Bah. I'm angry at a lot of things right now, but (fortunately) none of it has to do with this place. The people are temporary. Before Silver, there was Vel. Before Vel, there was Ezulie and so on and so on.
Bah. I'm angry at a lot of things right now, but (fortunately) none of it has to do with this place. The people are temporary. Before Silver, there was Vel. Before Vel, there was Ezulie and so on and so on.
Right now, I'm pissed because I'm at a conference and found out that my boss decided to fuck over my project. The worst part is that I found out via a non-official channel. FUCK!
If once upon a time you caught your partner cheating but they do not know you know, and you just decide to look the other way, rewind and you are the one in a cheating position, would u do it? would you feel you are entitled to it?
underwraps brings up a lot of good points and is answering in a thought out, honest manner.
It's easy to say, "hell no, never could I stay with them after that!" But, throw in a kid or two, and take the selfishness out of the way a little bit and if it actually happened to you, you might just have to think about it for a while.
If it was a drunken one night stand and you found out and your partner was truly remorseful and swore it would never happen again and you had some kids in the mix...could you consider forgiving? I think that would be an easier one to forgive than a 6, 8, 12 month long emotional love affair.
Do you think people think it's okay to cheat during certain levels of relationships, but become loyal after marriages? Like, they cheat during "dating", or maybe even more serious dating, but would never after marriage? Was this during a marriage she cheated twice or a long term relationship? Live in?
No this was during a marriage. She actually seemed more dedicated and into me prior to the marriage...after six months or so she kind of just flipped a 180 out of fucking nowhere.
If once upon a time you caught your partner cheating but they do not know you know, and you just decide to look the other way, rewind and you are the one in a cheating position, would u do it? would you feel you are entitled to it?
No, I'd leave the relationship. Even if there were kids involved. A husband who cheats is not a very good role model for children. Even if they were special needs. I'd make it work somehow.