I keep it trimmed, but have shaved completely down before, on request. Doesn't feel all that great growing back in. But keeping it trimmed, for me is a necessity. No two ways about it.
And Magdalena, female shaving is one of the very very few things I disagree with you on. I like it because I can really dive in to all crevices and I just like to see it. To me the hair, unless trimmed nicely, hides too much.
Other than that, and the fact that I am a guy, I think you and I are a perfect match.
B.