What would you do if....

[omega529]

I would quietly walk over to her and grab the phone from her and break it right in front of her..then politely walk away...Unless of course the relationship just began, then I would walk away and never look back

Yeah, but your a women.

 

[omega529]

lol First, it's not bad if you're on the couch just hanging out watching tv or something while she's texting out of boredom. However... if you guys are at a really nice french restaraunt or something and instead of speaking to you, she's texting the whole time, it's not cool. I totally know what you mean about poor self image and confidence to the point of having a complex. It sucks being screwed over to the point you can't trust girls at all, especially when one cares a lot for you. Sounds like this ones ok though, especially if she liked you since you were fat!!! Congradulations on the big change, sounds like you've done great!! I'm working on mine now!!

Thanks bro......i think i over-reacted....good luck....

 

[Cutiebaby]

Yeah, but your a women.

point being???

 

[omega529]

point being???

No offence but very few times (and none in my experience) has a women gave good advice on relationships to a man....This has been backed up by human sexual pschology as well....Thats not to say all women give bad advice to a man on relationships, but its usually a bit bies. Im not trieng to be a sexest in anyway by saying that. If I was a women i would consider your advice because then their would be no biasisness. Actually anytime I have asked a girl for advice on a relationship they have given me tarable advice....I have been told by a women (With a Ph.D in Psychology) not to take relationship advice from a women. I would like to ask a friend with whom i hang out with, but their a bunch or drunks and may have been in 1 or 2 relationships their whole lives or are still in the same one for 5 years. I figure maybee somone with more experience could be more help.

 

[mobro]

not ALL woman are that way bro. close, but not all. and hell, it dont matter, everybody is biased depeding on where they are in life from time to time

 

[Cutiebaby]

not ALL woman are that way bro. close, but not all. and hell, it dont matter, everybody is biased depeding on where they are in life from time to time

agreed

 

[rnch]

Ditch da Biatch.

 

[omega529]

not ALL woman are that way bro. close, but not all. and hell, it dont matter, everybody is biased depeding on where they are in life from time to time

aCTUALLY, I DID GET SOME GOOD ADVICE FROM MY EX-EX-GIRLFRIEND YESTERDAy, i think she really gave good insight. I was delightfully supresed and feel alot better today about things. I find that reading body language helps to trus what she says, and when not to trus. At least when it comes to the bias part.

 

[mobro]

aCTUALLY, I DID GET SOME GOOD ADVICE FROM MY EX-EX-GIRLFRIEND YESTERDAy, i think she really gave good insight. I was delightfully supresed and feel alot better today about things. I find that reading body language helps to trus what she says, and when not to trus. At least when it comes to the bias part.

it's called Kinesics, art of reading body language. and you are right in my opinion. if she is your X then maybe her feelings werent in the way of an honest opinion. yet, she still knows you well enough to make some good suggestions. good luck bro

 

[omega529]

made the decision, and took the ex's advice....

I dont know if this was the wright decision. I talked to hmy GF last night for about 2 hours....She said she dosent know if she just likes me as a friend or not....She said she dosent feel the "passon" when we kiss. I asked her what she ment....She really couldnt explain it, what I did get from what she said is it is like a "chill" that runs thre her body. She said she dosent feel it when i kiss her. I told her we have 2 options either we brake up, or we casually date. She picked casual dating.. I told her that an exclusive relationship is out, i cant be with somone who dosent want to work on it, or thinks they may not have the same feelings as me. I thought it was a good choice at first.

As i think of it now, it seems that it may get confusing. And one of us may get hurt. She is worried that if we completly brake up. I wont hang out with her anymore.....and she wright, i wouldnt be able to be friends with her for a couple months.

I asked her, if she felt like this, why did she say yes to me when i asked her to go out, she said she thought she like me more then a friend, and she thought that passon she want would happen....She also said that she wants to hang out with me, watch movies in my room, hang out with my family. Then she said "well that kinda sounds like boyfriend and girlfriend to me"

Is their a way to make this passion happen, some certain way to kiss, or a touch?

What do you all think about this casual dating idea? Or should i just brake it off totally?