Shoot...Any woman who loved me enough to think that my big ol' butt was hot enough to spank (nearing 300 pounds) would just turn me on A LOT!!
Seriously though...I guess I look at doing 'different' things in bed as a sign of love and trust intertwined. The fact that they would love and trust me enough to do something 'different'...turns me on so much and makes my heart beat just a little bit faster.
I'm not sure if that makes sense...but it is how I feel.
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