like big muscles into one that does.

Most noticeable is if you have ever had to man up on a guy and make him your bitch in front of a girl you like.

My posts are kinda veering off into displays of male dominance and aggression, but it's totally true.

This girl I worked with at a nursery years ago came down into the bulkyard with her punk boyfriend to get half a yard of gravel in his truck.

For no reason at all the guy was flippin mass attitude at me and being a smartass so I hopped down off the front-end loader, walked right up to him and aggressively told him to go park his fuckin truck in a corner and I'll load it up. I scooped up half a yard of gravel and dropped it hard into his bed from too high up lol. The springs/shocks bottomed out for a sec as the rear end slammed the ground. Guy didn't say a word.

They drove away and his girl was smiling at me through the back window.

Women dig that shit at the right time.
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bro you fucked up my shocks u owe me 200 bucks in repairs and a new gf
 
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