What's the best way to go about fucking around on your wife?

[GUARDIAN]

gf's i can understand to some degree. wives no.

 

[retsiger]

no niggaz I dont want to just get laid.

Once you cross that track there is no going back. It will haunt you the rest of your life. If you want to get laid buy a fleshlight.

 

[MichaelScott]

http://www.ashleymadison.com/

whats this site all about

 

[musclemom]

Heavy, take a little bit of musclemom dutch uncle advice here from a woman whose been there, done that, got the t-shirt and married the man I cheated with and am happy with after 7 years of marriage.

JUST GET THE FUCK OUT. Seriously. The single most ENORMOUS regret I have in my life is staying in my first marriage when I knew that a) I was no longer in love with him and b) there was no way for me to recover those feelings.

My current husband and I missed out on time we could have been spending together staying in marriages that we didn't have any heart for, mainly because of kids and money and some extenuating circumstances. The result was we ended up creating even more anger and heartbreak and bitterness on the parts of our ex-spouses.

I don't feel badly about leaving my ex-husband, I feel badly that the marriage didn't make it and I feel genuine shame that when I realized it was over, I didn't leave him righteously.

That being said, the comments about women having virtually a 6th sense about cheating, uh, yeah, that's true. You might get away with a once or twice a year fling, but a sustained affair will be discovered within a year, no matter HOW slick you are.

Now, can it be done if you have a lot of cash at your disposal that won't be missed, and a reason to be away from home for extended periods of time on a regular basis? Yeah, that's how a lot of polygamists get away with having two or more families for decades (the major drawbacks to affairs are money and where to get together, unless you're seeing a single person). But having a regular thing with someone local, particularly if this individual is also married, is doomed to discovery sooner or later.

And seeing a single woman is doomed (and just really shitty), because sooner or later she's gonna be sick of playing second fiddle and putting her life on hold in the vain hopes that you'll leave your wife for her.

 

[abolish the weak]

Not worth it bro, trust me. No other woman is worth seeing your wife crying her eyes out because you ripped out her heart and stomped on it. My wife is forgiving enough that she popped me on 2 different occasions and has stuck by my side. But it's not the same, everytime I go somewhere she worries I'll do it again, she wonders who I'm talking to, etc etc. I've changed since then, but I'm still not sure if we'll make it or not due to my poor decisions. Dont do it bro, it's not worth it

 

[pappad]

or leave your wife and save hr and yourself a lot of fuckin heart ache. I hope your joking with this thread.

+1^^^^^^^^

 

[seaking420]

3movs.com

Go to this website......rub one out.......you will no longer have the urge to fuck around for another day

 

[seaking420]

Heavy, take a little bit of musclemom dutch uncle advice here from a woman whose been there, done that, got the t-shirt and married the man I cheated with and am happy with after 7 years of marriage.

JUST GET THE FUCK OUT. Seriously. The single most ENORMOUS regret I have in my life is staying in my first marriage when I knew that a) I was no longer in love with him and b) there was no way for me to recover those feelings.

My current husband and I missed out on time we could have been spending together staying in marriages that we didn't have any heart for, mainly because of kids and money and some extenuating circumstances. The result was we ended up creating even more anger and heartbreak and bitterness on the parts of our ex-spouses.

I don't feel badly about leaving my ex-husband, I feel badly that the marriage didn't make it and I feel genuine shame that when I realized it was over, I didn't leave him righteously.

That being said, the comments about women having virtually a 6th sense about cheating, uh, yeah, that's true. You might get away with a once or twice a year fling, but a sustained affair will be discovered within a year, no matter HOW slick you are.

Now, can it be done if you have a lot of cash at your disposal that won't be missed, and a reason to be away from home for extended periods of time on a regular basis? Yeah, that's how a lot of polygamists get away with having two or more families for decades (the major drawbacks to affairs are money and where to get together, unless you're seeing a single person). But having a regular thing with someone local, particularly if this individual is also married, is doomed to discovery sooner or later.

And seeing a single woman is doomed (and just really shitty), because sooner or later she's gonna be sick of playing second fiddle and putting her life on hold in the vain hopes that you'll leave your wife for her.

exactly what she said

Not worth it bro, trust me. No other woman is worth seeing your wife crying her eyes out because you ripped out her heart and stomped on it. My wife is forgiving enough that she popped me on 2 different occasions and has stuck by my side. But it's not the same, everytime I go somewhere she worries I'll do it again, she wonders who I'm talking to, etc etc. I've changed since then, but I'm still not sure if we'll make it or not due to my poor decisions. Dont do it bro, it's not worth it

and what he said


I've been there, its really the hardest thing to see your wife in tears and the pain that she goes through when she finds out about it.....and she will find out. You will slip up once and get caught, or she'll get suspicious and start looking into it and then there are many ways of finding out. And IF she does forgive you, your relationship will never be the same. She will NEVER trust you again.

 

[heavy_duty]

mainly because of kids and money and some extenuating circumstances.

I would like to know more about this. PM me.

 

[all the whey]

Yep if he loves his wife at all then he shouldn't do that to her. We always find a way to catch you and when we do it is heartbreaking. You NEVER get over that shit even when the relationship is done and gone. It really messes with your self esteem also. But if you don't love her then do her the favor and leave her, but don't fuck with her head and cheat on her.

Remember that next time you turn your husband down.