I find it extremelly hard for a man to be faithfull to his g/f. When you are running on high test it's almost impossible to pass up on opportunity for sex. I know alot of friends who cheat like it's no big deal. The worst thing is that their g/f's have no idea and the've been doing it for years. Even if their friends tell them that their boyfriends are cheating they don't seem to believe it. If you are not married, you are still considered single and I don't see a big problem with having sex with other people.
As long as you're not out there hurting people emotionally, there's nothing wrong with being single and leading that lifestyle if that's what you choose Frisco.
I used to subscribe to the 'why buy the book when you can borrow from the library' mentality as well, but at 29, i feel time has come to hang my party gear up and find a partner.
Then again, the temptation to keep partying may just be too much.
if it's difficult not to cheat then here's a way not to cheat.. after you have gotten your o on with somebody else, come home to your true love and compare notes of your latest conquests.
I guess it all depends on what stage of your life you are in. You can respect people, but still want to have fun, or get the attention. Just because you are flirtatious it doesn't have to mean you are sleeping around. I am naturally a flirtatious person when it comes to my close friends. It is usually in a joking manner, but a lot of people think it is cheating or being unfaithful to the person I am with at the time. I guess it is all up to your definition and/or rationalization of faithfulness and what you feel is cheating.
I never feel as if it is difficult to remain faithful, however I NEVER put myself in situations that would make it possible or even make my girl wonder if anything is going on.
Truth is I have been with her for 5 years and I am head over heels about her...I am still wondering why she likes me.
I must say it helps knowing that I couldn't get anyone that is so gorgeous, so sweet, and so caring. We also loss our virginity to each other so we don't have any of that other baggage to deal with. I am so lucky I waited for the one I knew was meant for me....even though there were pleanty of opportunities to test the waters before her.