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Thought I would share - just got these photos back

Smurfy said:
Surely by now you know this is the most you should ever expect from any thread.

ps. those are great pics. you're such a gorgeous girl (im not gay or headed that way)
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Thank you. :) I knew what you meant. LOL.
 
foreigngirl said:
lol

sorry, I had to laugh



IP, you are so good looking. Now you can change that avi, cuz it gives me the 80's prom night image in my head
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LOL. Sorry about that. I was having issues with my avatar and that was the only pic that fit so I gave up... Hehe.

I may have been in diapers during that time

<--- born in 1984.
 
tonyroma said:
this thread is flooded with player haters
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There is a lot of haters, but he is not a player.

A player doesn't have to take girls out, tell them the love them, buy them dinners, let them live in there house, propose to them, take gay pics with her, etc.

These people are not players. You have no game if you have to do that stuff for sex.

I am not hating on him. I am just disagreeing in your definition of a player.

He probably was, or could be a player if he wanted to be. If he wants to marry, and have kids with a young inexperienced girl. Then, I am sure he knows the statistics that she will leave him to make up what she missed out on by marrying her first lover and being so young.

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HumanTarget said:
so who else is a hebrew? ya know, ze' Germans didn't care for them much...
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all the whey said:
There is a lot of haters, but he is not a player.

A player doesn't have to take girls out, tell them the love them, buy them dinners, let them live in there house, propose to them, take gay pics with her, etc.

These people are not players. You have no game if you have to do that stuff for sex.

I am not hating on him. I am just disagreeing in your definition of a player.

He probably was, or could be a player if he wanted to be. If he wants to marry, and have kids with a young inexperienced girl. Then, I am sure he knows the statistics that she will leave him to make up what she missed out on by marrying her first lover and being so young.

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scathing retort. cheers.
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
LOL. Sorry about that. I was having issues with my avatar and that was the only pic that fit so I gave up... Hehe.

I may have been in diapers during that time

<--- born in 1984.
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U were born in 84? damn I feel old :worried:
 
all the whey said:
There is a lot of haters, but he is not a player.

A player doesn't have to take girls out, tell them the love them, buy them dinners, let them live in there house, propose to them, take gay pics with her, etc.

These people are not players. You have no game if you have to do that stuff for sex.

I am not hating on him. I am just disagreeing in your definition of a player.

He probably was, or could be a player if he wanted to be. If he wants to marry, and have kids with a young inexperienced girl. Then, I am sure he knows the statistics that she will leave him to make up what she missed out on by marrying her first lover and being so young.

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OMFG!!!!!

I married at 20. Never left my husband to marry my first love. Where the fuck you get these statistics?

Oh, wait...this is USA, I forgot
 
all the whey said:
There is a lot of haters, but he is not a player.

A player doesn't have to take girls out, tell them the love them, buy them dinners, let them live in there house, propose to them, take gay pics with her, etc.

These people are not players. You have no game if you have to do that stuff for sex.

I am not hating on him. I am just disagreeing in your definition of a player.

He probably was, or could be a player if he wanted to be. If he wants to marry, and have kids with a young inexperienced girl. Then, I am sure he knows the statistics that she will leave him to make up what she missed out on by marrying her first lover and being so young.

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I totally hear what you're saying however that isn't always the case. I don't feel I am missing out on anything. I don't like to party (I've seen the scene and cannot stand it), and I totally understand how it's important to date around and learn what you like, etc. But, some peeps this kind of stuff works out. My Uncle married his high school sweetheart and has never looked back. Loves her more than anything..

Not all girls need to go back and make up for "lost fun," or whatever else it is. Luckily, I don't feel the need to do that type of stuff. I hate the nightlife scene and I feel that I am not the type of person to date a lot of different peeps. When my heart tells me something I listen - sounds corny but it's the truth. AND I could be wrong, too.
 
when she's 36 she'll leave him for a 34 yo. LOL at that time her model will be over the hill :)

I'm a hater but not a playa hata
 
you're beautiful. . .and way to hot for mr. scruffy face. . .tell him he's lucky and he better toe the line. . .no way he's doin' better than you :)
 
foreigngirl said:
OMFG!!!!!

I married at 20. Never left my husband to marry my first love. Where the fuck you get these statistics?

