What would you do?

[Werd]

If he acted that pissed off he's GUILTY. If he wasn't guilty he would not have been so upset that you busted him. Now he's trying to make you look like the bad guy. Guys tend to do that when they're caught doing something they're not supposed to be doing.

WERD to what all the ladies before me said.

Men are so good at deny, deny, deny... the more pissy they get, the more guilty they are.

Drop this asshole like a bad habit.

I have soooooooooo been there and sooooooooo done that. It soooooo isn't worth your time.

 

[lil'tangerine]

Yup he can deny it all he wants! I have proof! He's a lier! I let him know that and he has not called at all! Nice huh, after being together for 2 years, he's too much of a coward to even call. Guilty guilty guilty! He's pretty lucky he is so far away, I'd probably tear his head off right now! Grrr...I get more bitter by the moment!

 

[Werd]

Yup he can deny it all he wants! I have proof! He's a lier! I let him know that and he has not called at all! Nice huh, after being together for 2 years, he's too much of a coward to even call. Guilty guilty guilty! He's pretty lucky he is so far away, I'd probably tear his head off right now! Grrr...I get more bitter by the moment!

Yup, had me one of them too... I never confronted him with the 100% proof though. I mean, what good would it do? He obviously never cared about me because then he wouldn't have done what he did in the first place and what good would it do me to confront him? Would he fess up then? Ummmm no.

There are so many times when I would just love to hear his answer to the question, "Was there any truth to ANYTHING you told me?" Quite honestly what would he say?

Hello! Would he pick *that moment* to start being truthful when the bastard was playing me practically from word, "Go."

I was very hurt and livid for a long time. Now I actually feel sorry for the dude. Seriously, this guy was totally compulsive and I fell for it hook, line and sinker.

Ah well, lesson learned.

 

[Raina]

Wow. That sucks that he's doing that. I don't get why people lie in that situation when there's proof of what they've been up to. At least you know what kind of guy he is now.

 

[jenscats5]

Wow. That sucks that he's doing that. I don't get why people lie in that situation when there's proof of what they've been up to. At least you know what kind of guy he is now.

EXACTLY!! Better you found out now than later what type of person he is......

My ex hubby & I were married for 5 years -- started dating when I was 19, divorced at 27.....anyway I found out later that he was dating another woman while we were married (the last year) -- he's now married to her.

But when I was cleaning out his stuff I found all kinds of porn mags -- stuff you can only buy at serious porn stores. Over 45 in age, over 300 lbs really freaky stuff. After I found that I wondered who I had been living with all along.....

 

[Werd]

EXACTLY!! Better you found out now than later what type of person he is......

. After I found that I wondered who I had been living with all along.....

I think this is a question that a lot of us ask ourselves after we divorce....

 

[jenscats5]

I think this is a question that a lot of us ask ourselves after we divorce....

WERD....

(always wanted to do that...)

 

[Werd]

WERD....

(always wanted to do that...)

You mocking me?

 

[velvett]

EXACTLY!! Better you found out now than later what type of person he is......

My ex hubby & I were married for 5 years -- started dating when I was 19, divorced at 27.....anyway I found out later that he was dating another woman while we were married (the last year) -- he's now married to her.

But when I was cleaning out his stuff I found all kinds of porn mags -- stuff you can only buy at serious porn stores. Over 45 in age, over 300 lbs really freaky stuff. After I found that I wondered who I had been living with all along.....

OMG!

Stuff like this makes me wonder if I will ever be able to marry.

 

[jenscats5]

You mocking me?

Nope.....just wanted to say WERD......