Weird (rude) stuff people say to prego chicks...

[heatherrae]

Okay, some people just are NOT very prudent in what they say.

Here are some doozies.

1. Lady told me I must be having a boy because my butt is fat and not just my belly.

2. Lady told me that I was a bad mom for drinking alcohol (I was drinking a non-alcoholic smoothie thing at the tiki bar at the hotel).

3. Step mom asked me today how much more I have gained since my last doctor's appointment. Dad chimed in that I said that I had eaten tons while on vacation. What I actually had said to him was that I had curry lots while on vacation, not that I had eaten lots of food.

4. Got called "big momma bear" while on vacation.

5. While on the plane the flight attendant asked "what's in there?" I assumed she meant my belly so I said, " a little boy." She said, "I didn't want to just ask how far along you were in case you were just fat." LOL. Later, when I ordered a diet coke, she gave me a water instead and said I couldn't drink caffeine.

6. Step mom asks constantly how much I weigh. Once, when I mentioned that I don't have any stretch marks, she said, "oh, you will get them. You've gained way too much weight not to get them."

7. Someone asked if my ankles were swollen or if they always looked that fat.



WTF? do people have no brakes between their heads and their tongues?

 

[i-Supplements]

I think pretty pregnant women are beautiful. They give me a boner!

 

[Smurfy]

Okay, some people just are NOT very prudent in what they say.

Here are some doozies.

1. Lady told me I must be having a boy because my butt is fat and not just my belly.

2. Lady told me that I was a bad mom for drinking alcohol (I was drinking a non-alcoholic smoothie thing at the tiki bar at the hotel).

3. Step mom asked me today how much more I have gained since my last doctor's appointment. Dad chimed in that I said that I had eaten tons while on vacation. What I actually had said to him was that I had curry lots while on vacation, not that I had eaten lots of food.

4. Got called "big momma bear" while on vacation.

5. While on the plane the flight attendant asked "what's in there?" I assumed she meant my belly so I said, " a little boy." She said, "I didn't want to just ask how far along you were in case you were just fat." LOL. Later, when I ordered a diet coke, she gave me a water instead and said I couldn't drink caffeine.

6. Step mom asks constantly how much I weigh. Once, when I mentioned that I don't have any stretch marks, she said, "oh, you will get them. You've gained way too much weight not to get them."

7. Someone asked if my ankles were swollen or if they always looked that fat.



WTF? do people have no brakes between their heads and their tongues?

lmao that's some funny shit

 

[Raptorex]

Freshly clipped from another site:http://www.unwind.com/jokes-funnies/menmarriage2/fatalthings.shtml

* Sure you'll get your figure back ... we'll just search 1985 where you left it."

* "How come you're so much fatter than the other chicks in Lamaze?"

* "What's the big deal? If you can handle *me* going in, surely you can handle a baby coming out."

* "Hey, when you're finished puking in there, get me a beer, willya?"

* "Yo, Fatass! You're blocking the TV!"

* "I finished the Oreos."

* "Not to imply anything, but I don't think the kid weighs forty pounds."

* "Y'know, looking at her, you'd never guess that Pamela Lee had a baby!!"

* "I sure hope your thighs aren't gonna stay that flabby forever!"

* "Well, couldn't they induce labor ? The 25th is the Super Bowl."

* "Darned if you ain't about five pounds away from a surprise visit from that Richard Simmons fella."

* "Fred at the office passed a stone the size of a pea. Boy, that's gotta hurt."

* "Whoa! For a minute there, I thought I woke up next to Willard Scott!"

* "I'm jealous! Why can't men experience the joy of childbirth?"

* "Are your ankles supposed to look like that?"

* "Get your *own* ice cream."

* "Geez, you're awfully puffy looking today."

* "Got milk?"

* "Maybe we should name the baby after my secretary, Tawney."

* "Man! That rose tattoo on your hip is the size of Madagascar!"

* "Retaining water? Yeah, like the Hoover Dam..."

* "You don't have the guts to pull the trigger..."

 

[heatherrae]

Freshly clipped from another site:http://www.unwind.com/jokes-funnies/menmarriage2/fatalthings.shtml

* Sure you'll get your figure back ... we'll just search 1985 where you left it."