Oh, wait...this is USA, I forgot
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it's called democracy. the rest of the world should try it. it's inevitable, anyway...
 
HumanTarget said:
it's called democracy. the rest of the world should try it. it's inevitable, anyway...
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screw democracy. We like our chaos. Its fun. No limits. No laws. No 14 yo prego girls. No single moms sucking the governments money.....ahhhhhh
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
LOL. Sorry about that. I was having issues with my avatar and that was the only pic that fit so I gave up... Hehe.

I may have been in diapers during that time

<--- born in 1984.
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omg I was already menstruating in 1984
 
digimon7068 said:
you're beautiful. . .and way to hot for mr. scruffy face. . .tell him he's lucky and he better toe the line. . .no way he's doin' better than you :)
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LOL. That is so sweet. Don't make me blush. I don't deserve this.

He's a great guy. Would do anything for me (literally). A very caring person. But thank you. :) ;)

I told mr scruffy face to have scruff for the photo shoot. I don't know I just love that. Hehe.
 
foreigngirl said:
OMFG!!!!!

I married at 20. Never left my husband to marry my first love. Where the fuck you get these statistics?

Oh, wait...this is USA, I forgot
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bro, i don't know about those numbers or nothing, but i'm pretty sure it's not a good idea to question statistics merely by giving your own example as a counter.

unless you were just saying, in which case, allaho akbar.
 
jerkbox said:
i have a photoshoot scheduled for me and my cat next week....i better get the same kind of responses when i post up y'all
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Awww! I'll post. I have hundreds of pics of my dogs. Actually, this photographer photoshoots animals, too. Such cute pics I saw. Maybe for my two shepherds next time..
 
jackangel said:
bro, i don't know about those numbers or nothing, but i'm pretty sure it's not a good idea to question statistics merely by giving your own example as a counter.

unless you were just saying, in which case, allaho akbar.
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I was just sayin.....allahu akbar, may peace be upon you good man
 
foreigngirl said:
naaaaaaaaaa........just 6 years :( I'll be 29 in July. By 23 I was already pregnant :worried:
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Whoa! Well hey whatever works! No way I can have kids now. Grad school in the fall and I'm nervous enough about that! 5 more years of my liffeeee...ahhhhh...

Oh well - I put myself in that position and I am ready to take on the responsibility. But still... I always thought it would be awesome to have kids relatively young because then you can be there to see more...
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
Whoa! Well hey whatever works! No way I can have kids now. Grad school in the fall and I'm nervous enough about that! 5 more years of my liffeeee...ahhhhh...

Oh well - I put myself in that position and I am ready to take on the responsibility. But still... I always thought it would be awesome to have kids relatively young because then you can be there to see more...
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take your time. Dont let a "mistake" get in your way of your schooling.
 
does he know your cheating on him, and posting on a fitness bodybuilding board and slowly leaking pics so you can get hit on because your obviously not happy with him?

this is how heatherrae started out.

welcome to EF
 
foreigngirl said:
take your time. Dont let a "mistake" get in your way of your schooling.
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:) I will try. No matter what I will get a Doctorate. My goal is to complete my Masters/Doctorate within 5 years. Now whether or not that plan changes for some reason (which I hope it won't), I will finish eventually. :) 2012. My goal.
 
foreigngirl said:
OMFG!!!!!

I married at 20. Never left my husband to marry my first love. Where the fuck you get these statistics?

Oh, wait...this is USA, I forgot
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Any of us can post the statistics that over half of the marriages fail, and the increases in percentages of failure based on being under 25, not having a college degree, not making atleast 55k, having atleast 1 parent who was divorced.


But, these statistics mean nothing to women, because they argue the same thing everytime. "I"

Sorry, but the statistics are not based on "I". (you and your husband)

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foreigngirl said:
screw democracy. We like our chaos. Its fun. No limits. No laws. No 14 yo prego girls. No single moms sucking the governments money.....ahhhhhh
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then go back. nothing worse than an ungrateful immigrant.
 
SublimeZM said:
does he know your cheating on him, and posting on a fitness bodybuilding board and slowly leaking pics so you can get hit on because your obviously not happy with him?

this is how heatherrae started out.

welcome to EF
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:heart:
 
SublimeZM said:
does he know your cheating on him, and posting on a fitness bodybuilding board and slowly leaking pics so you can get hit on because your obviously not happy with him?

this is how heatherrae started out.

welcome to EF
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Lmao. I have these pics up on myspace and he knows that. Believe me, if I wanted to get "hit on" I would post up different pictures than this - with my b/f NOT in them.

