wife won't have sex

[Gonnabebig]

My wife and I have been married for 14 months now and she still has not given me any sex. She says we still need to get to know each other better so she is completely comfortable with it. But we dated for 5 years, I would think she knows me by now. She says I am not patient and need self control, but we have been married for over a year now and I would think it is ok to have sex now. I am being greedy or is this normal for most newlyweds?

 

[pauly]

totally normal. my brother has been is a 42 year old virgin along with his wife. Either have yet to have sex but are proud parents of a lil black baby named tyrone.

 

[bigwillster]

Hell no its not normal. You dated for 5 yrs and have been married for over a year. I'm not implying that she's cheating or anything but maybe she's going thru some type of phase. Don't take this in a bad way, but maybe you're not taking care of her needs 100%. Communication is the key here. What exactly does she mean...lets get to know each other more. If you've been seeing each other for 6 years I know she doesn't mean emotionally. I'm pretty sure its physical. Just talk to her. A lot of times women are hesitant to let us know if they dont like something in bed. A week ago I told my lady "so hows our sex" and she said "I just wish that you would make love to me, not just have sex with me." I felt like shit dude. I have since made love to her and she cant get enough of it. Good luck bro. Keep us posted.

 

[manny78]

It's called: get a lawyer and divorce as soon as possible.

 

[Test boy]

Gonnabebig are you serious? Probably a biological reason for it. I'd try for a medical check up. Then counseling if necessary.

 

[strangebrew]

uh didnt you post this on the chat board? I think its pretty obvious this is a joke and hes just trying to get a reaction. I'll admit you made me laugh though, nice job.

 

[HamHock]

obviously she's a man and you are very gullible

 

[str8cubano]

OH MY GOD..THATS CRAZY...even Jesus will encourage you to have sex....please just do something now or get help..seriously

 

[Roadblock]

What the hell did you do on your wedding night? Played cards?

 

[allcutnobulk]

hmm

don't want to alarm you but i would be worried. if she's not feeling a sexual attraction toward you then who is she feeling it for? maybe it's nobody. i just say you seek counseling fast. the check up thing with a doctor isn't a bad idea either.