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hardrock

hardrock

Go fuck your own face!
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So Thursday night I decide to walk up to the local pub around midnight. I had Yesterday and today off so I figured what the hell. After sitting bellied up to the bar for about 10 minutes this hot little 5 foot nothing 22 yr old 100 lber sits down next to me and we start talking. I ask her to play some pool and we play a couple games. Some flirting going on and she kisses me. We decide about 1:30 to head back to my place. We watch a movie and about half way through it we start going at it. We probably had about 4 hrs of sex that night and she had to be home at 8:30 am so I dropped her off and came home and got some friggin sleep. This is where things get interesting.

I wake up a few hours later and I have all these texts from her asking my why i'm not answering my phone and how she was just a one night thing and all this other bs. I call her and tell her i was sleeping and she says she wants to come over. Ok, I'm thinking. So I go pick her up(her car is in the shop). We get to talking and I find out some fucked up shit about her. Turns out she is a ex herion junkie and she had to be home that morning so her mom could take her to the methedone clinic. She's bi polar, slightly schitzo, and a whole handful of other problems. At this point I'm thinking fuck! Run! But I'm in my house. So we continue to hang out and I let her vent her issues. Then the bi polar shit kicks in. She's happy and upbeat one minute and out of no where she starts crying. At this point I am truely worried about this chick so i try consoling her. A few minutes later she snaps out of it and things are fine again.

So at this point I don't know if I actually care for this chick or simply pity her, but I make us a nice steak dinner. She is extremely appreciative. Afteerwards we go at it agin for an hour or so. This chick is amazing in the sack BTW. Later we have a couple drinks. She's not even done with her first one and can barely stay awake. She spent most of the afternoon asleep in my arms on the couch. She drops her cig like 3 times and then her drink, thankfully it was empty. Now I am getting very annoyed. She starts crying again and this goes on all night until she finally falls asleep. I sit up for about 2 hours wondering how the fuck I got myself into this shit.

I drop her off again this morning so she can go to the methodone clinic again, and come home and go back to sleep. I just woke up.

here's my conundrum. This chick is hot, and awesome in the sack. She's nuttier than squirrel shit and obiously has more issues than People magazine. I know I need to get away, but I am genuinely concerned for her well being. She says everyone always leaves her and she lives alone and crys all the time and wants to die half the time. I don't want this chick to go and off herself. I'll feel responsible.

WTF do I do?

Oh and why are the crazy ass chicks always the best in bed?

I sure know how to pick em.
 
holy shit

run dude

its really nice that you wanna take care of her and everything but she needs to help herself
 
hardrock said:
So Thursday night I decide to walk up to the local pub around midnight. I had Yesterday and today off so I figured what the hell. After sitting bellied up to the bar for about 10 minutes this hot little 5 foot nothing 22 yr old 100 lber sits down next to me and we start talking. I ask her to play some pool and we play a couple games. Some flirting going on and she kisses me. We decide about 1:30 to head back to my place. We watch a movie and about half way through it we start going at it. We probably had about 4 hrs of sex that night and she had to be home at 8:30 am so I dropped her off and came home and got some friggin sleep. This is where things get interesting.

I wake up a few hours later and I have all these texts from her asking my why i'm not answering my phone and how she was just a one night thing and all this other bs. I call her and tell her i was sleeping and she says she wants to come over. Ok, I'm thinking. So I go pick her up(her car is in the shop). We get to talking and I find out some fucked up shit about her. Turns out she is a ex herion junkie and she had to be home that morning so her mom could take her to the methedone clinic. She's bi polar, slightly schitzo, and a whole handful of other problems. At this point I'm thinking fuck! Run! But I'm in my house. So we continue to hang out and I let her vent her issues. Then the bi polar shit kicks in. She's happy and upbeat one minute and out of no where she starts crying. At this point I am truely worried about this chick so i try consoling her. A few minutes later she snaps out of it and things are fine again.

So at this point I don't know if I actually care for this chick or simply pity her, but I make us a nice steak dinner. She is extremely appreciative. Afteerwards we go at it agin for an hour or so. This chick is amazing in the sack BTW. Later we have a couple drinks. She's not even done with her first one and can barely stay awake. She spent most of the afternoon asleep in my arms on the couch. She drops her cig like 3 times and then her drink, thankfully it was empty. Now I am getting very annoyed. She starts crying again and this goes on all night until she finally falls asleep. I sit up for about 2 hours wondering how the fuck I got myself into this shit.

