One of the great benefits of marriage is that you never have to go without except for times of serious illness and childbirth.
For the past 20+ yrs. the longest here was childbirth related, 4 1/2 months. Right before my daughter was born, I was put on bedrest for the last 3 months of pregnancy, then no sex for about 6 weeks after her birth...couldn't wait for that OK from the doc! Luckily we've only had one child and that's enough for us.
Since virginity...I hit a 6 month dry spell. It was voluntary. I didn't want to sleep around with anyone I didn't love, anymore. Whoring is nice in theory, but it's like eating McDonald's everyday. It makes you feel "icky."