I used to have "Bob" & "Tom" Bob was bigger and softer material. Tom was smaller and maneuverable for more adventurous play. Then I had this butterfly thingee that you could put in the panties, and the guy could control it with a remote control. Imagine sitting in a Broadway show or at a 5 star dinner and having your fella working a remote control that is in his coat jacket. That is good fun! LOL.
I threw all my toys away when I moved in with my fella. I just always think men are more comfortable with your toys if they buy them with you and knowing you never used them when you were with someone else.