* "How come you're so much fatter than the other chicks in Lamaze?"

* "What's the big deal? If you can handle *me* going in, surely you can handle a baby coming out."

* "Hey, when you're finished puking in there, get me a beer, willya?"

* "Yo, Fatass! You're blocking the TV!"

* "I finished the Oreos."

* "Not to imply anything, but I don't think the kid weighs forty pounds."

* "Y'know, looking at her, you'd never guess that Pamela Lee had a baby!!"

* "I sure hope your thighs aren't gonna stay that flabby forever!"

* "Well, couldn't they induce labor ? The 25th is the Super Bowl."

* "Darned if you ain't about five pounds away from a surprise visit from that Richard Simmons fella."

* "Fred at the office passed a stone the size of a pea. Boy, that's gotta hurt."

* "Whoa! For a minute there, I thought I woke up next to Willard Scott!"

* "I'm jealous! Why can't men experience the joy of childbirth?"

* "Are your ankles supposed to look like that?"

* "Get your *own* ice cream."

* "Geez, you're awfully puffy looking today."

* "Got milk?"

* "Maybe we should name the baby after my secretary, Tawney."

* "Man! That rose tattoo on your hip is the size of Madagascar!"

* "Retaining water? Yeah, like the Hoover Dam..."

* "You don't have the guts to pull the trigger..."

ROFL...I love the Lamaze one!!!

you reminded me of some others I have been told. Here are some doozies from my dad:

1. You look like you have gained in your belly, and your legs, and your butt, and your face is fat -- yeah, you are pretty much big all over.

2. You know, the baby only weighs 6 or 7 pounds. The rest of that is fat.

Here is one from a guy who wants to go out with me.

1. If I could be sure that your legs and ass won't always look like that, I would like to go out with you.

 

[jh1]

Dang... rude azz peeps.

 

[jerkbox]

well for one thing, having one drink is perfectly acceptable.....people should stfu and mind their own business

 

[Sub-Zero]

Okay, some people just are NOT very prudent in what they say.

Here are some doozies.

1. Lady told me I must be having a boy because my butt is fat and not just my belly.

2. Lady told me that I was a bad mom for drinking alcohol (I was drinking a non-alcoholic smoothie thing at the tiki bar at the hotel).

3. Step mom asked me today how much more I have gained since my last doctor's appointment. Dad chimed in that I said that I had eaten tons while on vacation. What I actually had said to him was that I had curry lots while on vacation, not that I had eaten lots of food.

4. Got called "big momma bear" while on vacation.

5. While on the plane the flight attendant asked "what's in there?" I assumed she meant my belly so I said, " a little boy." She said, "I didn't want to just ask how far along you were in case you were just fat." LOL. Later, when I ordered a diet coke, she gave me a water instead and said I couldn't drink caffeine.

6. Step mom asks constantly how much I weigh. Once, when I mentioned that I don't have any stretch marks, she said, "oh, you will get them. You've gained way too much weight not to get them."

7. Someone asked if my ankles were swollen or if they always looked that fat.



WTF? do people have no brakes between their heads and their tongues?

hahha that sucks

heather, just to see, can we see full frontal and side pics? not naked or anything (although that would be awsome).

i know u posted that one side one, but that didnt really show us much about your overall physique.

when are you due?

im excited, and you know the shadow will be there to help u get ur physique good again

 

[heatherrae]

hahha that sucks

heather, just to see, can we see full frontal and side pics? not naked or anything (although that would be awsome).

i know u posted that one side one, but that didnt really show us much about your overall physique.

when are you due?

im excited, and you know the shadow will be there to help u get ur physique good again

i would do it, but I swear to God that I have lost my digital camera for the past several weeks. I had a friend take pics of me when I was on vacation, though. I may get those emailed to me. If I do, I'll post em.

I will admit that I don't look good...lol. I have gained lots all over. Even my face looks chubbier. i've gained like 50 lbs.

I'm due august 21.

yeah, after the baby, I want to do the shadow plan or something close to that.

 

[puddlemonkey]

I think pretty pregnant women are beautiful. They give me a boner!