I drop her off again this morning so she can go to the methodone clinic again, and come home and go back to sleep. I just woke up.

here's my conundrum. This chick is hot, and awesome in the sack. She's nuttier than squirrel shit and obiously has more issues than People magazine. I know I need to get away, but I am genuinely concerned for her well being. She says everyone always leaves her and she lives alone and crys all the time and wants to die half the time. I don't want this chick to go and off herself. I'll feel responsible.

WTF do I do?

Oh and why are the crazy ass chicks always the best in bed?

I sure know how to pick em.
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lol
 
princesa said:
holy shit

run dude

its really nice that you wanna take care of her and everything but she needs to help herself
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I know that's what I need to do. I can't have this shit in my life.

Oh and sometime around 3 am my ex as of a few weeks ago(we only dated for about 3 weeks) calls me asking me to pick her up cause she got a flat. Then 20 minutes later to say thanks for nothing. I was fucking sleeping. I wake up to hear this shit. Fuck god damn crazy ass women.
 
cant take cae of every fucked up person that comes along.....
enjoy the sex you had and move along before she starts breakign into yoru crib and stanfding over you with a knife tinking yoru cheating
 
hardrock said:
I know that's what I need to do. I can't have this shit in my life.

Oh and sometime around 3 am my ex as of a few weeks ago(we only dated for about 3 weeks) calls me asking me to pick her up cause she got a flat. Then 20 minutes later to say thanks for nothing. I was fucking sleeping. I wake up to hear this shit. Fuck god damn crazy ass women.
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try and let her down easy though
she sounds like she would do something crazy

lol @ the ex...does she know you are no longer dating lol
 
Ok as I see it you have a few options.

#1- RUN, don't walk, don't jog, RUN! Pretend you are a snack cake hiding in HR's pantry and get the f*ck outta dodge!

#2- Contact, Puddlemonkey. He is the resident psychotic female expert.

#3- Tell her it simply isn't going to work out becuase if your probation officer finds out you are dating someone who has access to methadone you will go back to lock up.
 
NEO1 said:
Ok as I see it you have a few options.

#1- RUN, don't walk, don't jog, RUN! Pretend you are a snack cake hiding in HR's pantry and get the f*ck outta dodge!

#2- Contact, Puddlemonkey. He is the resident psychotic female expert.

#3- Tell her it simply isn't going to work out becuase if your probation officer finds out you are dating someone who has access to methadone you will go back to lock up.
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#3 sounds good if she didn't already know I'm not on probation. She is though now that u mention it.
 
NEO1 said:
Ok as I see it you have a few options.

#1- RUN, don't walk, don't jog, RUN! Pretend you are a snack cake hiding in HR's pantry and get the f*ck outta dodge!

#2- Contact, Puddlemonkey. He is the resident psychotic female expert.

#3- Tell her it simply isn't going to work out becuase if your probation officer finds out you are dating someone who has access to methadone you will go back to lock up.
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LMAO...thats a good one, it might work
 
Tell her that you've dated an addict before and that you're not willing to go down that road again.
Tell her that you think she's awesome, but that it is just too early in her recovery for you to feel comfortable starting anything.
 
dude just cut all ties or are you emotionally attatched now?
ur letting ur emotions play too much in your decision making, think logically
 
Damn Hardrock, you actually posses a conscience, which is more than what half of the people on here can say.

Go with your gut on this one. Do what you feel is right.
 
I'm not emotionally attached, but i am a very emotional person.

She just texted me and said she was going to steal my arms so she could have them wrapped around her at all times. I told her that stealing would be a violation of her probation. LOL
 
hardrock said:
I'm not emotionally attached, but i am a very emotional person.

She just texted me and said she was going to steal my arms so she could have them wrapped around her at all times. I told her that stealing would be a violation of her probation. LOL
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haha thats hilarious. i still think ur making it harder than it has to
 
stephen4327 said:
haha thats hilarious. i still think ur making it harder than it has to
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I always do. I'm too damn nice for my own good sometimes.

Well I'm off to the gym. Feel free to post up any other escape routes/jokes about crazy chicks, while I'm away.
 
