Wtf? I Never Get Laid!

[-SD-]

Im never getting married. Never.

 

[Glootz]

Divorce my friend.

You are indicative of the incredible high rate of divorce today.............NO
DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTION HERE. Sure, sex is an important part of marriage, I know that...but divorcing her is not the answer...how about some counseling? Couch time has never hurt anyone. Candlight, and dancing could help too...and I am Preaching to the choir....it would be>>C.O.D.
Manny............. stuff it

 

[carpin00]

glootz, it seems no matter what I do, she still has no interest! Shit, I know I am the man in the sack!

 

[ZenMachine]

I know I am the man in the sack!

This belief may be half your problem

I suggest reading a book called "His needs, Her needs" (Sorry I forget the Author). Lack of sex in a relationship, is often times a symptom of other problems.

Perhaps she isn't getting one of her needs met (affection, security) and then has trouble reciprocating.

Zen

 

[Frackal]

Get OUT of that marriage .... your wife is obviously a frigid, selfish bitch...dont cheat on her or you'll get taken to the cleaners even worse..... it's likely that SHE is cheating on YOU anyway...its no coincidence that lack of sexual desire for a woman is called "frigidity"

 

[Deepsquat]

My wife started cheating on her ex husband ....he wouldn't fuck her...she figures 17 times in 7 years of marraige! ...hell I screw her that many time each week( Those of you that have seen her picture know why )
Anyway you need to sit down with her and tell her she has 3 options ...1 get a divorce.....2 start having sex with you...3 agree to let you have a sex friend on the side....there are no other options!....#2 can also be with counsoling ...but you have needs ...and she is not holding up her end of the m,arraige...It maybe tough to leave her if she chooses # 1 ...but at some point you have to do for you and not your daughter....how long do you intend to put up with this ???/ Till your little girl moves out 16-20 years from now???????! Hell no solve the problem now! If you need to move on so be it ...you will be happieer in the long run....

 

[wonderstanding]

divorce

 

[pajaro loco]

Search the MOTHERFUCKER that is helping!!!

 

[VeggieLifterChick]

Do you know if she was on a birth control pill? Like maybe she upped her dose 3 years ago or something? My roommate lost her sex drive when she was on certain bc pills. Or, maybe she's depressed. DEpression makes people lose their libidos. Either way, I think that yelling at her about it will probably make her feel worse. Think of it like this: if you had an impotence problem, stemming from marital problems, and your wife guilted you for it, wouldnt that just make everything worse? wouldn't you feel like shit?

Sounds like she's probably got some deeper problems and this is an expression of them. I've never been married, but I can think of a few things that might be wrong.

1) She doesn't feel attractive to you. She may feel ugly or fat and be embarassed to be naked in front of you. Does she have self esteem issues? Did she gain weight during pregnancy that she never lost?
2) She resents you for some reason. Do you have a lot of foreplay? Do you *expect* sex from her no matter what? Maybe she feels used. Try kissing her or carressing her and just trying to make her come without trying to get your needs met. Spend time on getting her aroused. Maybe you can get her into it that way and once she's all worked up after a few times of this then maybe get back into the sex.
3) She isn't satisfied in bed. Ask her about her fantasies in bed at night. Get her mind flowing dirty...and then do whatever she says.

I would definitely see a marriage counselor ASAP. Work this out.

 

[b2cute69]

im with superdave i never wanna get married sounds scary, any way bro you should stay at home cause you have a little girl, but do what you gotta do on the outside to make your self happy.. no one has to know...