well ya... I myself find two guy fucking each other repulsive, I don't care for that shit... esp if they are hot. eeekk
My guy loves the thought of me with another woman (he doesn't want to be involved) but just watch...
But IMO that is cheating no matter how you write it down, its cheating. I have no desire to ever cheat on anyone. If indeed I want a woman I will do it, but will break off all ties before. But he likes me to talk dirty to him and explicit dirty too... explain every detail, he doesn't want me to hook up with a woman, but wants to know exactly what I would do to her. Hell if that what will give me a 6hr sex session, and all i need to do is tell him my fantasy and his fantasy then its on!