Arabian said:
And I thought I was the only one that attracted these wingnuts..lol
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Arabian
I got a message from this chic from HotorNot, yeah I'm shallow, but anyway, she had all this bvlgari type, prada, type shit on her favorite keywords... well since I"m a grad student and nordstroms, mark shale, neiman marcus, and saks are out of my league at the moment, and going by her bio I thought she was the perfect chica for U.. Ihave pics, but I chatted with her and she's basically a shallow money grubbing ho, nothing wrong with that at all, but I think U dig substance so, I thought better than to recommend this chic in LA for ya.... just wanted to let ya know I was gonna pay it forward for ya... Sorry she's unkewl bro, would've made me so fucking happy to hook a bro up.
 
run run run run run run as fast you can

my ex wasnt even that nuts and I'd run from here if I had a do-over
 
Wow hard that sucks, hot chick great in bed but looney. Tell her she maid you miss your wife and kids and you are going to get back with your wife. Look for a new place to live!
She is not going to leave you alone so just changing your cell phone isn't going to work. Oh, and I doubt she really has a car in the shop, just a lie. Good luck with this one!
 
Wait, I would like to revise my statement.

Go anal on her then Run run run run run run far far far far far far away.

She's gonna become a squatter in your house.
 
What are you doing man.... RUNNNN!!!

I guess over the past couple of years I've turned kinda stone cold when it comes to people and their BS. I've dealt with far too much of it, some here would even know details... But things to learn

You can't fix someone
You can't save someone
You are NOT responsible for the actions of anyone on this earth other then yourself


If the crazy bitch offs herself, thats her problem, not yours.
 
Austin316 said:
You can't fix someone
You can't save someone
You are NOT responsible for the actions of anyone on this earth other then yourself


If the crazy bitch offs herself, thats her problem, not yours.
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Inside i know this, but the caretaker in me says otherwise. God I'm a pussy.
 
Maybe the cleanest way to extricate yourself from this mess is to con her into leaving you. What are her biggest turn-offs? What pisses her off? You need to exploit these things if you want to stand any chance of getting away before she becomes too attached.
 
Mr. dB said:
Maybe the cleanest way to extricate yourself from this mess is to con her into leaving you. What are her biggest turn-offs? What pisses her off? You need to exploit these things if you want to stand any chance of getting away before she becomes too attached.
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You'd have to take this one really far... She's probably been in abusive relationships in the past and just stuck with them cause she's clingy and needs drugs.
 
UA_Iron said:
You'd have to take this one really far... She's probably been in abusive relationships in the past and just stuck with them cause she's clingy and needs drugs.
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I'm not suggesting abuse. But maybe some nasty habits, like forgetting to flush after dropping a log, or not picking up his clothes, chewing with his mouth open, find out what annoys her and exploit it. Neglect is good too.
 
Mr. dB said:
I'm not suggesting abuse. But maybe some nasty habits, like forgetting to flush after dropping a log, or not picking up his clothes, chewing with his mouth open, find out what annoys her and exploit it. Neglect is good too.
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During one of her down episodes lastnight I was so sick of it I told her to just snap out of it. She got mad and said "it's not that easy, you just don't understand". Maybe I could play on that a little. She's been texting me all day asking me to do something.

Whats even worse is she just moved in about 5 blocks away and she's 2 blocks from my local pub. Anyway you shake it I will see her again. I want a clean break, where there is no bad blood. I don't need her contaminating my dating pool.
 
hardrock said:
During one of her down episodes lastnight I was so sick of it I told her to just snap out of it. She got mad and said "it's not that easy, you just don't understand". Maybe I could play on that a little. She's been texting me all day asking me to do something.

Whats even worse is she just moved in about 5 blocks away and she's 2 blocks from my local pub. Anyway you shake it I will see her again. I want a clean break, where there is no bad blood. I don't need her contaminating my dating pool.
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Tell her straight up "I think you're an awesome girl, but we're at different points in our lives. You're also psycho."
 
UA_Iron said:
Tell her straight up "I think you're an awesome girl, but we're at different points in our lives. You're also psycho."
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That's actually pretty good minus the psycho part. I got me some thinkin to do, that's for sure. I'm not gonna see her today, and maybe we'll have "the talk" tomorrow.
 
hardrock said:
That's actually pretty good minus the psycho part. I got me some thinkin to do, that's for sure. I'm not gonna see her today, and maybe we'll have "the talk" tomorrow.
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Dude, not for nothing but you don't owe her an explanation
you know her for what... less then 48hrs

I'd understand if you got to know her well and it was a couple of weeks, you would feel bad. You only shared one night together, thats about it. YOu don't really know her that deep.

