Why do married people stop having sex?

[digimon7068]

"Oohhhh look at me, my marriage is awesome"**

**im sure thats a repost too

nah. . .just the same-old, same-old, i'm easily amused to a certain extent i suppose

 

[-SD-]

i'm not sure what he's referring too but, i'm gonna take a "stab" at it. . .generally speaking, in most "traditional" relationships (call me old if you want. . .but i'm still getting lots of hawt sex) the man is the pursuer (sp?) and the woman is the pursued (sp?) and that's the way it is. . .so, once you "have her", if you stop pursuing, chances are your sex life is gonna taper off. . .i still pursue her. . .i still get lots of sex. . .it's a wee bit more complicated than that, i'm sure, but i'm speaking in generalities.

And by pursuing you actually mean using chloroform.

 

[miplank]

i'm not sure what he's referring too but, i'm gonna take a "stab" at it. . .generally speaking, in most "traditional" relationships (call me old if you want. . .but i'm still getting lots of hawt sex) the man is the pursuer (sp?) and the woman is the pursued (sp?) and that's the way it is. . .so, once you "have her", if you stop pursuing, chances are your sex life is gonna taper off. . .i still pursue her. . .i still get lots of sex. . .it's a wee bit more complicated than that, i'm sure, but i'm speaking in generalities.

that reminds me, your wife wanted me to tell you to stop bugging her to have sex.

 

[OMEGA]

i'm not sure what he's referring too but, i'm gonna take a "stab" .

Digi is partly right in what I am talking about

But also this:

if am man has chosen to put a ring on a women s finger he should have done so only when he was sure of most things.

if all of a sudden or gradual things go south, then it was his own fault for asking her to marry.

he should have know better about her and himself....

 

[redshirt27se]

Digi is partly right in what I am talking about

But also this:

if am man has chosen to put a ring on a women s finger he should have done so only when he was sure of most things.

if all of a sudden or gradual things go south, then it was his own fault for asking her to marry.

he should have know better about her and himself....

so whenever a marriage fails, it is the man's fault?



that's obviously not true, but it's what you are saying.

 

[lartinos]

Melohh is my gf is case anyone didn't know.
We had this discussion in the car before.
She asked if I would cheat on her if she eventually stopped having sex with me.
That's when she posted the thread. I told her that it depends why we would have the problems and that I would think about a divorce.

 

[OMEGA]

so whenever a marriage fails, it is the man's fault?



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no of course, not

I am saying its the mans fault if he married someone with the propensity to betray him or de-value him like that

 

[redshirt27se]

no of course, not

I am saying its the mans fault if he married someone with the propensity to betray him or de-value him like that

people change. It's pretty hard to blame the man for his wife's misdoings on the basis that he "should have known better."

 

[OMEGA]

people change. It's pretty hard to blame the man for his wife's misdoings on the basis that he "should have known better."

the man has the opportunity for courte ship

he should have looked at her character to see

also he should have lived with her for a bit through some challenges before marrying

that is when you start to know someone

 

[lartinos]

people change. It's pretty hard to blame the man for his wife's misdoings on the basis that he "should have known better."

Melohh just said she agreed with what omega said and I told her I disagree because things happen and people also grow apart.
I am not the same exact person I was five years ago for example. People and things change. I have seen it before. No one has a crystal ball and will positively know how things will work out. You can't just marry anyone of course, but just because you made a great choice guarantees nothing.