+1

 

[jackangel]

lol

no caffeine?? wtf, you must have been tired of dealing with shit, otherwise i think you would have said something.

"bitch, did i ask for WATER?"

 

[Sub-Zero]

i would do it, but I swear to God that I have lost my digital camera for the past several weeks. I had a friend take pics of me when I was on vacation, though. I may get those emailed to me. If I do, I'll post em.

I will admit that I don't look good...lol. I have gained lots all over. Even my face looks chubbier. i've gained like 50 lbs.

I'm due august 21.

yeah, after the baby, I want to do the shadow plan or something close to that.

are you tipping 200 yet? start eating clean so you dont gain too much more, and then even though it will suck to work so hard and still be fat dont give up.

im cutting now and doing a bad job so ill probably have to take it more seriously soon

 

[Sub-Zero]

lol

no caffeine?? wtf, you must have been tired of dealing with shit, otherwise i think you would have said something.

"bitch, did i ask for WATER?"

lol!

id probably swat it off the tray table and start yelling in her face

 

[string_bean00]

this woman at my gym was pregnant not too long ago and now she's got a ripped sixer and striated delts and a hot muscular back and she arouses me

 

[Bikini Mod]

Most people are just mindless bobos...

One of the funniest comments I used to get nearly every time I went out with my girls is, "Geeze Lady, are all these kids YOURS?!?!"

To which I would reply with a smile, "No, the little one is just a rental."

 

[vixensghost]

You poor girl. Ignore them alllll!

People's brain cells seem to shrink when they see a future mother.

I loved the jerks who would come up and TOUCH my tummy when I was carrying Bri. It seems people think since you're El-prego, they can touch you. "Step away from the tummy " is what I'd tell 'em. Or....I'd jump and tell them my belly button was ready to burst..lol Band aides your friend yet? Damn, nothing worse than the popped out belly button rubbing on your clothes.

You have the urge to "nest" yet? Cleaning like a fool, etc?

 

[velvett]

WTF? do people have no brakes between their heads and their tongues?

No, no they don't.



I remember my girlfriend through both pregnancies her husband would comment as to how big she was getting (barely 30 lbs per pregnancy lost all between the two and after) while his mother would reprimand her for not eating enough "for two".

 

[heatherrae]

No, no they don't.



I remember my girlfriend through both pregnancies her husband would comment as to how big she was getting (barely 30 lbs per pregnancy lost all between the two and after) while his mother would reprimand her for not eating enough "for two".

LOL>.....oh yeah, the food police. Everyone is an expert when you are pregnant. I have been told by various people not to eat dairy or the baby will be allergic; to eat more dairy or I won't have milk; not to eat too much fruit or I will be fat; eat more fruit; don't eat spicy, etc. etc. It never ends...lol.

 

[heatherrae]

are you tipping 200 yet? start eating clean so you dont gain too much more, and then even though it will suck to work so hard and still be fat dont give up.

im cutting now and doing a bad job so ill probably have to take it more seriously soon

No, I'm not tipping 200 lbs. I'm only 5'3" Still, I have lots of work to do after the baby is here. When I was on vacation, I swam every day and I did 30 minutes or either the bike or the stair stepper at the gym, but that was really ALL I could do without getting way out of sorts.

I want to get down to like 110 lbs after the baby. That is where I'm most comfortable. I had gained before I was pregnant and was at about 125 when the baby was conceived. Hopefully, I can get back into good shape and won't be too stretched out in the abs and such.

 

[heatherrae]

You poor girl. Ignore them alllll!

People's brain cells seem to shrink when they see a future mother.

I loved the jerks who would come up and TOUCH my tummy when I was carrying Bri. It seems people think since you're El-prego, they can touch you. "Step away from the tummy " is what I'd tell 'em. Or....I'd jump and tell them my belly button was ready to burst..lol Band aides your friend yet? Damn, nothing worse than the popped out belly button rubbing on your clothes.

You have the urge to "nest" yet? Cleaning like a fool, etc?

My belly button is still an innie. I don't think it is going to pop. I not only haven't gotten the nesting instinct yet, but everything is such a mess because I start to clean and get so tired that I have to lay down and nap...lol.

