it depends if you want to have a discreet encounter(s), or if you want to steal the girl outright
boiling it all down, you have to decide if you want to be her boyfriend, or her fuckbuddy. the choice you make will determine what strategy/tactics youre going to use.
women want different things from a boyfriend than they do from a fuckbuddy. if you want to be a girls boyfriend or husband, you need to demonstrate a lot of classic "protector/nurterer" qualities, that will demonstrate that you have a lot of long term survival value. these qualities are things like:
social status - being a leader or otherwise holding a position of status - being rich, being a leader, having many employees/subordinates, coming from a high status family...that sort of thing.
kindness/intelligence - being the sort of man who is good in a relationship ie someone who has teh neccesary skills to nurture and support his partner/offspring
fitness indicators - having things about yourself that indicate that you are fit to reproduce and show taht you are better than competing males - ie a big house, a big car, a big bank account, nice clothes, being good looking and disease free. all of these indicate that youre able to support/sustain your family unit
all you have to do is to demonstrate that you ahve more of these than her current partner, interact with her so as to build rapport, then go from there through the changeover process.
if, on the other hand, you want to be the girls fuckbuddy, you dont need the above things. what you need to do is to provide the things that she wants that her protector cant give her (not going to get into the psychology of why her protector cant give these things to her, but suffice to say, girls want different things from different men who have different roles in their lives). boiling all of this down, you need to be two things: number 1, you have to be fun. and number two, you have to be
FUCKING DISCREET.
(did i mention discreet?
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what constitutes 'fun' will change from girl to girl. for some you have to be funny, for some you have to be handsome, for some you have to be a great dancer, for others you have to be the sort of guy they crushed on in highschool but never hooked up with - whatever (ie every combination of human traits possible). but the bottom line of being fun is that you have to get the girl into a positive, fun emotional state and keep on building/reinforcing that emotional state in a way thats totally subjective to her
then you have to transition from being simply fun to being sexually fun, which is really just standard attraction game and sexual transitioning (and im not typing all that out again)
the way i personally do it is to put myself out there as a highly sexual person, but in a lovable sort of way - i talk about sex with absolute comfort, never mention names, and never talk about the girls i have sex with in a way taht women i talk to wouldnt like to be spoken about - ie i dont brag, or "conquer" girls - i just have sex, because, uh...sex is good
lol - this makes women realise that im the sort of person that they can have sex with and not suffer any negative social side effects - ie i wont brag about it and ruin their relationship/reputation.
then the next thing i do is put across the idea that im very accepting of womens desires/needs - ie i dont ever call women sluts. i dont have double standards about sex, where its ok for men but not ok for women. i chat to them about their fears, desires, regrets - all of that stuff - and in doing so, i become their friend, their confidante, someone that they can depend on, but at the same time, who its ok for them to have sex with - you basically give the girl lsanctuary from the rest of the world. when a girl comes to my apartment and the door closes, they know that they dont have to pretend to be anything other than what they are. they dont have to be proper, they dont have to cross their legs, they dont have to be polite etc - they can come, relax, and do anything (include get naked) in the little bubble of private reality that is my apartment.
if you can provide those things to this girl, you will have sex with her.
oh, and dont worry about calveless (hi calveless! lol) and feel guilt about fucking her - if she does it, its what she wants - and so long as her current boyfriend doesnt find out, then theres no harm in it. you dont count. youre her friend and confidante. having sex with you isnt actually sex.
...its masturbating.
...with YOUR cock lol
anyway thats my standard mindset and angle of seduction. i aim to be fun to be around, provide girls with the things that their partner cant give them, and just be that awesome fun friend that they like being around and having guilt/string free sex with
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........ but it will work.
She must be a Fag-Hag to have any interest in you.
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