To stay or go?

[machaveli]

if you love them, work it out otherwise, run forrest, run!

 

[manny78]

If you are with someone that you like and:

1) You love them
2) They love you

There is no single reason why you can't fix ANYTHING. ANYTHING can be fixed. You can teach someone how to treat you different, how to understand you, or how to give you what you need in bed. You can find someone else that treats you nice...BUT...

You may never feel that feeling inside of your heart ever again in your life. Trust me on this...you really may never again. You can't control what you feel inside of your heart.

I was talking with a woman a few weeks back about her boyfriend that lives away from her. She loves him, he loves her. They argue a bit over little issues (things that she has done to him and things that he has done to her) and she doesn't see how they can work it out. I told her "If you love him and he loves you...the two of you TOGETHER can work through ANYTHING...if you LOVE each other enough."

That is the truth...but you must love each other enough to understand each other and to be able to satisfy the other's needs. There isn't much that I wouldn't do for a woman that I loved...even go to counseling or learning about how to please her sexually.

I am not perfect by any means...but for the woman that I love...I want to be PERFECT to her. I want to be everything that she has ever wanted in a man... I want to touch her deep within her soul...

B True

Word.

Now just curious, what do you mean by "sex is horrible". Could you please tell us more ?

 

[avenirup]

Go

 

[PBR]

the other element which in IMO is the most important- to even get off the ground with in the first place is PASSION....if you dont have it in any kind of relationship-especially marraige- one of you will seek it...

 

[obiwan9962]

4 years ago i would have said stay and work things out
been there
tried it
did lots of talking
did some counseling




now i say RUN LIKE HELL and find another man/gal and get lots of oral and fuck like bunnies

 

[Robert Jan]

depends on many factors. the older you are the more important relationship conservation gets. how about option 3- try and make the sex better

 

[Barak]

depends on many factors. the older you are the more important relationship conservation gets. how about option 3- try and make the sex better

With commitment and communication you can fix anything if the other person is willing

 

[yosshimura]

Dont' have an answer for you ... I am in the same boat... well, I guess I have an answer, based on what I am doing .

My and girlfreind 1 of 2 have been together for over 6 months, she's stuck by me last year while I was going through some crap, but sex sucks... she dont' do it for me,... even the making out ... That's where girlfreind # 2 comes in, she does it to me in bed, but girlfreind number one does it for me in the communication stage..

Tough to dump her, but sex is sooo important and I its getting too close for comfort with both of them at once, LOL... so bottom line dump him.

I haven't dumped her, just ignoring her, and hopefully she will fall into the booty call category.. I mean I can still fuck her once in a while, but would hate to just rely on her for sex.. OR do that with him, get some on the side, and keep him for whatever else he is good for.

 

[Gambino]

Anytime the sex in a relationship goes bad, the relationship is fucked...