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If once upon a time you caught your partner cheating but they do not know you know, and you just decide to look the other way, rewind and you are the one in a cheating position, would u do it? would you feel you are entitled to it?
Would you?
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digimon7068
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i've never felt any sense of entitlement toward anything so, no.
plus, i would have been out the door when i caught them the first time.
stosstruppe
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Wouldn't find myself in that situation as I'd be off like a shot once I found out anyway. No second chances, no blazing rows, just grab my gear & split.
How the fuck do you look the other way.
There's a song I like about a guy who embraces a woman he loved after he had been gone in war, and when he returned she slept with another.
It's a beautiful song, that fucking moves me... dropping ego, and living, with that weird conquering yourself, ego, and brings up the question of what do you value. That said, did this person love their S O, so much, they had the restraint, strength, and faith to feel that it was just a one night fuck thing, and forgive? Was it loneliness, financials, or all of the above... depends on the ratio or balance.
I feel I've gotten closer. That said, in the current situation, fuck man. That Chris Rock bit, OJ's crazy and wrong, but I understand, comes to mind.
However, I feel this if U love, U don't cheat.
There's a song I like about a guy who embraces a woman he loved after he had been gone in war, and when he returned she slept with another.
It's a beautiful song, that fucking moves me... dropping ego, and living, with that weird conquering yourself, ego, and brings up the question of what do you value. That said, did this person love their S O, so much, they had the restraint, strength, and faith to feel that it was just a one night fuck thing, and forgive? Was it loneliness, financials, or all of the above... depends on the ratio or balance.
I feel I've gotten closer. That said, in the current situation, fuck man. That Chris Rock bit, OJ's crazy and wrong, but I understand, comes to mind.
However, I feel this if U love, U don't cheat.
redshirt27se
New member
if you look the other way you are weak and have no self value.
it's better to be alone, than to be treated poorly.
it's better to be alone, than to be treated poorly.
Ezekiel
New member
Depends, if you're willing to meat me in BC Canada then you're entitled, otherwise no!
If someone cheated on me, even once... I'd leave. Unless of coarse we were swinging, which isn't cheating...
If your partner cheated and you're thinking of cheating... time to re-evaluate the reltionship...
LOL, who said it was me? with the sacrifice Im making of coming here if I found out my husband was dicking around not only would I drop him in a heartbeat I would probably notify the embassy too....
Underwraps
New member
Everything is case by case when there are kids and financial codependency involved and the affair was not an emotional affair. No kids, I would leave. What would you do pregnant w/your 2nd child and you find out you have chlamydia when 7 years ago at the last STD check you were negative and clean going in to the relatinship. But, your spouse swears it must have been the clinic that messed up the original negative results and that you came IN with the STD yourself. BUT, the last STD test before that one was also clean, but you had slept with him in between the two? So, if I did get it, but he was only an "item" when I got it and not yet a boyfriend, or a live in boyfriend or a husband, what do yo do then? Don't need and answer. Stick to answering Nan's question. The point is....case by case, when there's kids and such, no?