Not sure what type of female you are used to but there are people on here whose intentions are not purely to "hit on" any girl that posts a picture. I have had NUMEROUS women comment and in fact, I tend to have the most interesting conversations with them.

Thanks Dr Phil.

*News Flash* Dr. Phil sucks

P.S. I like to brag about my b/f as well - if you haven't noticed. That's the main reason I posted these.
 
SublimeZM said:
does he know your cheating on him, and posting on a fitness bodybuilding board and slowly leaking pics so you can get hit on because your obviously not happy with him?

this is how heatherrae started out.

welcome to EF
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LOL...i knew this was coming.

all women are attention whores whether they know it or not. Not all have the intention of cheating, but they all do it for a reason. Often online is a safe haven for attention, as opposed to out on the streets.
As a man, you just gotta play the game awhole lot better and keep the attraction realllllllllllllll strong to counteract it.

i can't tell you how many relationships i've seen broken because of online shit (myspace, boards like this). Including my own. Either they caught somebody cheating or trying to cheat...or being an attention whore and posting pics they shouldn't be, etc.

Ever seen that shirt that says "Myspace ruined my life"?. yep, it's true.

that being said, i think IP is not leaving her boyfriend anytime soon. when you talk so much about a person, you're pretty hooked.

that is until i become straight :)
LOL
 
all the whey said:
Any of us can post the statistics that over half of the marriages fail, and the increases in percentages of failure based on being under 25, not having a college degree, not making atleast 55k, having atleast 1 parent who was divorced.


But, these statistics mean nothing to women, because they argue the same thing everytime. "I"

Sorry, but the staticss are not based on "I". (you and your husband)

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you mean:

based on not being thought morals and ethics

based on not having enough attention from any parents (cuz they are too busy working their ass off), so they cling on any guy that gives them the time of the day and then years later (after they have kids) they realize he was not for them

based on - oh, she is pregnant, lets marry right away even though we dont know if we are right for each other

based on - the guy wants to marry just because he loves the girl, but is not ready to change his wild partying ways with friends and wife gets sick of it

based on marrying only because of sexual compatability
 
SublimeZM said:
does he know your cheating on him, and posting on a fitness bodybuilding board and slowly leaking pics so you can get hit on because your obviously not happy with him?

this is how heatherrae started out.

welcome to EF
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lol

you slut
 
calveless wonder said:
LOL...i knew this was coming.

all women are attention whores whether they know it or not. Not all have the intention of cheating, but they all do it for a reason. Often online is a safe haven for attention, as opposed to out on the streets.
As a man, you just gotta play the game awhole lot better and keep the attraction realllllllllllllll strong to counteract it.

i can't tell you how many relationships i've seen broken because of online shit (myspace, boards like this). Including my own. Either they caught somebody cheating or trying to cheat...or being an attention whore and posting pics they shouldn't be, etc.

Ever seen that shirt that says "Myspace ruined my life"?. yep, it's true.

that being said, i think IP is not leaving her boyfriend anytime soon. when you talk so much about a person, you're pretty hooked.

that is until i became straight :)
LOL
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LOL. No no I totally understand what you're saying here and I AGREE. But, I post these pictures to brag about my b/f and the couple of me that were mixed in, were just thrown in since i copied/pasted the pics as whole into this thread. But I do understand how the internet can ruin a relationship. Especially if you're relationship isn't strong or someone is looking for something that they aren't getting IN that relationship. I definitely am not planning on leaving my b/f and that was not the reason I posted these pics. I just thought it was something nice to share. If I wanted the attention, believe me, I could have posted what many would consider "better," "attention" pictures. But I didn't because as I said, that was not the point of this thread.

Girls are attention whores. I couldn't agree more. But then again, anyone who says they don't like attention is lying. I just like it most from Peter.
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HumanTarget said:
then go back. nothing worse than an ungrateful immigrant.
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you are pretty bitter

How many immigrants have YOU seen loving their live-in country better than the country where they were born and raised? If you move out of US, this is still gonna be the most loveliest place on Earth to be at. I would be very unpatriotic and ungratefull to say that the place that raised me is pile of shit.
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
Lmao. I have these pics up on myspace and he knows that. Believe me, if I wanted to get "hit on" I would post up different pictures than this - with my b/f NOT in them.