 

[EnderJE]

Just get Jack to follow you around and beat the crap out of them. Or did the two of you call it quits and I missed the e-drama?

 

[all the whey]

I just instinctively say "It's not mine!"

 

[heatherrae]

I just instinctively say "It's not mine!"

LOL...i would crack up if someone said something that witty. They just say numb headed things, unfortunately.

 

[heatherrae]

Just get Jack to follow you around and beat the crap out of them. Or did the two of you call it quits and I missed the e-drama?

They don't say that stuff when he is around. He protects me well.

 

[all the whey]

They don't say that stuff when he is around. He protects me well.

 

[jnevin]

I can't believe all of that. Grown ass people too.

 

[all the whey]

I can't believe all of that. Grown ass people too.

Come on!!!

She just makes up all this shit to sound interesting.

I don't know if she is even prego.

 

[heatherrae]

Come on!!!

She just makes up all this shit to sound interesting.

I don't know if she is even prego.

You're the daddy.

 

[crew9]

My neighbor didn't start showing until she was six months. She was a religious runner. Every girls pregnancy is different though.

 

[heatherrae]

My neighbor didn't start showing until she was six months. She was a religious runner. Every girls pregnancy is different though.

LOL...yep, then add in the people who tell you about all the women that they know who didn't gain a single pound and ran a marathon the day before giving birth.




We prego girls love to hear of the wonder-pregos...lol.

 

[crew9]

LOL...yep, then add in the people who tell you about all the women that they know who didn't gain a single pound and ran a marathon the day before giving birth.




We prego girls love to hear of the wonder-pregos...lol.

If it makes you feel better she turned out to be a lesbian, not that there's anything wrong with that. I'm almost certain it was from all the running..

 

[heatherrae]

If it makes you feel better she turned out to be a lesbian, not that there's anything wrong with that. I'm almost certain it was from all the running..

Somehow that does make me feel better.

 

[crew9]

Somehow that does make me feel better.

Excellent. I use that tactic with my girlfriend all the time. Any time I say something insensitive I'll come back later and say something pathetically stupid. She stops being mad at me because she can't help but feel sorry for my dumbass.

 

[DannoMight]

My neighbor didn't start showing until she was six months. She was a religious runner. Every girls pregnancy is different though.

neither did my fiance. she gained about 30lbs throughout each and has lost it all after each.

 

[Daisy_]

Aww ha ha that is not nice. I put down my nectarines and cream after reading all the comments you got! lol

 

[all the whey]

You're the daddy.

 

[heatherrae]

LOL...just like the real daddy.

 

[javaguru]

LOL...just like the real daddy.

It's past the bedtime of prego chicks....just sayin'.

 

[jackangel]

innies are the way to go. outies = teh gross.

 

[Ilk]

Okay, some people just are NOT very prudent in what they say.

Here are some doozies.

1. Lady told me I must be having a boy because my butt is fat and not just my belly.

2. Lady told me that I was a bad mom for drinking alcohol (I was drinking a non-alcoholic smoothie thing at the tiki bar at the hotel).

3. Step mom asked me today how much more I have gained since my last doctor's appointment. Dad chimed in that I said that I had eaten tons while on vacation. What I actually had said to him was that I had curry lots while on vacation, not that I had eaten lots of food.

4. Got called "big momma bear" while on vacation.

5. While on the plane the flight attendant asked "what's in there?" I assumed she meant my belly so I said, " a little boy." She said, "I didn't want to just ask how far along you were in case you were just fat." LOL. Later, when I ordered a diet coke, she gave me a water instead and said I couldn't drink caffeine.

6. Step mom asks constantly how much I weigh. Once, when I mentioned that I don't have any stretch marks, she said, "oh, you will get them. You've gained way too much weight not to get them."

7. Someone asked if my ankles were swollen or if they always looked that fat.



WTF? do people have no brakes between their heads and their tongues?

Oh My... Whatthe??

people are very stupid and rude....

Ugh! thats annoying....

 

[mobro]

just an idea. x's Dr. put her on a diet because of prego diabetes. small clean meals 5-6 times a day. she only gained 20 lbs and started out way more over weight than that. it really worked well for the sweeling too. less salt i guess. either way it was very healthy for her and my boy

 

[blueta2]

HR, is that a medcine ball in your shirt, or are you just happy to see me?!

