women would you turn down a guy for sex if his cawk was too small?

[Tacosupreme]

They may say that it is larger than average, but the women that I have dated seem to want more than that and the women that I am talking about seem to have class and morals and I don't meet these women at bars or anything. I guess what I am saying is that they are not the ones that you would assume that wanted a horse man.

yea dog 6.5 is larger than average... look at it this way... for every 2 guys you see walking down the street, ur bigger than 1 of them

 

[Raina]

I don't think I've ever known how big a guy was going to be before we had sex. It's not like they went through an application process.

et- I've had AMAZING sex with guys who were less than 6.5 It's not all about size. But if a guy doesn't have confidence in his ability it's a turn off. There's always a way to please your partner. Learn how together.

And anybody saying they're cheating over penis size is really just a shady person making excuses for their own bad behavior.

 

[rnch]

if her box can't adjust to a "smaller than elite average" smaller sized pocket rocket, then she's been doing it too much....yet another reason to move on.

 

[et2001]

Thanks for the responses.

I didn't go into our sex life not being confident, I was. She even told me that we had great chemistry and our sex was really good. But at the same time, she has said some subtle things over the course of our relationship that made me feel that she desired more. And for her to be with the guy she was with it had to be because he was hung because he is gross as hell. I am not saying this because of the situation, most others think the same thing.

Ladies, would you rather be with a guy that is good looking, good body, good morals, great heart (I can't help but to be a good guy) average size penis or a guy that is not attractive, a swinger (I know that some may be into this), possibly a large penis, doesn't care for no one but himself.

Does a big dick mean that much, seriously?

 

[Raina]

Nope. I'd rather have someone who made me feel special and sexy. Someone who's genuinely into me and wants to make me feel good is even more attractive to me. There are always new things to try in the bedroom. Things only get as dull as you let them. Mix them up. Ask her her fantasies. Try new positions, toys, role playing.

And knock off feeling so insecure! Seriously. I've had awful sex with guys who were huge and wonderful sex with guys who weren't.

 

[dazzlindee]

hell no!!! it isn't the size that matters anyway. Ever heard of personality!?!?!

 

[AristotleBC]

Exactl;y dazz, my cock has a ton of personality

 

[HiDnGoD]

They may say that it is larger than average, but the women that I have dated seem to want more than that and the women that I am talking about seem to have class and morals and I don't meet these women at bars or anything. I guess what I am saying is that they are not the ones that you would assume that wanted a horse man.

Rally, most women who are worth anything will not obsess over your dick size unless it's really small (pinky). What really matters is the rest of the relationship. Do you do other stuff together. Sports, walks, socialize, etc.
Pay attention to her, get her warmed up with enough foreplay etc., the cock will be the coup de grace, not the whole event.

 

[nycgirl]

Nope. I'd rather have someone who made me feel special and sexy. Someone who's genuinely into me and wants to make me feel good is even more attractive to me. There are always new things to try in the bedroom. Things only get as dull as you let them. Mix them up. Ask her her fantasies. Try new positions, toys, role playing.

And knock off feeling so insecure! Seriously. I've had awful sex with guys who were huge and wonderful sex with guys who weren't.

I agree with Raina.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I am having trouble with this. I have been in two heartbreaks back to back. The first was with a black girl. She and I was actually engaged, but it just didn't work out. She had told me that one of her ex's was around 9 1/2 inches and really thick. Needless to say that this kinda played with my head (no pun intended). I don't think that this is what seperated us though. After my ex I started dating this white girl that I had known for a long time. She kind messed me up stating that her ex husband was really well-endowed. For the record, I am about 6 1/2 long x 5 around, which is not that large and I really know that she desired more. I found out that during the year that we've been together, she has cheated on me with a guy that is an absolute puke. Not trying to sound so superficial, but she and everbody else says the same thing. He is not at all physically attractive, he's into the swinging lifestyle (which I am sure some of you here are into, I am not) and she knew this. Now they both work in real estate and he has actually helped her get going in the business. I am fairly certain that he is packing pretty well down below and think that is one if not the motivation that got to her. This girl is so physically beautiful and seemed to have had class and morals, but to do this just blows my mind. On top of this, we found out in March that she is pregnant, which I thought was my baby, now I don't know.

To make this story shorter: I am stressed the hell out!!! I am a nice guy, nice looking guy. I have got myself in a mess, though. I am currently looking for a job. I have not finished college yet, I am 30 years old, I am thinking after this last girl that there is no woman that is going to be satisfied with my average penis and it is totally becoming an obsession of mine. I used to not even worry about this, but combined with the last two relationships and the stuff that I read on the internet, I am thinking that unless your large or huge, women are not interested. Oh, and this last girl is only 4'11 tall and I think if I can't satisfy her, what the hell. This is the hardest thing to get over and it should be my financial state (which that is a MAJOR problem as well), but even if I get that corrected, I still have to concern myself with this penis crap.

I am not saying that people shouldn't have preferences, but why couldn't I be born with a big toy, if that's what all women are about. This is ruining my life.

Jesus H. Christ you sound pathetic. Not because of your dick, but your attitude. No wonder these girls left you. Yeah it sounds harsh, but eventually you have to stop concerning yourself with your dick size and metaphorically grow some fuckin balls, ya know?



Danaf1, Gambino, and Raina had wise words here as well. Hell everyone does, that's what's great about these boards.