Shave his cock? The idea of that seems so weird. I dont like when girls shave there pussys and even though i am lesbian i would think the same of a guy. Hair is natural. Let it grow. (unless you are VERY hairy!) I have never understood the opinion that trimming off hair in the groin is "neat" or "well groomed". There is SUPPOSED to be hair there, leave it. And men are supposed to have hair on there legs. I think they look so weird without any there.
But if the women you want to fuck like it shaved, do what you must. The only reason i shave my legs and underarms is because the women i want like it that way.