what do i say??

[lilperronis]

there is this fine ass girl that i saw in the gym about 2 months ago and then i see her in school the next day walking down the hall.so i keep seeing her for a while and she is looking finer each day.well i tell someone that i like her(like a pussy) and i dont know what to tell her b/c i dont see her in the gym any more.but if i saw her in the gym i would talk to her

what do i do or say??

 

[je.knee]

hi
first of all - awwwww, a crush ...hehe, i'm teasing, sorry. anyways, it's no big deal, i mean...do you two have any mutual friends? you know, like someone you know who also knows her, or vice versa, so you two could just "accidentally" hook up at one point? then just go from there.
...or, i don't know. it sucks that you don't see her anymore at the gym. haha, i really have no particular advice to give, i don't know. of course, i'm a girl, so my natural thought is that you should just get some balls and introduce yourself to her and then assess the situation. then, ask her out after a while of seeing her at school and exchanging hello's in the halls. just my input. sorry i couldn't direct you in a better direction. good luck take care.

 

[lilperronis]

shit thanx for the advice but like i dont kow if she even knows who i am

 

[Golfer18--old]

Your a cunt.

 

[lilperronis]

dont worry bout golfer18 b/c that is my best friend.he always fucks with me

 

[HumorMe]

Your a cunt.

 

[lilperronis]

ok any advice ????

 

[Boss101]

Keep it simple just get some balls and say hi to her. Start up some stupid conversation with her anything to get her attention. Don't worry about begin rejected either how many times have you seen a girl that you like and you don't say anything to her then your kicking yourself in the ass wondering if you could have got her.

 

[lilperronis]

any other advice???

 

[woollis2]

Okay, here is my advice. You need to go up to her and say hi. Start some sort of small talk (ie: tell her you thought you seen her at the gym in the past and why she quit coming) and then if she seems interested, ask her if she'd be interested in talking some time over a drink or something of that nature.

I don't know about the rest of the ladies on this board, but I am sort of shy when it comes to asking men out. I always let the guy ask me out. I used to get so bummed out because some guys that I was interested in never asked me out, then later I find out that they were, but they were to shy (stalemate). So I have learned, if I am interested, to create a conversation and joke around with them and then after the little talking session goes over well, I ask them out or ask them what they're doing on so or so of a day. Maybe that's why she hasn't talked to you.

So next time you see her Mr. Shy-Chicken Shit (j/k...ha ha...I know how you feel)..TALK TO HER!!!! YOU MUST TALK TO HER. If you get rejected...so what...then you'll know and you can go on with life. That's the number one reason people don't ask each other out. I have been turned down, and then I'd say fuck it, didn't let it bother me, and went on my business!

GOOD LUCK!