I dont even know what to suggest bro other than to say your not alone. my wife had a miscarriage two years ago then she had issues getting pregnant after that,mostly because she put on an assload of weight since we got married,I was treated like a sperm donor the entire time she tried to get pregnant and didnt get laid just jacked it into a cup. now we have a kid and are fucking miserable too. no sex in over a year,its fucked.
im sure the smart thing to do is bail out but now that I have a kid its harder. dont get her pregnant bro or your fucked like me