jd_uk
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You sound like BM...
As far as men that call women gold diggers because they are with a guy that is old, fat, bald rich. I have found it is always they guys that are broke and don't get action making that call.
Men value beauty and women value security, women see from different eyes than men.
Plus he might be out of shape, but a personal trainer for a couple months that will get one less comment about him. He still will be rich, able to get women. I will bet he is successful because he has a very likeable personality and made his money being affable. If he inherited his money he has done pretty well hanging onto it.
I think this used to be a lot more true than it is now. With far more women being financially secure themselves (having more opportunties at work etc) I don't think they're always as impressed by the $ as they would be if they weren't making decent money themselves. I find that 'career women' go for other qualities in men before any financial success.