 

[heatherrae]

HR, is that a medcine ball in your shirt, or are you just happy to see me?!

I'm just happy to see you.

 

[heatherrae]

just an idea. x's Dr. put her on a diet because of prego diabetes. small clean meals 5-6 times a day. she only gained 20 lbs and started out way more over weight than that. it really worked well for the sweeling too. less salt i guess. either way it was very healthy for her and my boy

I guess you missed the part about the nutritional advice and the comparisons to other women...



I'm not supposed to be on a diet while pregnant. It isn't good for the baby. The fact that your girl had gestational diabetes made her situation way different. Babies of women with diabetes tend to grow way too large. I eat the recommended amount of cals. per day.

WOW.

See what I mean?

 

[Gymgurl]

How about the people that just want to rub your belly....UGH

 

[heatherrae]

How about the people that just want to rub your belly....UGH

Oh yeah. That is WEIRD! I call them the "bump gropers."

 

[Cutiebaby]

I used to love it when people would tell me how great I look...When I knew I looked silly as hell..Little stick arms and legs with a beach ball belly bags under my eyes...Yeah I was beautiful

 

[heatherrae]

I used to love it when people would tell me how great I look...When I knew I looked silly as hell..Little stick arms and legs with a beach ball belly bags under my eyes...Yeah I was beautiful

Honestly, the only person in real life who has told me how good I look is the perinatologist. he told me I was beautiful and "glowing."

Everyone else has felt the need to evaluate everything I eat, wear, do, etc...lol.

 

[Inhibitor13]

Its ok, big momma bear.... just ignore them... lol

please dont e-hit me for that one, I had to say it..

 

[heatherrae]

Its ok, big momma bear.... just ignore them... lol

please dont e-hit me for that one, I had to say it..

When I was in Florida, everyone was calling me "momma." Being that this is my first child, I found myself looking around like "are they talking about me?"

On the plus side, I went to one of those Japanese steakhouses where they cook at the table. The guy kept throwing extra food on my plate saying "momma need more to feed baby." lol. I liked that guy!

 

[jestro]

I guess you missed the part about the nutritional advice and the comparisons to other women...



I'm not supposed to be on a diet while pregnant. It isn't good for the baby. The fact that your girl had gestational diabetes made her situation way different. Babies of women with diabetes tend to grow way too large. I eat the recommended amount of cals. per day.

WOW.

See what I mean?

Look fatty, the dudes trying to give you some advice. Maybe you should take it. You don't know everything about being pregnant and having babies, in fact you probably know very little. Quit with the hormones, jeeezzzusss!

Who said your not supposed to be on a diet while your pregnant. Every on on this board is on a "diet" of one form or another, diet is just what you eat. Mobro said the doctor hooked up the diet, so he probably knows whats what.
If you listened, he didn't say anything about the amount of calories, he said small clean meals 5-6 times a day. That's good shit for anyone.

 

[heatherrae]

Look fatty, the dudes trying to give you some advice. Maybe you should take it. You don't know everything about being pregnant and having babies, in fact you probably know very little. Quit with the hormones, jeeezzzusss!

Who said your not supposed to be on a diet while your pregnant. Every on on this board is on a "diet" of one form or another, diet is just what you eat. Mobro said the doctor hooked up the diet, so he probably knows whats what.
If you listened, he didn't say anything about the amount of calories, he said small clean meals 5-6 times a day. That's good shit for anyone.

Ummmm....thanks doc for proving my point even more.

I'm glad you know about what I may or may not be eating, what MY doc recommended, about gestational diabetes, etc. Gestational diabetes and being overweight before being pregnant (which was his girl's situation) was different than mine. For a girl who is not overweight and does not have gestational diabetes, the doc recommends an extra 300 cals per day above normal. It is not healthy to try to lose during pregnancy. My doctor says me and the baby are 100% healthy, but THANKS for the advice.

I think I'll take my docs advice instead of yours, but thanks very much.

 

[jestro]

I think I'll take my docs advice instead of yours, but thanks very much.

