my wife wouldn't let me stick it anywhere near her without a condom on up until she startred taking bc pill 2 months before our wedding last sept and we've been together for 7 years . . .
Once I hit it raw I was able to come much faster if I wanted to. with a condom on it takes me at least 10 minutes, without I can get it done in 2 minutes if i'm aroused. I guess I have an uncanny ability to get very hard and give a pounding and keep my arousel level down enough that I can go for a while if I want to. I seem to have more problems coming fast than I do taking my time. Unfortunately for me, my wife prefers to get it over ASAP...