Don't get me wrong I feel for the girl but there is nothing you can do about it. Obviously she needs to get well first. On another note if you truly care for her. Tell her that she needs to seek help and maybe you can try this again later on....

just my .02
 
princesa said:
Dude, not for nothing but you don't owe her an explanation
you know her for what... less then 48hrs

I'd understand if you got to know her well and it was a couple of weeks, you would feel bad. You only shared one night together, thats about it. YOu don't really know her that deep.

Don't get me wrong I feel for the girl but there is nothing you can do about it. Obviously she needs to get well first. On another note if you truly care for her. Tell her that she needs to seek help and maybe you can try this again later on....

just my .02
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Hardrock you seem like a good bro, but you are not exactly the Dalai Lama, I mean I don't really think you can help her out, which is what she needs...
Its kewl that you actually care, now if you wanna follow this up get her some help...
 
I know I dont owe her anything, but I feel like i'm all she has that's good in her life, Actually she told me that. And I'm fuckin tired of being single. i know she's not the right one, but, aww fuckit nevermind.
 
You gotta tell her. It doesnt need to be lengthy. Bite the bullet and do it now before things get exponentially more fucked up.
 
-Ariel- said:
+1
Hardrock you seem like a good bro, but you are not exactly the Dalai Lama, I mean I don't really think you can help her out, which is what she needs...
Its kewl that you actually care, now if you wanna follow this up get her some help...
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What help? She see a shrink and a psychologist as it is and is on meds that are supposed to help. I like this chick, but the negatives definitely outweigh the posatives.
 
hardrock said:
"it's not that easy, you just don't understand.
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There's an angle. If there's some way to get her to fixate on the idea that you "don't understand" then she'll think you're not compatible as a couple.

Then if that doesn't work there's always the cop-out "I'm just not looking for a relationship or commitment right now" line.
 
you absolutely fucked up bringing her (or any woman) to your house. She knows where you live and she is out of her mind crazy. She cannot be trusted. You need to move and stop going to that bar. She will follow you if she can. Expect and plan for the worst. Don't ever do this again.
 
ceo said:
you absolutely fucked up bringing her (or any woman) to your house. She knows where you live and she is out of her mind crazy. She cannot be trusted. You need to move and stop going to that bar. She will follow you if she can. Expect and plan for the worst. Don't ever do this again.
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I think that's a little extreme. I aint worried about her fucking with my place or anything like that. She's not destructive, just self destructive. I'd like to let her down easy and just be friends with her. That way i can still hang at my favorite bar and don't have to worry about any drama.
 
hardrock said:
So Thursday night I decide to walk up to the local pub around midnight. I had Yesterday and today off so I figured what the hell. After sitting bellied up to the bar for about 10 minutes this hot little 5 foot nothing 22 yr old 100 lber sits down next to me and we start talking. I ask her to play some pool and we play a couple games. Some flirting going on and she kisses me. We decide about 1:30 to head back to my place. We watch a movie and about half way through it we start going at it. We probably had about 4 hrs of sex that night and she had to be home at 8:30 am so I dropped her off and came home and got some friggin sleep. This is where things get interesting.

I wake up a few hours later and I have all these texts from her asking my why i'm not answering my phone and how she was just a one night thing and all this other bs. I call her and tell her i was sleeping and she says she wants to come over. Ok, I'm thinking. So I go pick her up(her car is in the shop). We get to talking and I find out some fucked up shit about her. Turns out she is a ex herion junkie and she had to be home that morning so her mom could take her to the methedone clinic. She's bi polar, slightly schitzo, and a whole handful of other problems. At this point I'm thinking fuck! Run! But I'm in my house. So we continue to hang out and I let her vent her issues. Then the bi polar shit kicks in. She's happy and upbeat one minute and out of no where she starts crying. At this point I am truely worried about this chick so i try consoling her. A few minutes later she snaps out of it and things are fine again.

So at this point I don't know if I actually care for this chick or simply pity her, but I make us a nice steak dinner. She is extremely appreciative. Afteerwards we go at it agin for an hour or so. This chick is amazing in the sack BTW. Later we have a couple drinks. She's not even done with her first one and can barely stay awake. She spent most of the afternoon asleep in my arms on the couch. She drops her cig like 3 times and then her drink, thankfully it was empty. Now I am getting very annoyed. She starts crying again and this goes on all night until she finally falls asleep. I sit up for about 2 hours wondering how the fuck I got myself into this shit.

