Who do women prefer?

[immortalis]

I look like a prick. I am fairly intimidating looking. I have a shaved head, goatee, fairly good sized and I almost always look pissed... at least, thats what I have been told, lol.

I see A LOT of sweet looking girls checking me out. It seems like every girl I have ever been with loved the "bad boy" image that I had, at least at first. Then once they got to know me and realized that I wasnt really as bad as I looked, they either hated it or loved it... there was no in between.

My wife and I actually just talked about this the other day as we were reminiscing about when we met. She said she loved how I looked like a badass... but that once she got past the partying-phase of her life, she was happy to have me who was able to be as good a man as she could have ever asked to have in her life. She says im the perfect mix

GO ME! heh

 

[SheDragon]

Who do women prefer?

I don't know the difference anymore

 

[StickFigure]

I don't know the difference anymore

hmmmm.....

 

[vacman]

I was trying to vote both LOL. I think they are both important. Some girls like assholes and others like charm, and others like a combination. I do prefer playing the nice guy though...





~\/ac

 

[Gymgurl]

I like nice guys...I'm to old for the bad boy thing

 

[SheDragon]

the real nice guys are all taken though!

 

[Lumberg]

You know what? I think anyone that would intentionally be a dick thinking it's going to improve their chances of getting a chick is crazy.

But then again I know it happens. Luckily for me I prefer women that are as confident so a woman who prefers a dick has no attraction to me. It's win/win.

I mean, if you don't honestly like to make other people happy in general (to the extent that it's practical), I think you're fucking psycho anyway.

One thing I've learned recently is that there's a match for everyone. There are guys out there who are, well, just "out there" and I see a woman on their arm.

 

[Gymgurl]

^^^Great point^^^

 

[Gymgurl]

mean men just plain suck

 

[megamania500]

Just because someone is a nice guy doesn't mean he is a flake, or too in touch with their fem side.

Bottom line is, a guy needs to treat his woman with respect, show her love, and be true and honest to her.

Any guy that would treat a woman poorly is not a man IMO. You cheat on your woman or lie and decieve her, or abuse her verbally, mentally, or physically, you don't deserve her because she doesn't deserve to be treated that way.

The thing is, a "nice guy" will treat a woman with TOO much respect, with TOO much of his love (and affection), and be TOO open and honest to her about his feelings. To a woman, he is a guy that kisses her ass, is a bit too "needy", and she automatically feels above him because of it. And because of that, she will not feel any type of attraction or passion for him because she sees him as too big a wuss. THAT'S why nice guys strike out.
On the other hand, a cheating, lying, and abusing type of man isn't necessarily seen as a "bad boy" type, neither does having a felony record or owning a motorcycle. A "bad boy" type isn't scared to be open with a woman and isn't scared to voice his opinions. Most "nice guys" will say things that he thinks the woman wants to hear (opinions, points of view, nice compliments, etc...). While a "bad boy" will instead call her on her opinions, while proudly standing by his own. He will not be afraid to tease around with her, while a "nice guy" wouldn't dare because he would be afraid of somehow offending her in the process. To a woman, a "bad boy" is an alpha male, is more interesting and fun to be around, and inside her, the "challenge" that she can "change him" automatically clicks on. A "nice guy" to a woman is, basically, boring.