unlike SO many hound dogs here........
i waited a LOT longer than most guys to loose "it". i wanted the first time to be with someone special to me, someone i ....well, don't wnt to use the "L" word here, but someone i had deep, profound feelings of affection for.
because of my specifications, the first time went well for me.......much better than some of the times after that one.
my best friend/broly/partner in higher acts of stupidity and i have had the "quality vs. quanity" many, many times, to no conclusion.