I drop her off again this morning so she can go to the methodone clinic again, and come home and go back to sleep. I just woke up.

here's my conundrum. This chick is hot, and awesome in the sack. She's nuttier than squirrel shit and obiously has more issues than People magazine. I know I need to get away, but I am genuinely concerned for her well being. She says everyone always leaves her and she lives alone and crys all the time and wants to die half the time. I don't want this chick to go and off herself. I'll feel responsible.

WTF do I do?

Oh and why are the crazy ass chicks always the best in bed?

I sure know how to pick em.
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I didnt read any responses here (Im sure at least one intelligent poster told you to run like the wind) but you are NOT responsible for her. DO NOT allow yourself to get caught up in something like this. You have known her for 2 days. Get the fuck out and dont look back.
 
Bino said:
fug i'd run bro
you seriously fuct up by taking her to your house
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ummm. . .yeah. . .so like "running" ain't gonna do much good. . .unless you're telling him to pack up his shit and move in the middle of the night like the baltimore friggin' colts. . .
 
i have no relationship experience with anyone that was recovering from any sort of substance abuse but, there's quite a few recovering peeps here at ef. . .when they chime in, that's whose advice i would pay attention to. . .my $.02. . .
 
I would go with your gut... but if you wanna avoid disaster, I would check yourself and look for someone stable...
I had no idea she was with a shirnk and psych... I'm not sure another relationship would be the healthiest thing for her.
 
So she called me up all balling and shit. I went over to her place and held her until she fell asleep. I did tell her that I couldn't have a relationship with her because of the state she's in and she needs to work on herself first. i told her we could remain friends and she was fine with that and understood. it actually went really well. She also told me a bunch of fucked up shit that happened to her when she was a kid. I'm amazed she's still alive to be honest. Tough little chick.
 
hardrock said:
So Thursday night I decide to walk up to the local pub around midnight. I had Yesterday and today off so I figured what the hell. After sitting bellied up to the bar for about 10 minutes this hot little 5 foot nothing 22 yr old 100 lber sits down next to me and we start talking. I ask her to play some pool and we play a couple games. Some flirting going on and she kisses me. We decide about 1:30 to head back to my place. We watch a movie and about half way through it we start going at it. We probably had about 4 hrs of sex that night and she had to be home at 8:30 am so I dropped her off and came home and got some friggin sleep. This is where things get interesting.

I wake up a few hours later and I have all these texts from her asking my why i'm not answering my phone and how she was just a one night thing and all this other bs. I call her and tell her i was sleeping and she says she wants to come over. Ok, I'm thinking. So I go pick her up(her car is in the shop). We get to talking and I find out some fucked up shit about her. Turns out she is a ex herion junkie and she had to be home that morning so her mom could take her to the methedone clinic. She's bi polar, slightly schitzo, and a whole handful of other problems. At this point I'm thinking fuck! Run! But I'm in my house. So we continue to hang out and I let her vent her issues. Then the bi polar shit kicks in. She's happy and upbeat one minute and out of no where she starts crying. At this point I am truely worried about this chick so i try consoling her. A few minutes later she snaps out of it and things are fine again.

So at this point I don't know if I actually care for this chick or simply pity her, but I make us a nice steak dinner. She is extremely appreciative. Afteerwards we go at it agin for an hour or so. This chick is amazing in the sack BTW. Later we have a couple drinks. She's not even done with her first one and can barely stay awake. She spent most of the afternoon asleep in my arms on the couch. She drops her cig like 3 times and then her drink, thankfully it was empty. Now I am getting very annoyed. She starts crying again and this goes on all night until she finally falls asleep. I sit up for about 2 hours wondering how the fuck I got myself into this shit.

I drop her off again this morning so she can go to the methodone clinic again, and come home and go back to sleep. I just woke up.

here's my conundrum. This chick is hot, and awesome in the sack. She's nuttier than squirrel shit and obiously has more issues than People magazine. I know I need to get away, but I am genuinely concerned for her well being. She says everyone always leaves her and she lives alone and crys all the time and wants to die half the time. I don't want this chick to go and off herself. I'll feel responsible.

WTF do I do?

Oh and why are the crazy ass chicks always the best in bed?