Not sure what type of female you are used to but there are people on here whose intentions are not purely to "hit on" any girl that posts a picture. I have had NUMEROUS women comment and in fact, I tend to have the most interesting conversations with them.

Thanks Dr Phil.

*News Flash* Dr. Phil sucks

P.S. I like to brag about my b/f as well - if you haven't noticed. That's the main reason I posted these.
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this is a bodybuilding site not a happy couple's site. we dont really care about how he looks, or you two look together, although you are hot and he does have a big jacked face which suggests a big frame with some quality muscle on it.

what got you to join this site? why post so many pictures all of different angles for us to see, and to compliment you on?

you obviously want something from us that you couldnt get without flaunting your virgin, loyal, perfect good looks.

are you raina's sister?
 
This thread may hold a record with a shitload of posts in a short amounf of time. And we have two totally different conversations going on. LOL. Actually, we have MANY different conversations going on. Hehe.
 
SublimeZM said:
this is a bodybuilding site not a happy couple's site. we dont really care about how he looks, or you two look together, although you are hot and he does have a big jacked face which suggests a big frame with some quality muscle on it.

what got you to join this site? why post so many pictures all of different angles for us to see, and to compliment you on?

you obviously want something from us that you couldnt get without flaunting your virgin, loyal, perfect good looks.

are you raina's sister?
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Whether or not you care, is not my concern. I joined to read up on fitness and chat with interesting/intellectual people (whether they are male/female). I put a pic up in an avatar and a pic in my profile. Both normal pictures (what you would call normal). So many different angles? I have not posted pictures up unless someone asked me about something or asked me to post a picture or a few to show I am not an "alter," or whatever you term that. I don't sit here post pic and pic. I was excited about this photoshoot that Peter and I did together so I wanted to share some pictures. Big deal. You seem to be the only one getting your panties in a bunch over this and totally overanalyzing this.

Let me guess - a girl did this to you? She went on a board and dumped you for internet peeps who were giving her more attention? I mean what is it? You are totally off the mark with me. No joke. I'm a pretty honest person and I would admit if I had other intentions because as I said earlier, who DOESN'T like attention? But this thread - that was not my point.
 
calveless wonder said:
LOL...i knew this was coming.

all women are attention whores whether they know it or not. Not all have the intention of cheating, but they all do it for a reason. Often online is a safe haven for attention, as opposed to out on the streets.
As a man, you just gotta play the game awhole lot better and keep the attraction realllllllllllllll strong to counteract it.

i can't tell you how many relationships i've seen broken because of online shit (myspace, boards like this). Including my own. Either they caught somebody cheating or trying to cheat...or being an attention whore and posting pics they shouldn't be, etc.

Ever seen that shirt that says "Myspace ruined my life"?. yep, it's true.

that being said, i think IP is not leaving her boyfriend anytime soon. when you talk so much about a person, you're pretty hooked.

that is until i become straight :)
LOL
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i didnt really get the bold part, but i agree with everything you posted about women being attention whores, and whether she realizes or not, or its her intention or not, shes gunna start enjoying the attention more from another source, which will lead to cheating, or at least her straying from him and relationship problems, even if she doesnt sleep around
 
SublimeZM said:
i didnt really get the bold part, but i agree with everything you posted about women being attention whores, and whether she realizes or not, or its her intention or not, shes gunna start enjoying the attention more from another source, which will lead to cheating, or at least her straying from him and relationship problems, even if she doesnt sleep around
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now I wanna post some pix too damn it. I need some extra attention
 
foreigngirl said:
you are pretty bitter

How many immigrants have YOU seen loving their live-in country better than the country where they were born and raised? If you move out of US, this is still gonna be the most loveliest place on Earth to be at. I would be very unpatriotic and ungratefull to say that the place that raised me is pile of shit.
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so i get to be biiter? nice assumption. but far off. i'm just saying, seeing lots of middle easterners coming here and trash talking the states. i'm old fashioned if anything: love it or leave it. i think it's mostly the fact that where you came from sucks and was an utter failure when it came to adding to the quality of your life. so you bailed. good thing the USA is such a nice plan B.
 
heavy_duty said:
this is going to be 20 pages :(
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The force is strong with her. She must go to the Dagobah system and seek out bikinimom and heatherrae to complete her training.
 
