What Is Going On???

[Temple]

In the past few weeks I have picked up on an undercurrent in several threads that had to do with gals feeling attacked, intimidated and just plain hurt.

I know that many times I come on very strong and as much as it pains me to say it even bitchy. Know that there is ALWAYS a smile on my face no matter what is coming out of my mouth - I live primarily in a world of men where "f#$k you" is an acceptable response to anything.
Everyone's opinions are equally valid. I for one want somebody to jump my butt if I am wrong rather than let me continue doing or thinking something that needs to be corrected. We grow thru conflict not sitting around agreeing with each other all the time.

So, if I hurt or offend you - I apologize from the bottom of my heart. I hope if I do it again you will say "Hey Temple, F#@k you"

 

[NubianBeauty]

Temple, I must say that there have been many times I wanted to post a question but was a little reluctant to do so because of all the attacks and flames that were going on at the time. I chat with a woman that won't post because of this. She reads this board alot but won't ask any questions or give her opinion on many issues... and she is very knowledgeable. I have asked her to start participating but she refuses because she will see a flame and run scared. Now it has stopped here recently, so I'm not really sure where all this is coming from.

What people need to realize is that this is a CHAT BOARD and what one types may come across very differently if spoken. And we are women, so now lets bring ESTROGEN into the equation(not ann BTW she's on test...hehe ) once that happens.. we have PMS, moodiness, and a host of other things. I for one know that I perceive things VERY different when my periond is on or going thru PMS. What I say to all this is "LIGHTEN UP" we don't know you, so you should not be taking this shit personally We are all here to learn and help each other. I for one know that I have learned sooooo much since being here that people are asking me for diet, training, and cycle advice Can I give it to them...YES!!! because of Elite Fitness!! I have researched and researched so much since being here it is unbelievable. I feel like we are a little family here

 

[bunnymt]

I have never felt intimidated. It is a shame that some people do. They shouldn't feel afraid to post here or on any of the boards because there is nothing to be afraid of. If you get flamed, you can either flame back or try to be mature about it. I hope that some of those people who are intimidated will either come back or post on this thread. Pm me if need be...

bunny

 

[Raina]

I feel much more comfy posting about more serious issues or questions on the women's board vs other parts of elite. The atmosphere here is quite different and while it's usually light-hearted here, people things more seriously.

I know I've posted some off-topic stuff as of late. I guess I just need to get some things off my mind and don't need the nonsense I'd get in the chat board for response. I love the women's board.

 

[new@gettinbig]

I do not think anyone should feel uncomfortable to post at anytime...who cares if you get flamed or if others disagree....that is what a discussion board is about..discussion!!! Why be shy? What do you have to lose??? This is the internet....if you cant post questions and find out stuff here where no one knows ya anyway..then you got a rough life ahead of you...Be confident in your questions..research them first......if it appears you did your homework and you are honestly making an attempt to find info..you wont get flamed....if you dont like how some one responds..let em know...stand up for yourself....dont just read the boards...contribute..that is what makes the board better and more informative for everyone...if you just read and never post you are just cheating yourself!

 

[NubianBeauty]

Yah, all you namby pamby girly girls! What the hell you thinking, oh, I forgot, women don't think. They only have FEELINGS. Boo hoo, you wrote something that I must take as hurtfull, and now I'm going to cry. And further more I'm not going to post - so there. See how you all like that - you mean people on Elite. Not that I've ever posted before, but I know I would get flamed.... sniff sniff. So I'm still going to TAKE all the good info from you NASTY people because it helps me.


Humm, was that a bit over the top?? - LOL

LOL!! Not over the top @ all!! I told her she was crazy for thinking she would get flamed.... so what if you do!! Spatts you are so right.... she has some serious confidence issues... Nothing to do w/ EF.

 

[wilson6]

Intimidation and feeling hurt is a state of mind. Only you control it. Make of it what you will, but before blaming the board or others for these feelings think about why you feel this way, and that may lead to a solution to those feelings.

As I said in a previous thread, no one knows who you are. If you get intimidated or hurt on this board, I can't imagine what is going to happen to you with someone directly in your face (i.e., a real life situation). Sounds like some of you need some inner reflection as this suggests an issue beyond the board that may compromise other aspects of your life. Just a thought.

W6

 

[VooDoo Lady]

I give up - I concede.

 

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