I sure know how to pick em.
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do the bit I highlighted

and watch Bill and Ted for a proper adventure story
 
hardrock said:
So she called me up all balling and shit. I went over to her place and held her until she fell asleep. I did tell her that I couldn't have a relationship with her because of the state she's in and she needs to work on herself first. i told her we could remain friends and she was fine with that and understood. it actually went really well. She also told me a bunch of fucked up shit that happened to her when she was a kid. I'm amazed she's still alive to be honest. Tough little chick.
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I had a boyfriend like that.
I thought he was fucked up and I wanted to just stay friends.
Next thing I knew he had moved in with me.
The following 2.5 years were a fucking mess.
I had to leave the state to get away from the guy.
Be careful with this.
 
Stefka said:
I had a boyfriend like that.
I thought he was fucked up and I wanted to just stay friends.
Next thing I knew he had moved in with me.
The following 2.5 years were a fucking mess.
I had to leave the state to get away from the guy.
Be careful with this.
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Oh I will. She is a really sweet chick taht is having a rough time. As long as she can handle it, I will continue to be her friend. She really has no one.
 
chris302001 said:
This is true....and it's sad because you'll think they're truely sincere, and you help them. Then they turn around and fuck you over...
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I know this. One of my ex's turned into a meth head and tried pulling all kinds of shit w me. She I think I probably wrote some threads about it. She was Jade19 on here. Anyway, I have known many addicts and for now I believe this girl. if I see anything to make me think otherwise, i'm out.
 
hardrock said:
I know this. One of my ex's turned into a meth head and tried pulling all kinds of shit w me. She I think I probably wrote some threads about it. She was Jade19 on here. Anyway, I have known many addicts and for now I believe this girl. if I see anything to make me think otherwise, i'm out.
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So is she like, for real diagnosed bipolar? Does she take any meds?
 
Stefka said:
Hey Dr...How would methadone interact with bipolar meds?
(and she totally should not be drinking - right?)
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well it depends on the med....I personally wouldnt wanna see ANYONE on methadone unless they were a chronic pain patient who is documented to not respond to anything else.

But psychotropics interact with a lot of stuff, and its NEVER a good idea to use a substance that affects mood and personality (ie -- ETOH) when taking medication for Bipolar Disorder or any mood disorders. (Kinda defeats the purpose).

But really, only a trained psychiatrist should answer that question.
 
chris302001 said:
well it depends on the med....I personally wouldnt wanna see ANYONE on methadone unless they were a chronic pain patient who is documented to not respond to anything else.

But psychotropics interact with a lot of stuff, and its NEVER a good idea to use a substance that affects mood and personality (ie -- ETOH) when taking medication for Bipolar Disorder or any mood disorders. (Kinda defeats the purpose).

But really, only a trained psychiatrist should answer that question.
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I know in holland they are now treating heroin addicts with just reduced amounts of heroin because their research claims it is less toxic than methadone....
Any time methadone comes into the convo... the word relationship should never be spoken.
 
She also had a really bad back and scoliosis(sp?) She is on bipolar meds. She also has severe anxiety and depression.
 
I don't know. The clinic won't let her take certain drugs and the methodone at the same time, so she has basically foregone pain meds to stay off the H. She was prescribed oxy for her back until the clinic said no. If she fails a UA with anything other than she is prescribed, she can't get her methodone.
 
For future referance, if the woman thng has been a trend for awhile, you meet pyshcos... you end up being caretaker, you end up in some kinda "movie" plotline... The real problem is probably something internal, not the girls. Yea they are psycho but subconsciously your seeking them out. I'd really work to make yourself aware of things, and fix them.. You can't let Negative black holes like them into your life, it will fuck you up over time internally. Negative energy is like cancer man. I only speek from experiance on this topic, but get that figured out and you will notice a lot less psychos in your life. I watched a shit ton of seminars, read psychology books, etc etc etc and I'm 100% differant towards women then I used to be and for once I have peace! lol
 
hardrock said:
I don't know. The clinic won't let her take certain drugs and the methodone at the same time, so she has basically foregone pain meds to stay off the H. She was prescribed oxy for her back until the clinic said no. If she fails a UA with anything other than she is prescribed, she can't get her methodone.
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hardrock, why does she need vicodin for her back? I have scoliosis and have had back pain off and on from muscle strains and even went to PT (has she gone to PT)? Scoliosis alone does not cause back pain. Does she have some disc issues or something else going on in her back? sounds like she uses excuses to take drugs.
 
anyone with heroin addiction worst thing you can give them is pain killers...just needs to have nothing but the methqdone
 
Smurfy said:
hardrock, why does she need vicodin for her back? I have scoliosis and have had back pain off and on from muscle strains and even went to PT (has she gone to PT)? Scoliosis alone does not cause back pain. Does she have some disc issues or something else going on in her back? sounds like she uses excuses to take drugs.
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It's some kind of degenerative bone issue that affects all her bones, but her back is the worst. She literally wakes up in pain several times a night. And it was Oxycontin not vicodin which is hydrocodone I belive. She doesn't want to take it anyway, cause she doesn't want anymore additcions.