SublimeZM said:
i didnt really get the bold part, but i agree with everything you posted about women being attention whores, and whether she realizes or not, or its her intention or not, shes gunna start enjoying the attention more from another source, which will lead to cheating, or at least her straying from him and relationship problems, even if she doesnt sleep around
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I laugh because you know nothing about me. If attention is what causes a person to cheat, then they have FAR more troubles than just that.

I would never cheat. Have no desire to. Sure it's nice to get compliments from you peeps (I'm not going to lie), but that does not mean in anyway, that I am going to stray from my relationship, or lead to problems, etc. Not all girls think that way. Sorry to break it.

You can think what you want, but your thinking is inaccurate in my circumstance. Any hoo I am heading to be shortly.. I am pooped.
 
HumanTarget said:
so i get to be biiter? nice assumption. but far off. i'm just saying, seeing lots of middle easterners coming here and trash talking the states. i'm old fashioned if anything: love it or leave it. i think it's mostly the fact that where you came from sucks and was an utter failure when it came to adding to the quality of your life. so you bailed. good thing the USA is such a nice plan B.
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USA was not even planned. It just happened. I had a nice life (not rich, but OK), but decided to leave in the name of love. Thought that the way the guys were going there, I will never settle down.

So, recap - USA was never in my mind. I respect it, like it, but not LOVE IT
 
SublimeZM said:
i didnt really get the bold part, but i agree with everything you posted about women being attention whores, and whether she realizes or not, or its her intention or not, shes gunna start enjoying the attention more from another source, which will lead to cheating, or at least her straying from him and relationship problems, even if she doesnt sleep around
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eh...i don't think so. he's got her hooked.

if the dude is on top of his game it becomes irrelevant. if you slip or become too much a pushover or don't hold your value...that's when it happens.

i'm talking from experience here....
 
foreigngirl said:
USA was not even planned. It just happened. I had a nice life (not rich, but OK), but decided to leave in the name of love. Thought that the way the guys were going there, I will never settle down.

So, recap - USA was never in my mind. I respect it, like it, but not LOVE IT
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nicely said, Comrade...
 
calveless wonder said:
eh...i don't think so. he's got her hooked.

if the dude is on top of his game it becomes irrelevant. if you slip or become too much a pushover or don't hold your value...that's when it happens.

i'm talking from experience here....
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Thank you. I am hooked. Totally. But I know people can look at this as being a bad thing. I don't mean obsessed. I just mean in love. I know I'm young and have a lot to learn but I don't argue with my heart - nothing comes inbetween that. I would never cheat - EVER. I think thats a coward way to end something. You don't want to be with someone or you want to screw around, then break up with them.
 
SublimeZM said:
this is a bodybuilding site not a happy couple's site. we dont really care about how he looks, or you two look together
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If that's true - then why are there over 150 posts on this picture thread>?
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
I would never cheat - EVER. I think thats a coward way to end something. You don't want to be with someone or you want to screw around, then break up with them.
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wish you told my ex that..yeah, the one that looked like you LOL
 
calveless wonder said:
You wish you told my ex that..yeah, the one that looked like you LOL
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Did you mean YOU wish I told your ex that? Sorry - that sentence confused me a bit. Tee hee.

Was your ex a not so nice girl? Or she cheat on you? I can't stand people who do that.
 
Smurfy said:
If that's true - then why are there over 150 posts on this picture thread>?
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LMAO. I think I just broke a rib laughing. Good point, mama!

I find that people tend to be more interested in these kinds of threads. Who knows.. could be my young inexperienced self talking again..lol.
 
foreigngirl said:
you mean:

based on not being thought morals and ethics

based on not having enough attention from any parents (cuz they are too busy working their ass off), so they cling on any guy that gives them the time of the day and then years later (after they have kids) they realize he was not for them

based on - oh, she is pregnant, lets marry right away even though we dont know if we are right for each other

based on - the guy wants to marry just because he loves the girl, but is not ready to change his wild partying ways with friends and wife gets sick of it

based on marrying only because of sexual compatability
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Are you done arguing that you are still married, so staticts in America are wrong?

