What method do you use to meet/hook up with chicks in clubs and bars?

[ColdCut]

man i forgot about this thread......

and pigeon-rat is right, that type of shit never works...even girls who have come up to me have usually lost interest real quick if you act like u dont need em cuz women are just as (if not more) insecure that guys. plus they get hit on all the time, they dont need to wait for ur ass unless they think you are the finest thing to walk the earth

 

[Taps]

You sound like a young dude, so don't stress out. Give your self a while and you'll start to figure out what women like and respond to. In no time you'll reach a point where you really enjoy meeting new girls and it's not scary and awkward at all.

 

[vinylgroover]

i dance and dance well......that usually get's the chicks lubed up.

 

[TraxZBT]

tan!

 

[Nighthawkk]

Rush-rush to the yeyo...there's a reason for that song lol

 

[Moderate_THIS]

i dance and dance well......that usually get's the chicks lubed up.

We have a winner. If you take only one thing from this thread, take this...

 

[HuMDeKi]

best way to pick up a chick in most cities now is just tell them you have an endless supply of coke....they'll come right over

LMAO!

Karma for you.

 

[orca]

Originally posted by vinylgroover
i dance and dance well......that usually get's the chicks lubed up.
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We have a winner. If you take only one thing from this thread, take this...

then tell them that you have a little blow! Deal Done!

 

[Area5150]

I score in clubs. But I'm anything but a ladies man. And when I say score i mean securing there phone number and NOT having a one night stand.

I'm a loser with chicks in that I can't talk to them in cold calling fashion in places like malls, coffee shops, etc. I can't even say "hi" to them and I don't. I can't because rejection is something that kills me and makes me feel sub-human.

I'm a freak in that.......

I can talk to a plethora of women in clubs. And I dig dancing. I dance all night. I prefer clubs that are old school.....we have a couple here in San Diego..........in that they are the type where you can go up to a woman sitting at a table and ask her to dance. That manner of presentation is rare nowadays, thanks to the techo-music fucks......who changed that form of social behavior around in the early 90's or so. Nowadays fuckers just wander out onto the dance floor by their own silly ass self and then sashay over to a chick.....and who knows if she really wants you in her airspace?
That style is too fucking ambiguous!

I like asking them to dance, for if they consent then you know they at least respect your appearance. Ah yes, your wondering what happens when they say no. What about the rejection factor that stymies my ability to pick-up women elsewhere?

For some strange reason it doesn't faze me in clubs cause I'm always a little buzzed (I said a little, not alot!) and the loud music and overall energy of the club magically kills the debilitating characteristics of rejection that try to penetrate me.

In the real world I've got no game when it comes to approaching women. In clubs I am like a hammer in that I'll dance with 20-30 different women a night. It's my own little phenomenoh that I got going on. And though it's anything but well rounded, I'm grateful for what I have. Maybe you need to find your comfort zone like I did.

For your information I'm probrably a 7 in the looks department. And I like techno music but not the fact that, that crowd made it alot harder to meet women as compared to in the mid-90's for the reason mentioned earlier. Thank god there are a handful of clubs out there where it's still cool to go up to a womans table and ask her to dance. Not many exist anymore!

 

[Area5150]

Simple formula for scoring in clubs:

1-Go up to her table and ask her to dance.

2-Then dance. When the song is over say thanks for dancing or walk her back to her table and say it. And then turnaround and make yourself scarce.

3-(Very big step here!) Wait about 10 minutes and go back and ask her to dance again. If she says yes then you gotta groove going!

4-(The biggest step of all, right here, right now!) Dance up a few songs, and run her on the floor till she's exhausted like a limp rag doll. Even more important is to make sure she sweats enough perspiration to fill a 50 gallon fish tank. And then....ask her if she'd like to step outside for a moment to get some fresh air. If she says yes, that groove you had going just widened into a Panama-like canal.

5-Once outside you'll be able to easily figure out if theres a mutual attraction, after conversing awhile of course. Then get a phone number.


The beauty of this formula is that you didn't spend a dime on drinks for her.......not yet anyway. Also, if she agrees to step 3 and 4 then she has just given you a big, fat, though silent, positive affirmation in the looks and style department.

It won't be until step five before she figures out wether you're a classic dipshit or a cut diamond.