And Austin, You could be right, but it's a little too late. I don't think I seek these people out tho. I just think I don't see the signs early enough to know to get the hell out.
 
Watch the movie "What the bleep do we know" for more of an understanding of what I'm getting at. Consciously of course you don't seek this out, doesn't mean your sub-conscious plays by the same rules. Everyone is essentially addicted to emotions, hence you do things that will repeatedly bring about the same things. Either way, check that out, it blew my mind open and sent me down a path of "enlightenment" so to speak over the last year or so. You just need to work on your "observing ego" and you'll find your no longer partaking in train wrecks. I know I probably come off as preachy, but just trying to help. I don't believe in fate, or luck, or anything like that. I make my own reality
 
Austin316 said:
Watch the movie "What the bleep do we know" for more of an understanding of what I'm getting at. Consciously of course you don't seek this out, doesn't mean your sub-conscious plays by the same rules. Everyone is essentially addicted to emotions, hence you do things that will repeatedly bring about the same things. Either way, check that out, it blew my mind open and sent me down a path of "enlightenment" so to speak over the last year or so. You just need to work on your "observing ego" and you'll find your no longer partaking in train wrecks. I know I probably come off as preachy, but just trying to help. I don't believe in fate, or luck, or anything like that. I make my own reality
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Thanks bro. I'll check it out. Is it a Blockbuster type movie, or do I need to go to Amazon?
 
and then you banged her?

hardrock said:
So she called me up all balling and shit. I went over to her place and held her until she fell asleep. I did tell her that I couldn't have a relationship with her because of the state she's in and she needs to work on herself first. i told her we could remain friends and she was fine with that and understood. it actually went really well. She also told me a bunch of fucked up shit that happened to her when she was a kid. I'm amazed she's still alive to be honest. Tough little chick.
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Too many responses to read, but i hope it works out. Oh, and the reason she is good in the sack is because she gets lots of practice with many different random guys she meets at pubs.
 
You can get it at Blockbuster I think. Or probably download it at mininova.com or whatever it is. When you watch it, just make sure to keep an open mind, some crazy ways to think in there
 
Out-crazy her. Call her every 5 min accusing of her cheating, and start crying. Tell her you want to marry her tomorrow and start a family. be like i care about you but there's something you need to know first: i'm HIV positive. Tell her you want to cook dinner again, and throw two dead squirrels on the pan and piss all over them. you can do this bro, i believe.
 
Give her a set of keys to your place and your number at work. I'm sure that will make her less of a nuisance and more stable when you show her how much you trust her.
 
Truthfully I think the more attention you pay her when she breaks down, the more frequent and intense her breakdowns will be as you are rewarding her for her desperate behavior. I think you should be honest with yourself and admit to yourself that you just wanted to use her for her pussy and stop the madness. Do you truly think you are the only guy who has fucked her and ran? Don't be the fool who fucks her and stays. Make sure when you dump her you have a FEMALE friend with you as a witness to what happens. You are just digging your ditch deeper and deeper every time you cave into her pleas for attention.
 
Jacob Creutzfeldt said:
Truthfully I think the more attention you pay her when she breaks down, the more frequent and intense her breakdowns will be as you are rewarding her for her desperate behavior. I think you should be honest with yourself and admit to yourself that you just wanted to use her for her pussy and stop the madness. Do you truly think you are the only guy who has fucked her and ran? Don't be the fool who fucks her and stays. Make sure when you dump her you have a FEMALE friend with you as a witness to what happens. You are just digging your ditch deeper and deeper every time you cave into her pleas for attention.
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It's actually more like a temper tantrum. When she doesn't get her way, she throws a fit and starts crying. She also blames everyone else for her problems. I told her to grow up and accept some responsibility for her own actions. I had to kick her out of my place last night. She came over after the bar. I couldn't understand a word shhe was saying, other than I'm not drunk. Bullshit. She couldn't even walk. After I dropped her at her place and she tried to talk me into letting her come back over. I refused and she told me to fuck off and slammed my car door. Come to find out this morning that as she was walking down her sidewalk, she tripped and smacked her face, and hand on the ground.

