Who do women prefer?

[Smurfy]

So what youre saying is, by bad boy you mean confident?

 

[StickFigure]

The thing is, a "nice guy" will treat a woman with TOO much respect, with TOO much of his love (and affection), and be TOO open and honest to her about his feelings. To a woman, he is a guy that kisses her ass, is a bit too "needy", and she automatically feels above him because of it. And because of that, she will not feel any type of attraction or passion for him because she sees him as too big a wuss. THAT'S why nice guys strike out.
On the other hand, a cheating, lying, and abusing type of man isn't necessarily seen as a "bad boy" type, neither does having a felony record or owning a motorcycle. A "bad boy" type isn't scared to be open with a woman and isn't scared to voice his opinions. Most "nice guys" will say things that he thinks the woman wants to hear (opinions, points of view, nice compliments, etc...). While a "bad boy" will instead call her on her opinions, while proudly standing by his own. He will not be afraid to tease around with her, while a "nice guy" wouldn't dare because he would be afraid of somehow offending her in the process. To a woman, a "bad boy" is an alpha male, is more interesting and fun to be around, and inside her, the "challenge" that she can "change him" automatically clicks on. A "nice guy" to a woman is, basically, boring.

By your definitions of the two, I would agree that, that type of "nice guy" is just seting himself up for problems.
I've never heard anyone define a "bad boy" in the way you did but if that's the definition we're talking about then I agree with that as well.
When I say a "nice guy" I mean it from the standpoint of treating a woman like she deserves to be treated, with respect, honor, caring, and love. But you can do that without being some mamby pamby wall flower. To respect her IMO means to be open and honest with her even if opinions differ.

 

[megamania500]

So what youre saying is, by bad boy you mean confident?

Exactly. Plus a "bad boy" type will usually set a standard for himself for which type of woman HE wants. The "nice guy" will, instead, court a woman with all types of actions and stuff, hoping that she will see him as a type of man that SHE wants. There is a difference.

 

[megamania500]

By your definitions of the two, I would agree that, that type of "nice guy" is just seting himself up for problems.
I've never heard anyone define a "bad boy" in the way you did but if that's the definition we're talking about then I agree with that as well.
When I say a "nice guy" I mean it from the standpoint of treating a woman like she deserves to be treated, with respect, honor, caring, and love. But you can do that without being some mamby pamby wall flower. To respect her IMO means to be open and honest with her even if opinions differ.

I think our opinions differ in how we are using the term "nice guy". The way I see it, a typical woman sees the typical "nice guy" or a man as "too nice" as being spineless.
I think your definition of being a "nice guy" could be better described as a "decent person". I think that we all agree that a man should be a decent person in how they treat a lady. Both "nice guys" and "bad boys" have the capacity to treat a woman this way.
The difference is, a "nice guy" will treat a woman this way because he puts her on a pedestal (he wants HER to choose HIM). A "bad boy" will treat a woman this way because HE chose HER as the one he wants to be this way to.

 

[StickFigure]

I think our opinions differ in how we are using the term "nice guy". The way I see it, a typical woman sees the typical "nice guy" or a man as "too nice" as being spineless.
I think your definition of being a "nice guy" could be better described as a "decent person". I think that we all agree that a man should be a decent person in how they treat a lady. Both "nice guys" and "bad boys" have the capacity to treat a woman this way.
The difference is, a "nice guy" will treat a woman this way because he puts her on a pedestal. A "bad boy" will treat a woman this way because he chose her as the one he wants to be this way to.

I think we can agree on that.

 

[megamania500]

I think we can agree on that.

I'll drink to that!

Now, the question remains, who do women prefer, jerks or nice guys? Well, the way I see it is that women do gravitate more toward the jerk for the reasons I talked about in this thread. But its not the "jerk" in the guy that attracts the women. Its just that the guy that has the mystique that women find attractive also has it in him to act like a "jerk" many times. People see a fine woman with someone who they consider a jerk, and they wonder what the woman sees in him. She may wonder this herself. He may treat her bad at times and all (which to everyone, makes him a jerk). But its this mystique that keeps her coming back to him. Now, a confident guy isn't necessarily going to automatically be a jerk. But alot of times, one comes with the other. So a woman stays with a "bad boy" NOT because he's a jerk, but DESPITE the fact that he's a jerk, so she can enjoy this "mystique" that "nice guys" don't show or possess.

I hope that sheds some light on the "nice guy" vs the "bad boy"

 

[wootool]

pre-approved TITCR:

The girlies who want to have some fun want the hi-test asshole.
The women who want to get married and settle down want the nice guy. They then cheat with the hi-test asshole.

The moral of the story is: Be the hi-test asshole.

The End.

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[StickFigure]

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[redsamurai]

women like assholes....period. Assholes have no integrity, ethics, or honor....and yet women are severely attracted to them. I gave up trying to figure this out a long time ago.

 

[gettnlarge01]

My experience has been that women want to marry the nice guy and have the affair with the asshole!!