Why is it that I don't have the balls to...

[fyxgel]

Why is it that I dont have the balls, just to tell a friend thats a girl, that she looks pretty?

This seems extremely hard to do.
Whats wrong with me?

 

[Lestat]

you're gay?

 

[Paulo]

Whats wrong with me?

let me get back to you on that one...

 

[wtlftr]

if it at the work place maybe you are avoiding a sexual harassment charge. If just friends not at work, you are just chicken.

 

[Gambino]

cause you're afraid of getting dissed...your afraid she'll laugh at you. Just compliement her on what she is wearing, how her hair looks. Say something like "damn, your hair sure looks good." Don't come across as desperate or horny...don't ask me why I keep responding to your threads, I have giving you sound advice, yet you never so much as even aknowledge my attempt at help. I'm not a playa, but I do alright, wtf don't you listen?

 

[juve]

Why is it that I dont have the balls, just to tell a friend thats a girl, that she looks pretty?

why would you want to do something like this? read wtlftr's post, I think he rightly alludes to something - namely: you tell her, she's gonna get freaked, and back down, if not more

the right words should come in the right situations, just bumping into a bizzo and be like 'damn, you pretty' gonna startle most people

complement on small SMALL things of wardrobe, over all appearance - but don't stretch it

oh, yea, and got some male friends instead - mkay?

 

[Bobber]

Bro...who doesn't like being complimented. Unless you are some creepy slime ball I am sure she will like it. Just keep the compliment in context to yalls relationship.

 

[Bobber]

Don't come across as desperate or horny...QUOTE]


Whats wrong with comming across as horny?

 

[fyxgel]

if it at the work place maybe you are avoiding a sexual harassment charge. If just friends not at work, you are just chicken.

they are friends at college. like girls that I see in passing, in my dorm, that i kinda know.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

you're afraid that, "They're all going to laugh at you, they're all going to laugh at you, they're all going to laugh at you!"