You're right. The night I met her I did just want a piece. What else you expect from a bar hook up. I did start to care for her, but now I can't stand her. I told her I will see her no more, and she needs to go to treatment.
 
You took her back to your place the first night? What are you stupid? Never, never, never, never show them where you live that soon. You're fucked.
 
PuddleMonkey said:
You took her back to your place the first night? What are you stupid? Never, never, never, never show them where you live that soon. You're fucked.
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Where the fuck else was i suppossed to take her? I always bring chicks home. Never had it backfire on me like this before. Lesson learned. Maybe :)
 
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It's actually more like a temper tantrum. When she doesn't get her way, she throws a fit and starts crying. She also blames everyone else for her problems. I told her to grow up and accept some responsibility for her own actions. I had to kick her out of my place last night. She came over after the bar. I couldn't understand a word shhe was saying, other than I'm not drunk. Bullshit. She couldn't even walk. After I dropped her at her place and she tried to talk me into letting her come back over. I refused and she told me to fuck off and slammed my car door. Come to find out this morning that as she was walking down her sidewalk, she tripped and smacked her face, and hand on the ground.

You're right. The night I met her I did just want a piece. What else you expect from a bar hook up. I did start to care for her, but now I can't stand her. I told her I will see her no more, and she needs to go to treatment.
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lesson learned.
 
hardrock said:
So Thursday night I decide to walk up to the local pub around midnight. I had Yesterday and today off so I figured what the hell. After sitting bellied up to the bar for about 10 minutes this hot little 5 foot nothing 22 yr old 100 lber sits down next to me and we start talking. I ask her to play some pool and we play a couple games. Some flirting going on and she kisses me. We decide about 1:30 to head back to my place. We watch a movie and about half way through it we start going at it. We probably had about 4 hrs of sex that night and she had to be home at 8:30 am so I dropped her off and came home and got some friggin sleep. This is where things get interesting.

I wake up a few hours later and I have all these texts from her asking my why i'm not answering my phone and how she was just a one night thing and all this other bs. I call her and tell her i was sleeping and she says she wants to come over. Ok, I'm thinking. So I go pick her up(her car is in the shop). We get to talking and I find out some fucked up shit about her. Turns out she is a ex herion junkie and she had to be home that morning so her mom could take her to the methedone clinic. She's bi polar, slightly schitzo, and a whole handful of other problems. At this point I'm thinking fuck! Run! But I'm in my house. So we continue to hang out and I let her vent her issues. Then the bi polar shit kicks in. She's happy and upbeat one minute and out of no where she starts crying. At this point I am truely worried about this chick so i try consoling her. A few minutes later she snaps out of it and things are fine again.

So at this point I don't know if I actually care for this chick or simply pity her, but I make us a nice steak dinner. She is extremely appreciative. Afteerwards we go at it agin for an hour or so. This chick is amazing in the sack BTW. Later we have a couple drinks. She's not even done with her first one and can barely stay awake. She spent most of the afternoon asleep in my arms on the couch. She drops her cig like 3 times and then her drink, thankfully it was empty. Now I am getting very annoyed. She starts crying again and this goes on all night until she finally falls asleep. I sit up for about 2 hours wondering how the fuck I got myself into this shit.

I drop her off again this morning so she can go to the methodone clinic again, and come home and go back to sleep. I just woke up.

here's my conundrum. This chick is hot, and awesome in the sack. She's nuttier than squirrel shit and obiously has more issues than People magazine. I know I need to get away, but I am genuinely concerned for her well being. She says everyone always leaves her and she lives alone and crys all the time and wants to die half the time. I don't want this chick to go and off herself. I'll feel responsible.

WTF do I do?

Oh and why are the crazy ass chicks always the best in bed?

I sure know how to pick em.
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LMAO!!! Bro you have to know something is wrong with them when you first meet them at a lil pub and they are making out with you and go home with you and you hit it!

She is on methadone for sure because my Uncle use to be nodding out like that and dropping his cigerette all the time burning up the couch and carpet! I wouldn't stay with her no matter how good she is in bed because you already feel sorry for her. That means it will probably get worse since she is bipolar so I would cut my losses "sex" right now!!
 
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