I'm glad people are agreeing with me. It took me a long time to figure out women. I finally learned to almost completely disregard what they "say" they want. Although you might use it as a contrarian indicator... but I've found that what they say they want is pretty much meaningless. It doesn't clue you in to anything.
There is no doubt women like guys who are lean with muscle. I don't care what the fuck they say about thinking guys are "too muscular". I mean it's a load of shit. I know a guy on gear, ripped and jacked, and they are scoring with two different hotties a week. Before the gear they were just ordinary. It's also obvious as day the guy is on gear. Women do not know or care. They find it very attractive. And the ones they don't find it attractive probably don't enjoy sex either.
I read Jose Canseco's book and that's when I decided to give a cycle a shot. I'm finishing up week 3 and starting to notice it. As I get more muscular and jacked, not only will I look alot better, but it will also improve my confidence. BTW, looking jacked and getting girls to COME UP TO YOU does wonder for confidence btw. It compounds it.
Gear, as most things, in moderation is a good thing. I am already pretty muscular to begin with (5'9, 185, 10% fat) so I'm sure gear will only push me over the edge.
Good luck to all bros. Get on dutasteride or finasteride to keep the hair, and stay away from nandrolones (deca)...