Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second date?

[velvett]

If a women ask you out on a date should she pay the tab?

Yes.

 

[velvett]

Best line I heard from a female friend. She actually told this to her girl I was trying to play around with. "He has deep pockets but very short arms." I think any money talk can kill any sexual chemstry when you are hanging out with someone in the beginning.

Brilliant!



And yes it can

 

[cindylou]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

dinner and drinks can be going at "Buffalo Wild Wings" too Or maybe a pub, too. It doesnt necessarily means an exclusive restaurant IMO. But thats just me

I like going to Buffalo's. Thats a great date!

 

[H_T_]

i think this is another shining example of why Heather is a dumbass...i can't believe you graduated from a college, with a degree in law. i barely made it out of detroit public schools & i can tell you that i'd NEVER take a chick to BK for a date. we goin' Sizzler!

 

[Phaded]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

It took you this long to figure out HR makes bad decisions when it comes to men....

i'm new to ef.. i usually dont read chick threads on this forum seems like every thread ends in someone saying really mean things about wimminz..

 

[heatherrae]

lmao @ rocking a bcbg at burger king god you are a good sport.. only time that seems fitting is after maybe a night out at the club.. weren't people just gawking at you like.. damn she really dressed up to go to johnny rockets.. holy shit i can't imagine how embarrassing that could have been.. anyhow if you're not a couple or married to a girl you should pay on dates every single time.. i would be too embarrassed to not pay if i was in the dating stage.. makes you look like a scrub and calls for awkwardness..

Yeah, even the waitress commented with something like, "wow, are you going somewhere after here?" LOL.

If I would have been the bitch that some people think I am, I would not have gone along with it.


One of the the things that I found the funniest is that he said "I'll get it this time. You can get it next time." What do you want to bet next time he would have decided it was time for surf and turf and a bottle of champagne? Cheap bastard! lol.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

lmao @ rocking a bcbg at burger king god you are a good sport.. only time that seems fitting is after maybe a night out at the club.. weren't people just gawking at you like.. damn she really dressed up to go to johnny rockets.. holy shit i can't imagine how embarrassing that could have been.. anyhow if you're not a couple or married to a girl you should pay on dates every single time.. i would be too embarrassed to not pay if i was in the dating stage.. makes you look like a scrub and calls for awkwardness..

lol...well, if you are married to the girl, it doesnt matter who pays, right? It comes out of the same budget

 

[jackangel]

christ's sake...pics of you in the BCBG dress.

love nef's responses in this thread.

although i won't knock someone for feeling one way or attitude is better than another, there's still no way to properly justify or rationalize these 'shoulds'.

hr, the issue with this story, it seems, is that the guy was a complete douchebucket. if he had dressed well, had a good personality, made great conversation, and treated you well otherwise, but for his own reason (perhaps on some kind of principle) asked you to pay your share...you might have agreed and seen him again, no?

i'm not saying you'd feel differently on the issue, but you would probably feel differently about him.

 

[bw1]

Yeah, even the waitress commented with something like, "wow, are you going somewhere after here?" LOL.

If I would have been the bitch that some people think I am, I would not have gone along with it.


One of the the things that I found the funniest is that he said "I'll get it this time. You can get it next time." What do you want to bet next time he would have decided it was time for surf and turf and a bottle of champagne? Cheap bastard! lol.

You have got to be fucking kidding me

 

[heatherrae]

christ's sake...pics of you in the BCBG dress.

love nef's responses in this thread.

although i won't knock someone for feeling one way or attitude is better than another, there's still no way to properly justify or rationalize these 'shoulds'.

hr, the issue with this story, it seems, is that the guy was a complete douchebucket. if he had dressed well, had a good personality, made great conversation, and treated you well otherwise, but for his own reason (perhaps on some kind of principle) asked you to pay your share...you might have agreed and seen him again, no?

i'm not saying you'd feel differently on the issue, but you would probably feel differently about him.

I would have politely paid my way, but I would have probably thought he was stingy and unromantic and not seen him again, unless he was so stellar that I just had to figure him out.

It isn't about the money. It's about treating someone well.

Had he done all the right things, such as dressed appropriately, been a good conversationalist, and paid for the date since it was his invitation, I would have asked him to come over for a home cooked meal or packed a picnic or something like that. I'm also known to give men little gifts. It isn't about the money. It is about treating me more special than one of his male buddies by not looking to split the tab when it arrives.

Old fashioned or not, I just can't really feel differently about it.