I know how you feel, but...
on the flip side, I was at the gym the other day and there was this little bitty thing
benching 225. I didn't even realize I was staring until I noticed her noticing me!
After I went up and complimented her, she kind of blushed and said thanks, but
she probably was feeling a little hostile not knowing that the look was one of
admiration!
Be proud, it's once they stop staring that you should worry!