Is the list things you mentioned just a Red Herring? (Phase 2 of women arguing against statistics or reason.)

However, the things you listed are similar to what I listed that increase the odds of failure of a marriage. For example, in my county the divorce rate is 58%. The risk of divorce is increased approximately 15% if married under 25. (approx. 73% chance of failure) It is possible the things you listed have been studied also. So, obviously the people you listed have a higher chance to get a divorce than straight 58% in my area.


Back to the subject. At no time did I say "All", "foreigngirl", or "Iquisitive's cousins roomate uncle that met in HS and never looked back". I was simply saying that based on most statistics the younger have more of a chance for failure. I know your area's statistics are different than mine. And, I know statistics can vary based on random samples, etc.


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caligirl said:
calling it like I see it darlin' there's chemistry in those pics.......you guys look great together :)
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Yeah- to be honest, I couldn't control myself the minute we started taking the photos together. LOL. I was all over him. Hehe.

The funniest part of the photoshoot was when I (no joke) tripped over the chair and fell on my ass. I wish she would have gotten a pic of that. Omg.. lmao. Seriously though - I don't know why I am always tripping. Haha.
 
all the whey said:
Are you done arguing that you are still married, so staticts in America are wrong?

Is the list things you mentioned just a Red Herring? (Phase 2 of women arguing against statistics or reason.)

However, the things you listed are similar to what I listed that increase the odds of failure of a marriage. For example, in my county the divorce rate is 58%. The risk of divorce is increased approximately 15% if married under 25. (approx. 73% chance of failure) It is possible the things you listed have been studied also. So, obviously the people you listed have a higher chance to get a divorce than straight 58% in my area.


Back to the subject. At no time did I say "All", "foreigngirl", or "Iquisitive's cousins roomate uncle that met in HS and never looked back". I was simply saying that based on most statistics the younger have more of a chance for failure. I know your area's statistics are different than mine. And, I know statistics can vary based on random samples, etc.


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she makes a great salad.
 
calveless wonder said:
LOL...i knew this was coming.

all women are attention whores whether they know it or not. Not all have the intention of cheating, but they all do it for a reason. Often online is a safe haven for attention, as opposed to out on the streets.
As a man, you just gotta play the game awhole lot better and keep the attraction realllllllllllllll strong to counteract it.

i can't tell you how many relationships i've seen broken because of online shit (myspace, boards like this). Including my own. Either they caught somebody cheating or trying to cheat...or being an attention whore and posting pics they shouldn't be, etc.

Ever seen that shirt that says "Myspace ruined my life"?. yep, it's true.

that being said, i think IP is not leaving her boyfriend anytime soon. when you talk so much about a person, you're pretty hooked.

that is until i become straight :)
LOL
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InquisitivePsyche said:
Did you mean YOU wish I told your ex that? Sorry - that sentence confused me a bit. Tee hee.

Was your ex a not so nice girl? Or she cheat on you? I can't stand people who do that.
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i know, i fixed it but you post fuckin fast!

she acted as a nice girl. she was beautiful, social, smart....she knew she was the shit. but she was also an attention whore.

It didn't really matter to me much at first...first year or so, because i had her "hooked" and no guy could compete with me.

but then she had alot of major problems....and i basically worked my ass off (and sacrificed alot fo the things that made me happy) to make sure her she didn't have to deal with these problems...things that were ruining her life.
Got a DUI (which i paid to clear up), had silicone implants that got fucked up and almost killed her (which i paid for them to have replaced), got evicted from her apartment (and moved in with me). lost my body from all the stress....dropped outta school to help support her.

i helped her go back to school (in another state where she was from originally) and she repaid me by finding another BF while she was still with me and using me for money and support the whole time she was back up there. apparently this was going on for 6-7 months even while i was flying here back down here to come see me

found out on valentines day thanks to myspace LOL

lesson learned. never give up what makes you valuable and desireable no matter how much another person is fucked up or hurting..or no matter how much you love them.
 
calveless wonder said:
i know, i fixed it but you post fuckin fast!

she acted as a nice girl. she was beautiful, social, smart....she knew she was the shit. but she was also an attention whore.