I don't remember giving you any advice. The 5-6 small clean meals? I was just pointing out that that is healthy for anyone. The size and compostion of the meal would vary by person.

I think your hormones are going crazy, and your turning into a nutcase. Fact.


Check it out sister, you need to know this. Every parent you talk to for the next 18 years is going to relate their experiences to you. Some of it will be bullshit, some of it will be very good info. So you can listen, or stuff your finger in your ears and say "you're not the boss of me".

 

[heatherrae]

I don't remember giving you any advice. The 5-6 small clean meals? I was just pointing out that that is healthy for anyone. The size and compostion of the meal would vary by person.

I think your hormones are going crazy, and your turning into a nutcase. Fact.


Check it out sister, you need to know this. Every parent you talk to for the next 18 years is going to relate their experiences to you. Some of it will be bullshit, some of it will be very good info. So you can listen, or stuff your finger in your ears and say "you're not the boss of me".

do you know how many meals I eat or what they consist of?

Okay, thanks.

Trust me, when you are pregnant, you have people all day long come up to evaluate what you should be doing and eating, etc. It gets annoying and rude.

 

[Faizakafez]

I'm pregnant

 

[heatherrae]

I'm pregnant

Oh, well don't eat dairy, spicy foods, caffeine, fruit, meat, carbs, or fat. I'm not sure what that leaves to eat. Maybe soybeans?

You are going to lose your 6 pack, mister.

 

[Faizakafez]

i need to use the washroom..

 

[heatherrae]

i need to use the washroom..

 

[Faizakafez]

*waddle * waddle*

 

[Gymgurl]

I'm pregnant

Can I grope your bump? lol

 

[heatherrae]

Can I grope your bump? lol

WHORE!!!

 

[Faizakafez]

Can I grope your bump? lol

sure... i have enough grope for all.

*i'm hungry pregenancy aside*

 

[Sub-Zero]

No, I'm not tipping 200 lbs. I'm only 5'3" Still, I have lots of work to do after the baby is here. When I was on vacation, I swam every day and I did 30 minutes or either the bike or the stair stepper at the gym, but that was really ALL I could do without getting way out of sorts.

I want to get down to like 110 lbs after the baby. That is where I'm most comfortable. I had gained before I was pregnant and was at about 125 when the baby was conceived. Hopefully, I can get back into good shape and won't be too stretched out in the abs and such.

i see. your alot smaller than i thought, i dunno why but i thought u were one of those 5'8 wimmin

 

[Sub-Zero]

do you know how many meals I eat or what they consist of?

Okay, thanks.

Trust me, when you are pregnant, you have people all day long come up to evaluate what you should be doing and eating, etc. It gets annoying and rude.

people do that to me and im not even pregnant

 

[heatherrae]

people do that to me and im not even pregnant

lol...annoying, isn't it?

 

[Sub-Zero]

lol...annoying, isn't it?

yeah it almost made me cry and im like "Mom you need to stop commenting about what i eat" then i refused to eat dinner with my family. true story.

 

[heatherrae]

yeah it almost made me cry and im like "Mom you need to stop commenting about what i eat" then i refused to eat dinner with my family. true story.

yeah, generally I think that people know how they look, and other people should not be food police unless we are talking about someone's own children who are still CHILDREN.

Ah well, some of it is funny, though. I have to laugh at some of the advice.

I couldn't get over that a guy told me that if I didn't drink more milk I wouldn't make any milk for the baby. LOL. That one was funny.

 

[jh1]

yeah it almost made me cry and im like "Mom you need to stop commenting about what i eat" then i refused to eat dinner with my family. true story.

LOL... slap that bitch. Don't cry, pussy.

 

[Sub-Zero]

LOL... slap that bitch. Don't cry, pussy.

lol i didnt actually cry. but i acted like a baby.

my brother came in the room and was like "please eat with us, they promised not to comment on anything"

and i still said fuck that, and once they were all done i went down and ate, and my dad was cleaning up and goes "can i get you cucumbers or something"

im like "no im good"

hes like

"so nothing green to eat"

im like no

mother fuckers

 

[RottenWillow]

Later, when I ordered a diet coke, she gave me a water instead and said I couldn't drink caffeine.

