Funny story...
Back in college - 1990 ish.
A guy friend was getting engaged to his 6 year girlfriend.
She was a *cough* virgin (ie. by his definition they did everything but vaginal insertion with a penis sex).
Anywhoo.
Her Bacherette party - (BAHAHAHA - slut) she experienced her first penis insertion sex (the stripper) and the wedding was called off.
She felt she should *cough* date more and have more experience (sex - the non-virgin kind) with other men.
Many penises and three rings later the man with the most money won and she did finally get married in 1996.
Personally.......
I call bullshit. You're not so pure and innoccent taking it every which way but - you make real virgins (those that do not have any form of sex) look bad. You're orgasming, you're getting off and getting someone else off - you are having sex.
Just my opinion.