It didn't really matter to me much at first...first year or so, because i had her "hooked" and no guy could compete with me.

but then she had alot of major problems....and i basically worked my ass off (and sacrificed alot fo the things that made me happy) to make sure her she didn't have to deal with these problems...things that were ruining her life.
Got a DUI (which i paid to clear up), had silicone implants that got fucked up and almost killed her (which i paid for them to have replaced), got evicted from her apartment (and moved in with me). lost my body from all the stress....dropped outta school to help support her.

i helped her go back to school (in another state where she was from originally) and she repaid me by finding another BF while she was still with me and using me for money and support the whole time she was back up there.

found out on valentines day thanks to myspace LOL

lesson learned. never give up what makes you valuable and desireable no matter how much another person is fucked up or hurting..or no matter how much you love them.
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all the whey said:
Are you done arguing that you are still married, so staticts in America are wrong?

Is the list things you mentioned just a Red Herring? (Phase 2 of women arguing against statistics or reason.)

However, the things you listed are similar to what I listed that increase the odds of failure of a marriage. For example, in my county the divorce rate is 58%. The risk of divorce is increased approximately 15% if married under 25. (approx. 73% chance of failure) It is possible the things you listed have been studied also. So, obviously the people you listed have a higher chance to get a divorce than straight 58% in my area.


Back to the subject. At no time did I say "All", "foreigngirl", or "Iquisitive's cousins roomate uncle that met in HS and never looked back". I was simply saying that based on most statistics the younger have more of a chance for failure. I know your area's statistics are different than mine. And, I know statistics can vary based on random samples, etc.


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no, I am not trying to argue that just because I am still married that the statistics were wrong. My first post to you was ment as a joke anyways. But when we got on the subject...

what is red herring? The list I had was merely just my own observation of what is going on around and what I find as a reason of divorce at a lot of cases. Marrying young maybe not so much, depending on the maturity level and home upbringing
 
foreigngirl said:
no, I am not trying to argue that just because I am still married that the statistics were wrong. My first post to you was ment as a joke anyways. But when we got on the subject...

what is red herring? The list I had was merely just my own observation of what is going on around and what I find as a reason of divorce at a lot of cases. Marrying young maybe not so much, depending on the maturity level and home upbringing
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Sorry.

I guess we were both saying the odds of divorce is higher if any of those thing are involved.

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all the whey said:
Sorry.

I guess we were both saying the odds of divorce is higher if any of those thing are involved.

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happens sometimes. Two people are sayin the same thing in different ways
 
calveless wonder said:
i know, i fixed it but you post fuckin fast!

she acted as a nice girl. she was beautiful, social, smart....she knew she was the shit. but she was also an attention whore.

It didn't really matter to me much at first...first year or so, because i had her "hooked" and no guy could compete with me.

but then she had alot of major problems....and i basically worked my ass off (and sacrificed alot fo the things that made me happy) to make sure her she didn't have to deal with these problems...things that were ruining her life.
Got a DUI (which i paid to clear up), had silicone implants that got fucked up and almost killed her (which i paid for them to have replaced), got evicted from her apartment (and moved in with me). lost my body from all the stress....dropped outta school to help support her.

i helped her go back to school (in another state where she was from originally) and she repaid me by finding another BF while she was still with me and using me for money and support the whole time she was back up there. apparently this was going on for 6-7 months even while i was flying here back down here to come see me

found out on valentines day thanks to myspace LOL

lesson learned. never give up what makes you valuable and desireable no matter how much another person is fucked up or hurting..or no matter how much you love them.
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I'm really sorry to hear that. To me, it didn't sound like she loved you (maybe in the beginning). I would never do that to someone because if they are sacrificing their lives and becoming stressed, sick, unhappy, it in no way is worth it to me. I'd rather my partner be happy over myself anyday. Plus, this girl seemed a little dependent. While help is great at times, too much of it causes you to become either dependent or selfish, IMO. Her character doesn't sound NEAR mine. I like doing things on my own, accomplishing things on my own, and suffering MY OWN consequences if I make a mistake. I would never put anything on Peter.

I'm glad you finally found out though because that wasn't fair for you to have to deal with that. You are incredibly sweet if you did all that for her but as you said, you have to be careful. People can start to take advantage of that.
 
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