I didnt ask you for water. Now take this back to the your little kitchenette and pore it over your head, then bring me the coke I requested.

 

[heatherrae]

I didnt ask you for water. Now take this back to the your little kitchenette and pore it over your head, then bring me the coke I requested.

LOL...I didn't have the energy to fight. I had run the entire airport in 5 minutes and nearly missed my connecting flight. I thought I was going to go into labor right then and there.

 

[flex229]

here's a good one: "are your tits always that nice, or are you just pregnant?"

 

[Gymgurl]

WHORE!!!

Sorry something sexy about a bump lol

 

[bigmann245]

i love it when a person has 2 or more kids and they think they are experts. just because it may have worked for you doesnt mean it will work for the next person. when my wife was pregnant with our son she gained a whole lot fo weight. they didnt find out she had gestational diabetes till the 7th month, THEN they decided to put her on a diet. but i felt bad she was gaining all that weight so to help ease her emotional roller coaster i gained weight with her. i went from 225 to pushing 300 in those 7 months. did it work??? absolutely. was it the right thing to do?? for us it was and i dont regret it one bit because i knew i could hit the gym and diet real hard and lose it larer i just wanted to make her not feel like something was wrong with her. im not saying everyone should do this but for us it worked. next time we know for sure she will have to be on a diet. oh and BTW when she was put on a diet i too went on the same diet. not because i needed it but because she was on it and i couldnt sit there and eat taco bell right infront of her shen all she could eat was baked chicken and broccoli. its called making sacrifices.

as far as the rude comments yea i completely understand. but i told my wife early on in her pregnancy to take the advice with a grain of salt and do what you feel is right for YOU not them. in my eyes she was the most beautiful person in the world and i told her that ALL the time. i was proud to be by her side. i went to EVERY doctors appointment and when our son was born he had problems because they caught the diabetes late and he had to stay in the hospital for about 7 days. i stayed there the entire 7 days and never left her or my sons side. i had my inlaws bring me clothes and i took showers in the hospital. (they wouldnt let me so i had to sneek them in). they tried to tell me i had to leave at night but i told them to call the police because thats the only way i was leaving. they left me alone after that.

the moral of the story is, fuck the haters, tell the perfect moms to sit on it and spin and never let anyone tell you that you are not beautiful because you are a very beautiful person and they are jealous. dont let them get to you.

 

[heatherrae]

i love it when a person has 2 or more kids and they think they are experts. just because it may have worked for you doesnt mean it will work for the next person. when my wife was pregnant with our son she gained a whole lot fo weight. they didnt find out she had gestational diabetes till the 7th month, THEN they decided to put her on a diet. but i felt bad she was gaining all that weight so to help ease her emotional roller coaster i gained weight with her. i went from 225 to pushing 300 in those 7 months. did it work??? absolutely. was it the right thing to do?? for us it was and i dont regret it one bit because i knew i could hit the gym and diet real hard and lose it larer i just wanted to make her not feel like something was wrong with her. im not saying everyone should do this but for us it worked. next time we know for sure she will have to be on a diet. oh and BTW when she was put on a diet i too went on the same diet. not because i needed it but because she was on it and i couldnt sit there and eat taco bell right infront of her shen all she could eat was baked chicken and broccoli. its called making sacrifices.

as far as the rude comments yea i completely understand. but i told my wife early on in her pregnancy to take the advice with a grain of salt and do what you feel is right for YOU not them. in my eyes she was the most beautiful person in the world and i told her that ALL the time. i was proud to be by her side. i went to EVERY doctors appointment and when our son was born he had problems because they caught the diabetes late and he had to stay in the hospital for about 7 days. i stayed there the entire 7 days and never left her or my sons side. i had my inlaws bring me clothes and i took showers in the hospital. (they wouldnt let me so i had to sneek them in). they tried to tell me i had to leave at night but i told them to call the police because thats the only way i was leaving. they left me alone after that.

the moral of the story is, fuck the haters, tell the perfect moms to sit on it and spin and never let anyone tell you that you are not beautiful because you are a very beautiful person and they are jealous. dont let them get to you.

Wow! You are a good fella!