Where do you go?

[PHATchik]

Who do you turn to when you are upset or simply have someone on your mind? Or maybe just when you need advice? I know I see threads on here asking for advice or help, but do you all really rely on a chat board for your advice? Or is it your mom or dad? Your significant other? Best friend? Brother or sister even? Who do you turn to when you just have something that is just weighing you down and you just have to talk to someone about it?

 

[ajtomasi]

yeah i talk to my bestfriend or girlfriend.

i would never ask for personal advice on a messageboard, but i do enjoy reading other peoples problems. And if i've got something to say than that's great if i don't then there is usually someone else around.

but sometimes when i'm really down i just stalk my ex.

 

[Puddles]

First my husband, then my best friend (who I met on a chat board 7 yrs. ago), then I guess I go to the women's board here. Sometimes just getting it out and said makes ya feel better...doesn't really matter at times who exactly is listening. Kinda like when you stub your toe and curse...no one else needs to hear about it, but saying something makes you feel better.

 

[PHATchik]

What do you when you don't think you can talk about it with someone? Some people are very close-mouthed and don't like to talk about things? That might apply to people here too. Instead of simply asking who do you talk to, maybe I should be asking, do you talk period?

 

[ajtomasi]

actually i really don't talk. Nothing really bothers me to the point of having to let it all out. when ever i do talk about things bothering me it's just in basic conversation.

So is there something that you need to talk about?

 

[Drunken_Weasel]

Who do you turn to when you are upset or simply have someone on your mind? Or maybe just when you need advice? I know I see threads on here asking for advice or help, but do you all really rely on a chat board for your advice? Or is it your mom or dad? Your significant other? Best friend? Brother or sister even? Who do you turn to when you just have something that is just weighing you down and you just have to talk to someone about it?

I have noune.. jnoone at all...

 

[PHATchik]

actually i really don't talk. Nothing really bothers me to the point of having to let it all out. when ever i do talk about things bothering me it's just in basic conversation.

So is there something that you need to talk about?

Even if there was something, I'm not exactly the kind to spill my guts on a message board. To be perfectly honest, I'm more of the type that I mentioned last. I don't really go into a whole lot of details on the shit in my life. It's just how I am. However, there are always those times when I just have to talk to someone. I'm only human after all.

 

[ajtomasi]

Do you find that women are more open to talk to someone then men?

If you look here at EF then you'll always see some guy talking about his personal problems to a bunch strangers. Just look at that "sticky" on this board.

It seems that men will spill if they have that layer of anonymitiy.

 

[PHATchik]

Do you find that women are more open to talk to someone then men?

If you look here at EF then you'll always see some guy talking about his personal problems to a bunch strangers. Just look at that "sticky" on this board.

It seems that men will spill if they have that layer of anonymitiy.

I'll admit that I do see a lot more threads like that on this board by the male members. Although, if you go to the women's board, we have a forum where we can talk. So maybe it's just because there's not a men's discussion board. Who knows? But like I said, not all women are willing to talk. I'm one of them. lol.

 

[Mad4Iron]

Nope.

I'm for the most part a loner with my problems,I''ll share here and other places but nothing really of an important nature.

I'm the one people come to for advice and I've found when I tried to get something back,it fell on deaf ears or it was an opportunity for them to spout on about their latest tragidy.

No ones gonna help me but me,found that out a long time ago.

Mad

 

[MFMan]

Nope.

I'm for the most part a loner with my problems,I''ll share here and other places but nothing really of an important nature.

I'm the one people come to for advice and I've found when I tried to get something back,it fell on deaf ears or it was an opportunity for them to spout on about their latest tragidy.

No ones gonna help me but me,found that out a long time ago.

Mad

True dat. Sometimes I feel like I'm put here just for everyone else.

 

[Mad4Iron]

Don't get me wrong,I'll help anyone but it gets played when you get calls at 2 in the morning and gotta listen to some problem that in all honesty is just bullshit.

Then when your fucked and thinking about eating a bullet,they don't want to hear shit.(I'm speaking figuritively).

Mad

 

[PHATchik]

Don't get me wrong,I'll help anyone but it gets played when you get calls at 2 in the morning and gotta listen to some problem that in all honesty is just bullshit.

Then when your fucked and thinking about eating a bullet,they don't want to hear shit.(I'm speaking figuritively).

Mad

It should go both ways, but I know what kind of situations you're talking about. My ex was a lot like that. He would see something was wrong, but when I would start actually talking about it, somehow the conversation would turn back to him a lot.

 

[Mad4Iron]

Funny how out of all the threads I read on this and about 4 other forums I visit one thread gets you thinking all day.

I do talk to a few people on line that I'm comfortable talking to about personal problems but that's about it.Most of my problems I keep to myself as it's hard for me to open up to people I know personally.Guys don't understand and girls are either interested in me and I'm not or I'm interested and their not or unavailable.

But such is life.I had more to say but my dog is making my life miserable right now 'cause he won't shut the hell up

Mad

 

[PHATchik]

Funny how out of all the threads I read on this and about 4 other forums I visit one thread gets you thinking all day.

I do talk to a few people on line that I'm comfortable talking to about personal problems but that's about it.Most of my problems I keep to myself as it's hard for me to open up to people I know personally.Guys don't understand and girls are either interested in me and I'm not or I'm interested and their not or unavailable.

But such is life.I had more to say but my dog is making my life miserable right now 'cause he won't shut the hell up

Mad

Hey, normally I post things to try to make you think.

And at least you have someone you can talk to, whether it is online or not. It can help. Sometimes anyway.

 

[theoak01]

my girlfriend sometimes,but she doesnt really have the life experience to help,my best friend helps alot,but lately I just lay down in a dark quiet room and make each muscle in my body relax until I fall asleep,that makes things better for me since people I trust arent always around

 

[spentagn]

I spill my guts on internet chatboards, and then go balistic when people make fun of me.

 

[rsnoble]

Beer. shots of jose. porno.

 

[Nonerz]

So is there something that you need to talk about?

hmmmmmm....that's what I was gonna say...

 

[PHATchik]

hmmmmmm....that's what I was gonna say...

Thank you both anyway. Nothing for me to say. Thanks though.

 

[HANSEL]

Who do you turn to when you are upset or simply have someone on your mind? Or maybe just when you need advice? I know I see threads on here asking for advice or help, but do you all really rely on a chat board for your advice? Or is it your mom or dad? Your significant other? Best friend? Brother or sister even? Who do you turn to when you just have something that is just weighing you down and you just have to talk to someone about it?

I talk to my Mom about it. I can talk to her about anything, but I do find talking to close friends also helps, sometimes you need to talk with somenoe close to your own age and see what they think as well.

 

[flex123]

I'll tell whoever. Just to get other perspectives on things. if it's really personal I might not be so open.

I don't see anything wrong even with asking for advice on a problem on a message board.

 

[Zander1983]

My girlfriend. Been a long time since I went to anybody else with a serious problem. She's all I need, which is both scary and comforting at the same time. We started out as best friends, and I always used to turn to her. Prior to that, I didn't really seek other people's help. Without her, I don't know if I would bother. Its almost like we could live without ever speaking to anybody else ever again. We just need each other. Again, scary.

 

[Mad4Iron]

Hang on to that Dude.

Might happen only once in your life.

Mad

 

[Zander1983]

Indeed. We're well aware

 

[gsxr1000]

No one anymore, now I keep it all bottled up inside me.