wife won't have sex

[tunaman]

I am not trying to be mean, but I second the divorce and move on. Obviously she has some kind of deep deep issues that she is not telling you, and things will just get worse. Unload her.

I thought marriage was about being 100% honest. Telling you that you need to get to know each other better obviously isn't the issue, so she isn't being honest. What else isn't she being honest about?...ya know?

 

[Honeynut]

Please seek counselling immediately

gonnabebig - you and your wife need to get into couples counselling immediately. If you're thinking of ending it, I believe you can do so with minimal fuss because your marriage has not been consummated so IMO you won't need a divorce, simply an anullment. THIS IS NOT NORMAL - your wife has a serious, deep problem or a huge misconception about intercourse. Is she very religious? Is she scared? She might have had something happen in her past which is terrifying her nopw, maybe she's been maintaining her virginity for so long that now she's built up losing it as this huge, awful thing she just can't deal with. GET TO COUNSELLING IMMEDIATELY, to get to the root of the problem. Even if you don't like what you find out about her, I don't think it's possible for you to go through the rest of your life without some serious relationship issues yourself unless you get to the bottom of this. You will never have anything to reproach yourself for if you TRY TO HELP, and that means THERAPY.

 

[Saltee]

Dude what are you thinking. I'd being dropping her like a hot potato. 14 months this has to be a joke. I wouldn't wait 14 minutes after I was married. Dude you need some serious help. Maybe counciling will help but probably divorcewould help more!

 

[floridagrowin]

I agree with HamHock

SHE'S A MAN. BETTER CHECK.

 

[robertsmith]

are you by any chance wealthy?

 

[BronzedGoddess]

She does not love you the way a woman loves a man; probably more like the way sister loves a brother. Get a divorce.

 

[Austin316]

From reading this on the chat board earlier this week, I say this guy is absolutely FULL OF SHIT!!! I might have believed him till he brought up that Kevin guy

 

[hardbody_jr]

She's a man, man!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[crash3837]

I'm calling bullshit on this one also.

 

[Aussie Juga naught]

1)you are a wanker, who in there right mind would put up with shit like that?

2)Your wife is probably a shim.

3)If she wont give it to you get rid of her or find it else where!

4)This sounds like a load of shit to me.