Who are you????

[Fitness-gemini]

Im a constant pessimist and wallow in self defeat. Im an addict and feel powerless to help myself. Im an over educated, under employed, under achiever who drifts aimlessly through life. I have severe intimacy issues. I see everyone in my life that loves and cares for me as constant irritants. I always see the glass half empty.

Happy fucking new year


P.S. this thread has massive meme potential written all over it

I was always a pessimist...Until eight months ago..
When u walk through life with your walls up and eyes closed... the only one to blame in the end is self.
When i was negative... my life was a struggle...
most days were bad days.. and i was breathing... not living.
Something changed me and i have felt amazing... I looked in the mirror and saw what i have never seen before.... and that was hope..
To empower urseld you must find the strength to look at all situations without envy, insecurities, hate, and fear...
I try to find the kindness when it is there... it may be hidden under the masks one wears
or the different hats they put on
but in my eyes everyone has a soul.. weather they know it or not.. so there is light, and there is more... and they are stronger then they ever have known
they just need to find that in themselves...

Someday your veiws on the world will change..
I wish you the best of luck!

And the new year will be as good as the energy you put into it!!!!!!

"all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration — that we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively. There is no such thing as death; life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves"

 

[-SD-]

I used to be a badass

 

[Strongbow]

I am The Chosen One

 

[cindylou]

I'm friendly, caring, warm and forgiving. I have a sweet, gentle feeling side but also a stubborn and strong-willed, cynical and thinking side under stress. I am intuitive and I have good insight into people, and situations. I'm creative. I perceive people's actions and my own through the lens of right and wrong. I am consistent, scheduled and orderly in most ways except certain hidden areas, like I might have a messy desk or one or two junk drawers or a messy purse I'm sensitive to conflict, I cannot tolerate it, as a result I'm diplomatic and a peacemaker. I believe in constant spiritual growth, as a result I'm able to honestly express what I'm feeling and thinking, at least to myself and I've been able to overcome almost anything.

Who I am right now is a parent. Who I am will have much more impact on her than what I say or what I do. I'm trying to be more patient, and less angry. I want her to take the gentle, caring and sweet side of me, and not pick up the stubborn, strong-willed, cynical and rebellious side of me. Seems she's picked up the latter lol... I love her either way, I just want her to grow up knowing how much I love her.

 

[Strongbow]

I'm friendly, caring, warm and forgiving. I have a sweet, gentle feeling side but also a stubborn and strong-willed, cynical and thinking side under stress. I am intuitive and I have good insight into people, and situations. I'm creative. I perceive people's actions and my own through the lens of right and wrong. I am consistent, scheduled and orderly in most ways except certain hidden areas, like I might have a messy desk or one or two junk drawers or a messy purse I'm sensitive to conflict, I cannot tolerate it, as a result I'm diplomatic and a peacemaker. I believe in constant spiritual growth, as a result I'm able to honestly express what I'm feeling and thinking, at least to myself and I've been able to overcome almost anything.

Who I am right now is a parent. Who I am will have much more impact on her than what I say or what I do. I'm trying to be more patient, and less angry. I want her to take the gentle, caring and sweet side of me, and not pick up the stubborn, strong-willed, cynical and rebellious side of me. Seems she's picked up the latter lol... I love her either way, I just want her to grow up knowing how much I love her.

I'd hit it.

 

[-SD-]

I'm friendly, caring, warm and forgiving. I have a sweet, gentle feeling side but also a stubborn and strong-willed, cynical and thinking side under stress. I am intuitive and I have good insight into people, and situations. I'm creative. I perceive people's actions and my own through the lens of right and wrong. I am consistent, scheduled and orderly in most ways except certain hidden areas, like I might have a messy desk or one or two junk drawers or a messy purse I'm sensitive to conflict, I cannot tolerate it, as a result I'm diplomatic and a peacemaker. I believe in constant spiritual growth, as a result I'm able to honestly express what I'm feeling and thinking, at least to myself and I've been able to overcome almost anything.

Who I am right now is a parent. Who I am will have much more impact on her than what I say or what I do. I'm trying to be more patient, and less angry. I want her to take the gentle, caring and sweet side of me, and not pick up the stubborn, strong-willed, cynical and rebellious side of me. Seems she's picked up the latter lol... I love her either way, I just want her to grow up knowing how much I love her.

forgot gullible

 

[cindylou]

forgot gullible

Nope. I didn't

 

[PICK3]

I'm friendly, caring, warm and forgiving. I have a sweet, gentle feeling side but also a stubborn and strong-willed, cynical and thinking side under stress. I am intuitive and I have good insight into people, and situations. I'm creative. I perceive people's actions and my own through the lens of right and wrong. I am consistent, scheduled and orderly in most ways except certain hidden areas, like I might have a messy desk or one or two junk drawers or a messy purse I'm sensitive to conflict, I cannot tolerate it, as a result I'm diplomatic and a peacemaker. I believe in constant spiritual growth, as a result I'm able to honestly express what I'm feeling and thinking, at least to myself and I've been able to overcome almost anything.

Who I am right now is a parent. Who I am will have much more impact on her than what I say or what I do. I'm trying to be more patient, and less angry. I want her to take the gentle, caring and sweet side of me, and not pick up the stubborn, strong-willed, cynical and rebellious side of me. Seems she's picked up the latter lol... I love her either way, I just want her to grow up knowing how much I love her.

your parenting input will have negligible effects on your child's personality

 

[cindylou]

your parenting input will have negligible effects on your child's personality

My parenting input may not have any effect on her personality but it will have an effect on who she is...which isn't her personality. Especially in early childhood. I would even argue that it has an effect on her personality too.

 

[lartinos]

your parenting input will have negligible effects on your child's personality

Not necessarily true!