Lower class people and having more kids than you can afford...

[75th]

Read the post before you get all pissy and judgemental.

So one of the guys in our office has a part time assistant that organizes paperwork and other low end stuff for him. She is a 25 year old Latino girl with a 11 year old, a 9 year old, a 6 year old, and a 4 year old. She just got married to a guy who is the father of none of them (2 other folks fathered her various children).

I overhear her often talking about how her and her husband are broke, their phone was shut off, etc which I always feel bad about because she's a decent enough girl.

Yesterday I asked her how her vacation was, and she tells me her and her husband just got the ball rolling on the in vitro process. Seriously.

I can understand that if you get preggo accidentally when you're broke and not wanting a shmushmorshin for personal reasons, but come on.

Does this make sense to anybody here?

 

[housemusik83]

Read the post before you get all pissy and judgemental.

So one of the guys in our office has a part time assistant that organizes paperwork and other low end stuff for him. She is a 25 year old Latino girl with a 11 year old, a 9 year old, a 6 year old, and a 4 year old. She just got married to a guy who is the father of none of them (2 other folks fathered her various children).

I overhear her often talking about how her and her husband are broke, their phone was shut off, etc which I always feel bad about because she's a decent enough girl.

Yesterday I asked her how her vacation was, and she tells me her and her husband just got the ball rolling on the in vitro process. Seriously.

I can understand that if you get preggo accidentally when you're broke and not wanting a shmushmorshin for personal reasons, but come on.

Does this make sense to anybody here?

hahaha "rhymes with "shmushorshin" lmao Bro that is a very common thing in the usa, im sure there are thousands and thousands of young girls in that situation, she is lucky to find a man to marry her with 4 kids... thats tough... what is the vitro process?

 

[cindylou]

No, Why do they feel like they even need to do in vitro? Shes still young, and obviously fertile plus she has plenty of time to save up some money she is only 25.

strange

 

[musclemom]

Does it make sense to me, personally? Fuck no. I had one, I made my contribution to the gene pool.

However, I also realize that some women are "into" babies the way other women are into cats (fucking kids are noisy, smelly and sticky, IMO) and for some women reproducing is the only way they have of validating themselves, it's the only thing they are good at or really qualified to do. That doesn't mean I approve or applaud their behavior, unfortunately some of this stems from old acculturalization shit, your basic man = god/women = breeder mentality.

 

[75th]

No, Why do they feel like they even need to do in vitro? Shes still young, and obviously fertile plus she has plenty of time to save up some money she is only 25.

strange

I think hombre may have a problem down south.

But I do t think they even had that checked. I think they just tried for a month, it didn't happen, so they figure max out their credit cards and borrow money from family in order to do this.

 

[Arabian]

Work hard today, people on welfare are depending on you..

 

[Smurfy]

in vitro is expensive as hell! so their phone is cut off but they can afford in vitro?

something's fishy.

 

[housemusik83]

someone tell me what Vitro is please??? sick and tired of people ignoring my fucking posts!!!! hahha jk

 

[musclemom]

someone tell me what Vitro is please??? sick and tired of people ignoring my fucking posts!!!! hahha jk

In vitro fertilization.

And if you don't know what that is, go back to school.

 

[cindylou]

someone tell me what Vitro is please??? sick and tired of people ignoring my fucking posts!!!! hahha jk

Its where the eggs are fertilized outside the uterus and then put back inside - or someting of that nature