Why are men like this?!

[smurf2]

Smurf, WTF! That's it? I was waiting for some colossal answer and I get a common sense one?! great...... ;-)

i know wtf!! hahah I dont have much to offer. Plus, I may be in a fantastic relationship (finally) now, but I'm not one to give relationship advice LOL

 

[zwhit]

Is this a "why don't you talk to me anymore" or a "what's wrong with you" problem? I hate when my wife asks me questions like that.

Its probably not really a big deal. You're most likely making it more than it is. Men are simple. Or at least I am anyway.

 

[zwhit]

"Nothing's wrong with me. Fuck!"

 

[SpyWizard]

It seems like when men want a woman, they pull out all the stops, but once they "get her", they pull away!
Then when the woman pulls away, the guy is all over here again!

What is this about? How do you make it stop?!

simple to fix, the man has to stop giving the woman everything she says she wants.. and thus she's the one always wanting..

and the man has to be willing to take back the power, sounds simple but we are a slave to the penis, the trick is to make the woman the slave to the penis and then the man will feel secure and thus all is good.

 

[ortiz34]

In these cases blue,it's obvious the two were most likely not meant for one another IMO.
No need for chasing or games when two are on the same page

 

[calveless wonder]

I think it's human nature and applies to both sides.

there are few exceptions to this rule, and generally those are the ones that end in a healthy relationship.

in general, people get comfortable and complacent when they no longer feel like they have to work towards something. then when you take it away from them, they feel like they have to work for it all over again. sometimes when you take it away, they may or may not take it for granted anymore but it depends

there is no mystery here.

other times they want you back is because they may not neccessarily want to be with you but they don't want to be alone or want you to be with somebody else

 

[calveless wonder]

I'd love to believe your theory lol but in reality someone Always has the upper hand.

unfortunately, yes.......

I think it's about it not being as drastic of a difference. that's how people can make it work.

 

[calveless wonder]

Thats because you wear spandex and make smoothies and shit. Its all symptoms of a bigger issue rob

lmao

 

[AFeedz]

unfortunately, yes.......

I think it's about it not being as drastic of a difference. that's how people can make it work.

Yes because someone will always have it.

No because who has it shouldn't always be the same.

People don't make it work because of the degree of difference between the upper and lower hand in their relationship, they make it work when whoever has the upper hand changes as situations arise. What exists between two or more people is called a dynamic for a reason: because it's in a state of constant change.

If you're in a relationship where one person always has the upper hand and you think that's fine, it's going to be a fucked relationship no matter how small the difference between their hand and your own.

 

[EarthRider]

i bet iggy doesn't ever have the upper hand